Thanks Reeshdawg…just one trick up my sleeve;-)
Oh, Natey, Natey, not from Hatai;
please tell us of your lady.
Did you kiss her? Is she yours?
Without a doubt or remorse?
Pull it off, without a glitch?
When’s the day that you’ll get hitched?
When she spoke, did you speak back?
Or did you have a heart attack?
Will you post, one day to come?
Or are you now getting some?
FUUUCCCKKKK!!! I saw her just as she was walking out of one of her classes & she saw me so I said hi & she sort of smiled (no teeth) & kept walking without saying a thing dammit. She’s got to have serious fuckin head problems if she’s just messing with me this sort of shit has been going on for more than 2 yrs now. Fuck her she can fuck off & die & go to hell fuckin bitch.
mike1princecharming: no, no, no, no, probably never, I told you she didn’t speak, no but I almost threw up, I am right now, not a fuckin chance.
No teeth huh? You’re going to miss out on a really good hummer. Really though, if it feels like she’s playin’ ya, she probably is.
Intense interest (with butterflies) to utter repulsion in ten seconds? I haven’t seen that kind of turn around since a friend went into menopause. Really, Natey, get a grip. If you’re trying to move beyond saying “hi” (that’s been going on for 2 years) to something more, it’s going to take some EFFORT. You do know what that is. So you didn’t just walk with her for a while? You need to create some opportunities where you do more than just pass each other on the street.
Maybe she felt a bit rejected that you didn’t talk to her at the store - she did go out on a limb after all. Try again, she might just want to see what you really think of her. Girls have egos too and for all you know she’s been kicking herself for making a move and then getting no quick response from you.
So I should find her on monday or something & basically not go away unless she tells me to?
Yeah, go see her on Monday. But if you bump into her sooner than that, talk to her then. Oh and one thing. The day you talk to her (yeah, it’s just a day, not a BIG DAY, not a special event, just a day), she might be around a couple of friends. Don’t let that intimidate you. It’s not even worth it to be worried just because her friends are around. Because you see, she’s waiting for her Prince Charming (that’s you!). Until she has her prince, she’ll just hang aroung with her friends. God I sound queer.
Bro, I’ve been following your situation via this forum. Know what … in about two or three years you’re going to run into this girl. She’s going to say, “I had, like, this HUGE crush on you.” Too bad three later years will be too late.
Be reasonable. When you see this girl, you feel embarrased, get butterflies, and hide. If you ask her out, and she says “No”; then every time you see her, you’ll feel embarassed, get butterflies, and hide. You don’t have anything to lose. Well, maybe you do … “There are no sadder words of song or pen, then those four words: ‘what might have been.’”
ironbabe hit it exactly. make an effort, she may feel let down that you ‘ran away’ in the store and feels rejected. like you said, she went way out of her way to go to the store you work in, now you ahve to go out of your way to show her you’re just as interested!! go for it!!!
I’ll try talking to her aagain hope it won;t be too late.
Of course she’s gonna shy away. She already went out on a limb and made her move at the store that YOU work at. Now, my friend, the time has come for you to make a move that is obligated on your behalf, for the sake of doing what is expected. Natey, I would be flattered if a girl came to my place of employment and told a co-worker that I was cute. That itself is a grand invitation to her heart, expecting for her heart to be swept away with love. Natey…you know what you gotta do. She expects you to approach her, point blank. Comprende? Capito? It’s time to swim to her island, as she awaits for your arrival, basking in the warm sun, the rays gently bouncing off her beautiful skin as it glistens from the rays. Nuff said.
2 years? 2 YEARS? Fuck, where do you live so I can come and som sense into your dumb ass. Go talk to her!
Natey, listen, I’m sure you’ve heard of the saying “If you fail, keep trying.” Well, my friend, I am here to tell you that is WRONG! If you failed, it is for a reason. If this has been going on for two years, you’re doing something wrong. Of course you’re going to keep on failing with this chick; you’re not changing your game plan. It’s like if you’re stuck and you’re digging yourself a deeper hole, one that you’ll find rather embarrassing as the days move on. Natey, change you’re game plan; go for it…I do hereby bestow upon you a new name…from this day on, let Natey be known as NAY-T! At least approach her and ask her why she’s been dissing you and tell her that she is very intimidating due to her beauty…be honest. Go Nay-T, GO!
Natey,
I’ve been in this situation before. There was this beautiful girl (lets call her Jen), who seemed to be interested in me.
I liked her a lot and was real nervous when I talked to her. Then just as things seemed like they might be progressing, she starts acting pretty curt and very disinterested, no matter how hard I tried to be conversational.
Then she was gone for a semester. I was helping out a couple of her roommates/friends and was becoming friends with them. Then one day, I dropped off her roommate (now sorta my friend) and Jen was there. I paid absolutely no attention to Jen. Suddenly she is much friendlier to me, seeking me out, etc.
SOOO, my advice to you is to befriend her friends and COMPLETELY IGNORE her. She’ll come around when she sees how cool of a guy you can be (through her friends – don’t be HER FRIEND) and that will be it.
PS. I’m still working on this girl jen, so I’ll let you know what the next tactic is.
Gotta think that’s the worst advice you could give this kid. He’s gotta put himself out there.
I haven’t been eating very weel through all this & all my workouts suck. I spend about half the day looking around for her without eating anything. Hope it pays off.
Okay, so now you’re just being a schmuck…not eating and wandering around looking for her? Thats weak, bro. You said you see her around every so often, so wait until one of those times. Don’t sweat it, and try not to get yourself all worked up over this. Just be chill dude…wax on, wax off.
It’s time for SOMEBODY to read the 'get laid the testosteorne way" article at T-mag!!! It’s in a back issue as a Big Woof article.
Natey has to talk to the girl first before he uses the advice from “Get Laid the T Way.” Natey, if you don’t see her, don’t sweat it. A trick you can use to build your confidence is whenever you see a girl come your way, smile and say hi to her. You don’t have to know her, she doesn’t have to be hot either. By saying Hi to strangers that come your way, you build sort of a comfort zone to those around you. Also, you won’t believe how many friendly smiles you’ll be getting. And when you do get to talk to your mamma, it won’t be bad at all. Confidence is a big turn on for women. If you feel comfortable talking to this babe as if you were talking to your sister, she will really like you.
How about you walk up to her (while she’s with some friends), pull it out and say “Lemme intro-doose you to my leetle friend!”
Seriously though, what do you expect? The girl made a move, you were too chickenshit (no offense) to try something and now she thinks you don’t like her. She’s embarrased. You gotta bring back her self-esteem first.
I say, talk to her once or twice casually, and ask her out the third time. Nothing pushy though. Maybe ask her to meet you at some club with friends so she doesn’t get scared and run away like so many little rabbits.
2 years… Boy your face must be red!