I am seriously confused and concerned thought I would ask some T-Nation bros and vixens about this. Been batting around my head.
With in a week I meet get the chance to bed 4 girls. I have taken myself out of the game for a while. 6 - 8 months.
Girl A - Hot looking, no kids, younger lacks that girl thing to turn a guy on.
Girl B - OK looking average body knows how to turn a guy on willing and able. No risk of preg cause the factory is removed.
Girl C - Clingy and psyco, loves sex but has limits and sorta ok body.
Girl D - Ex GF, pretty, curvy body(not fat) loves sex and knows what she is doing
So the first girl I get to is girl B. I slam her hard. Over and over I think 3 times in a night. But when it gets to the morning, all I can think of is when is she going to leave. All she wanted was to talk about her baby daddy problems etc. I was like thank gawd when she left. Haven’t spoke to her since.
Next I get to is girl A. She was drunk and I was really tired and she wanted to play games. And I didn’t want to fuck her. I have no idea why. I didn’t want to get hard for her. She lacked that know how of how to turn a guy on. She expected her looks to turn me on. If she blew me and stuff it might have been different but for some reason this little voice said don’t do it.
Next girl D tells me she is coming down with the flu. I am almost thankful. This is not like me at all. I am thinking wow I don’t have to bed another girl and wait for her to leave my house. So its postponed for the time being.
So then that leaves psyco C. She is super txt msg girl from hell. Just always txting me about this and that and sends a nude here and there. But mostly its insecure stuff. Like why haven’t you txt’ed me all day etc. I and thinking about skipping on her too.
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said ;)[/quote]
Well the younger hot one, I did see at the bar on NY’s maken out with some guy. Maybe your right and I picked up she was trash.
I liked being a sleeze ball … I had a rep and shit. Dirtbag was really a nickname I was known by. Super dirty in bed etc
Yeah maybe I do need to settle down with a good woman.
[quote]chobbs wrote:
C personally is my favorite cause of the nudes, they always brighten your day [/quote]
I love getting nudes too. You would be surprised how quickly women txt’d them to you. Some don’t even require a date or fucking them. They just want you so they send them.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said ;)[/quote]
Well the younger hot one, I did see at the bar on NY’s maken out with some guy. Maybe your right and I picked up she was trash.
I liked being a sleeze ball … I had a rep and shit. Dirtbag was really a nickname I was known by. Super dirty in bed etc
Yeah maybe I do need to settle down with a good woman.
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Biologically, the most successful male animals spread their genes with the most females. Keep it dirty!
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said ;)[/quote]
Well the younger hot one, I did see at the bar on NY’s maken out with some guy. Maybe your right and I picked up she was trash.
I liked being a sleeze ball … I had a rep and shit. Dirtbag was really a nickname I was known by. Super dirty in bed etc
Yeah maybe I do need to settle down with a good woman.
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Biologically, the most successful male animals spread their genes with the most females. Keep it dirty![/quote]
Culturally, the most succesful men have fewer children but put more effort into them.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said ;)[/quote]
Well the younger hot one, I did see at the bar on NY’s maken out with some guy. Maybe your right and I picked up she was trash.
I liked being a sleeze ball … I had a rep and shit. Dirtbag was really a nickname I was known by. Super dirty in bed etc
Yeah maybe I do need to settle down with a good woman.
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Biologically, the most successful male animals spread their genes with the most females. Keep it dirty![/quote]
Culturally, the most succesful men have fewer children but put more effort into them. [/quote]
I agree. Condoms mitigate actions that are driven by primate instincts, but control the seed by modern ingenuity! It’s a beautiful thing.
Conversely, dumb trashy people are breeding like feral cats.
To me this sounds like nothing more then wanting an ego stroke. So, you slept with a couple of women in a week. You’re not the first nor the last to do so. Threads like these are why this place is dying a slow death.
[quote]Ronan wrote:
To me this sounds like nothing more then wanting an ego stroke. So, you slept with a couple of women in a week. You’re not the first nor the last to do so. Threads like these are why this place is dying a slow death.[/quote]
Really? I think they are better than some cry babies boo hoo hooing about lost “love”.
[quote]Ronan wrote:
To me this sounds like nothing more then wanting an ego stroke. So, you slept with a couple of women in a week. You’re not the first nor the last to do so. Threads like these are why this place is dying a slow death.[/quote]
Really? I think they are better than some cry babies boo hoo hooing about lost “love”.
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Yeah, I can work with that too. No doubt this place isn’t being taken over by estrogen.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Is there something wrong with me? Why am I being so picky? Its like my interest is not there. No I have not caught the ghey either. Before I would at least get some action even if the connection was not spot on. Now the interest is not there if its a huge hassle.
I am confused… put up the pic for the T-Nation gawds of iron. Thanks for any advice.[/quote]
I think I know what the problem could be… You are maturing and becoming less of a sleeze ball. Not wanting to sleep around with random women when you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you “caught the ghey”… It’s not a bad thing.
Like Orion said, quality over quantity. Find a quality woman who makes you happy and you won’t have trouble getting it up.
If all else fails (or even if it doesn’t) hop on the sauce like csulli said ;)[/quote]
[quote]Ronan wrote:
To me this sounds like nothing more then wanting an ego stroke. So, you slept with a couple of women in a week. You’re not the first nor the last to do so. Threads like these are why this place is dying a slow death.[/quote]
This has nothing to do with ego stoking, trolling or attention getting. I am not one to complain about my sex life. I just had nobody else to talk with that would understand.
I honestly just don’t get why I don’t want to bang these girls. Its really odd for me. I see it as more of a hassle then as something I really like doing. This is alarming to me. As I would have normally nailed them all. It makes me wonder whats wrong with me.
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I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?
[quote]I honestly just don’t get why I don’t want to bang these girls. Its really odd for me. I see it as more of a hassle then as something I really like doing. This is alarming to me. As I would have normally nailed them all. It makes me wonder whats wrong with me.
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I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?[/quote]
*** Congratulations !!! You’ve matured to the point where you want a partner and not a toy. Try it in reverse. Don’t sleep with them until you are sure they are of a quality that has your wanting to keep them around. Then you’ll have more than a toy. You’ll have someone to stick by you through the tough times.
Word of advice from one who has been there. Run like the wind from those with “Baby Daddys”. This fellow will be in your life forever. Her kids will hate you for not being him.
