[quote]dirtman wrote:
I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?[/quote]
My earlier jokes aside, yes, it’s normal. The orgasm ceases to be worth the bullshit.
Eventually.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?[/quote]
My earlier jokes aside, yes, it’s normal. The orgasm ceases to be worth the bullshit.
Eventually.
On a serious note, besides some weird obvious photoshopping and air brushing… That girl in the OP photo is smokin hot.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
[quote]Ronan wrote:
To me this sounds like nothing more then wanting an ego stroke. So, you slept with a couple of women in a week. You’re not the first nor the last to do so. Threads like these are why this place is dying a slow death.[/quote]
This has nothing to do with ego stoking, trolling or attention getting. I am not one to complain about my sex life. I just had nobody else to talk with that would understand.
I honestly just don’t get why I don’t want to bang these girls. Its really odd for me. I see it as more of a hassle then as something I really like doing. This is alarming to me. As I would have normally nailed them all. It makes me wonder whats wrong with me.
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I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?[/quote]
I don’t know if it’s normal or not… or what you even consider “normal” since you seem shocked by your own changing nature… but it happened to me as well.
Most of my life was purely about satisfying my needs, and now girls seem like the biggest waste of time. They aren’t interesting, etc etc etc and they are all so fucking dumb to believe my bullshit over and over and over again.
Like someone said, you are maturing. That’s it. Now you want something more meaningful, and I bet you the sex24/7 will be back once you find a female that the “new” you finds attractive on more levels than just one.
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
[quote]dirtman wrote:
I just wondered if anyone else had been here or gone through this. If its normal or what?[/quote]
My earlier jokes aside, yes, it’s normal. The orgasm ceases to be worth the bullshit.
Eventually.[/quote]
+1 well said.
[quote]gregron wrote:
On a serious note, besides some weird obvious photoshopping and air brushing… That girl in the OP photo is smokin hot.[/quote]
Ok have another
So you don’t want to have sex with a bunch of chicks you don’t like or find attractive, sounds really weird to me,
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Next I get to is girl A. She was drunk and I was really tired and she wanted to play games. And I didn’t want to fuck her. I have no idea why. I didn’t want to get hard for her. She lacked that know how of how to turn a guy on. She expected her looks to turn me on. If she blew me and stuff it might have been different but for some reason this little voice said don’t do it.
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Do you think it would’ve been different if you hadn’t busted nuts as recently?
Pimpin aint easy, playa
[quote]mbdix wrote:
Pimpin aint easy, playa[/quote]
Maybe you’re just not cut out for this. I’ll fetch my crayons to make sure you understand.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
Pimpin aint easy, playa[/quote]
Maybe you’re just not cut out for this. I’ll fetch my crayons to make sure you understand.[/quote]
At least eight more buns a week, bro. If you are cut out for this, you will know what to do with the buns.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
Pimpin aint easy, playa[/quote]
Maybe you’re just not cut out for this. I’ll fetch my crayons to make sure you understand.[/quote]
Haha. That reminded me of Prof X.
[quote]dirtman wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Sounds like it’s time for 500mg a week.[/quote]
I think you might be right. I am border line. On my levels but just enough to still be ok. Maybe I need to get checked again.[/quote]
x3 on the test. Now that I am cruising at 200mg, I care too much for things. At a gram per week, I couldn’t care less for pretty much everything.
[quote]niksamaras wrote:
[quote]dirtman wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Sounds like it’s time for 500mg a week.[/quote]
I think you might be right. I am border line. On my levels but just enough to still be ok. Maybe I need to get checked again.[/quote]
x3 on the test. Now that I am cruising at 200mg, I care too much for things. At a gram per week, I couldn’t care less for pretty much everything.[/quote]
Teach me your ways
[quote]niksamaras wrote:
[quote]dirtman wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Sounds like it’s time for 500mg a week.[/quote]
I think you might be right. I am border line. On my levels but just enough to still be ok. Maybe I need to get checked again.[/quote]
x3 on the test. Now that I am cruising at 200mg, I care too much for things. At a gram per week, I couldn’t care less for pretty much everything.[/quote]
That’s all it takes to not care about anything :o
Remember, your cock is connected to your conscious mind, which is connected to your subconscious mind. Your “inner you” is trying to get a message across - what exactly that message is, is up for speculation. You can see a hypnotherapist, try some deep meditation or simply make a list of all possible reasons you can think of that you’ve gone flaccid and go through them one by one until you’ve identified the culprit(s).
I think need to get (re)acquainted with the Kama Sutra. Maybe your subconscious doesn’t want to fuck because you don’t have internal confidence in your fuck game.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]dirtman wrote:
Next I get to is girl A. She was drunk and I was really tired and she wanted to play games. And I didn’t want to fuck her. I have no idea why. I didn’t want to get hard for her. She lacked that know how of how to turn a guy on. She expected her looks to turn me on. If she blew me and stuff it might have been different but for some reason this little voice said don’t do it.
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Do you think it would’ve been different if you hadn’t busted nuts as recently?[/quote]
Yeah it might have played out differently cause I would have not had sex in a long time and that is like putting a fat kid in a room with a bowl of smarties.
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
Remember, your cock is connected to your conscious mind, which is connected to your subconscious mind. Your “inner you” is trying to get a message across - what exactly that message is, is up for speculation. You can see a hypnotherapist, try some deep meditation or simply make a list of all possible reasons you can think of that you’ve gone flaccid and go through them one by one until you’ve identified the culprit(s).
I think need to get (re)acquainted with the Kama Sutra. Maybe your subconscious doesn’t want to fuck because you don’t have internal confidence in your fuck game.[/quote]
Oh maybe. I am pretty good at dishing out the O’s no matter how I do it. Maybe I was putting myself under pressure. Hmmmmm
maybe you’re gay.
[quote]StevenF wrote:
maybe you’re gay. [/quote]
Nah guys are about as attractive to me as my keyboard. I know good esthetics and if a guy has handsome like qualities but that is about it.
Well, you should haver already known you were ready for a change when you took a break from it for 6 to 8 months. Then you come right back and start to fall back into the same routine and wonder why it isn’t working for you. If it was working, you never would have taken the break, right?
Why did you take the break?