BTW. You are hot.
Unless you are putting of some bad “i’m to good for you vibe” I can’t imagine why you don’t get approached on a fairly regular basis, unless you aren’t in an evironment where someone has a chance to try and get to know you.
Wow, nice smile. And, if you have the “balls” to ask the question, you’re already okay in my books. I’m probably the shy-est guy in the world, and it cost me many a chance. If someone like you came over, that would have made my century. (of course, you’d probably have left after I fainted and then soiled myself due to the shock of a pretty girl talking to me).
In your honor, I bequeath to you my favorite pick up lines, edited for your own use:
- Can you buy me a drink?
- Let’s go to your place. Mother doesn’t like when I have men in the home.
- Wow, you are so much better looking than my prison cell-mate.
- Excuse me, but could I have a little lock of your hair?
- I felt an instant connection with you, probably because you’re a dead-ringer for my ex-boyfriend. Boy, would that be great to get back at him…
- Life is full of regrets. How would you like to have some tomorrow morning?
- That is a great shirt! And I love what you’ve done with your den. I mean, from what I could see from the bushes this morning. Hi, my name’s Iron Maiden. I may look familiar.
- I couldn’t help but notice you’re also a member of the master race.
- So, how many drinks does it take to get you drunk enough, but not too much, if you know what I mean?
- Was your father a thief? Because someone stole the stars and put them in your eyes. Plus, my purse is missing.
- Yes, that’s right, I’m a grabber.
- Oh, no, I don’t drink. That only makes the voices in my head louder.
- When it comes to STD’s I’m your walking encyclopedia.
- Hey stud, you were in my dreams last nite. You, me, and Napoleon had to go save Armenio the elephant from this evil masseuse who looked like my mother but wasn’t really my mother, buy boy, did she look like my mother. Did I mention we were all made of cheese? Weird.
- It’s getting hot in here, so I’ve taken off all my clothes.
- You’re starting to grow on me. Sort of like this rash I have. Say, do you know any good rash doctors? Because I really need one to look at this fucking rash.
- My daddy says I’m the best kisser in the County.
- Has anyone ever told you that you look like Higgins from Magnum P.I.?
- As my dad used to say, “Whoever smelt it, dealt it”. Hi, my name’s Iron Maiden…
- The bar is closing, and I think it’s time we decided who’s making breakfast tomorrow.
Hope you have a good weekend. Go try some lines.
Dr. D
Gorgeous wavy golden hair ...It's actually hypnotizing if you look at it for a while lol...
'7. That is a great shirt! And I love what you’ve done with your den. I mean, from what I could see from the bushes this morning. Hi, my name’s Iron Maiden. I may look familiar. ’
LOL, that's hilarious!!!!!!!! Iron, he's callling you a stalker lol...
If you came on to me, and assuming that you had something interesting to say (meaning that I could tell that there was a brain behind the smile), I’d go for it.
'Nuff said.
Here’s some diffrerent views from what othe people have been saying. If you hit on me in a bar, I would probally think you playing a joke on me! That being said, I think most guys would think it was great that a woman made the first move - they’d be bragging about it for months!
Why do some of us have trouble approaching attractive women? If I saw you in a bar, I wouldn’t approach you. I would assume that you are “out of my league” and would only get cruely blown off if I came up and talked to you. Of course, I am someone who doesn’t have a lot of confidence.
Nothing wrong with a woman making the first move. Just develop thick skin for the times you get shot down, but judging from your pic that won’t be very often.
I have never known a guy to be offended by a polite expression of interest. However, in my experience they are so blown away at being asked out they say yes whether they are interested on not. I had one guy show up with his girlfriend at what I thought was a date!
Nice tan lines ;p
Forgot to add,
I’d hit it.
Iron Maiden, I think the response is pretty consistent - most guys are not offended by a woman making the first move and would, in fact, be pretty flattered.
Assuming that you have a good personality and your picture isn’t somehow deceiving, I am surprised you don’t have to push guys away. Have you been actively trying to meet people or have you been keeping to yourself? Either way, best of luck!
Iron Maiden, I think the response is pretty consistent - most guys are not offended by a woman making the first move and would, in fact, be pretty flattered.
Assuming that you have a good personality and your picture isn’t somehow deceiving, I am surprised you don’t have to push guys away. Have you been actively trying to meet people or have you been keeping to yourself? Either way, best of luck!
OK Iron Maiden…now that you tapped into all this good advice/opinion I think you owe it to your trusted advisors to post another PIC!!!
I like it either way. As long as you didn’t make me feel cornered and didn’t take offense if I did not react the way you wanted me to. I like assertive women. I was once fairly shy and would not approach women but now I do. I pretty much just put myself in the situation as if I owned the place but I don’t expect anything or even a response. Seems to work better than anything else. From that point I’m just plain old me and nothing else, works just fine.
I love it when woman approaches me. My current girlfriend showed interest in me first.
If a woman is remotely attractive she had best NOT play the “Wait and See” game. The higher up the scale of relative attractiveness you go, the more forward you have to be. Now granted, every man’s (and woman’s) scale is a bit different, but this holds true regardless.
As a moderately attractive person, I’ve found that the vast majority of men that approach me when I am out are way too old/fat/have given up on life and are simply playing the numbers, or way too drunk to be taken seriously. So, I began to approach men that seemed remotely interesting to me. After a few seconds of conversation, I have them at ease and they usually confess to something similar to the “out of their league” bullshit as reason for thinking I’m unapproachable, appear arrogant and am intimidating. Am I? I don’t purposely put out that vibe. And after a bit of conversation, they don’t think so either. This reinforces the fact that it’s THEIR insecurity issues at play. Do I have time for this? Nope. I am not someone’s therapist and have no interest in “fixing” anyone.
So now it is a rare man with balls enough to approach me, and just as rare a man that I bother to approach. I just have myself a good time and anyone who wants to come along can, but I’m not about dragging people out of their shells.
I’d suggest the same to you. You are quite attractive and if you wait for a man to approach you in a bar scene - most likely he won’t be the kind of guy you want to have a conversation with, let alone anything else with. If you see someone across the room who absolutely takes your breath away and makes your heart skip a beat - approach him! Find out if he’s worth that electricity in the air. If you don’t see anyone quite like that then just focus on having fun on your own. The only men that would automatically consider an intellectual, classy, forward woman to be a slut or easy is a man with enough misogynistic tendencies that you ought not be concerned with his opinion anyway (as if you should be concerned with any friggin’ person’s opinion).
There’s few things more appealing to someone than a person who is confident and comfortable in their own skin and who needs no one to “complete” them or “make them happy”. I’m sure of this regardless of sex. So go have fun at your Girl’s Night Out and don’t get all hung up with other’s preconceived notions or emotional issues.
So, guys, in order to seduce Karma, dont give a shit about her until she shows she cares about you. Youll never have to talk about whatever insecurities since you do not put your happiness (or any chance of having it bumped) in her hands or expect anything from her. Be a jerk. Since you wont give a fuck, youll pass as different and strong, and her radar will start to home in on you GUARANTEED. LOL
Simple, eh? ;pppp
Expect a post from her saying the exact contrary. Or something in the NLP Mismatcher metaprogram line of thought. ;pp
Just kidding Karma. ;p
along with greekdawg’s line of thinking…
been looking for an opportunity to post this image…
Not sure what “NLP Mismatcher metaprogram line of thought” meant but you’re not too far from right. I can’t stand pussies and if a guy is talking about insecurities and shit like that in the first conversation, I’d run for the hills. I am not going to play doctor and try to fix some guy’s problems or help him be “rebirthed” so he can stop hating his mother. Not my bag.
I want a man who has lived enough to know his own mind and has no fear of expressing it. Play close attention to the “lived enough” part. Some snot-nosed punk who spouts off about this and that and doesn’t truly know shit about life is of no interest to me. It takes being pushed to your limits in order to know them and introspection to know what to do with them. Be a jerk? No, not really. Although sometimes that can be fun. How about just being unabashedly true to who YOU are and if we click then we do? If not, no skin of either of our backs.
Shucks, K, never thought I`d be close to the mark with a joke. Maybe truth is simple, sometimes.
For the mismatcher, its a way of processing information. Show a mismatcher a penny, a dime and a quarter, and the mismatcher will say theyre all different. A matcher will say theyre all coins. A sameness with exception is another thing. Etc. Mismatchers see the difference in everything. Tell them black, something in them will spark the anything but black in their brain. Its a way of thinking among many others. Not to be confused with oppositional defiant classification, though.
Thanks for the feedback.