You might be taking this idea of “new year, new me” a bit too seriously.
Sorry to hear about that man.
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Lol yea no kidding.
It’s all good man. As painful as it is now, I honestly believe (and really fucking hope) this is the right move and will lead to real happiness. Got a lot to work on on a personal level. Gonna get back into counseling and try and become a normal human again lol
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You seem to have a positive, proactive mindset on the whole thing, which usually leads to good things.
My normal solution would be a few beers, but it’s a lot more difficult when you only know people online.
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Sorry to hear that man, hope everything works out.
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Still working 
so no leg day today. Got wet at work and hard to change and snapped a quick leg picture update. With better lighting you can see more definition and it looks sick
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Current world is upside down. Hopefully I’ll train tomorrow. Peaceful divorce has made a complete 180. Everybody always says a women changes during a divorce. Never thought mine would but boy was I wrong. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck me running
Sorry to hear that. Got a lawyer?
Nope. Wasn’t going to use one but now it’s not looking good. I just spent an hour resetting all my passwords to everything that she hacked. I had to block her cell number and on social media AND I had to cancel my debit card and open a new account and transfer money… FML
Just do it, and let somebody handle things who won’t react emotionally to this stuff. Don’t say or do anything over text or social media, and honestly try to keep things fairly vague on here too. Some people do weird things when they’re hurt or scared. I wish you the best dude, if you keep your head about you and don’t react, you’ll get out the other side of this okay.
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In the heat of the moment I have said things via text I fully regret. I had dinner tonight with my bro’s who are all 40+ and they pretty much told me all the things I was doing wrong lol.
I hope to come out of this ok! Right now she’s doing all she can to make my life miserable. I packed a suit case with the presence of police officers at my home and left yesterday. She moves into her apartment Thursday so until then I’m homeless 
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The most important thing is your kids. One sane parent is infinitely better than none. Do not react. But a punching bag, go to a firing range. You’re in Alabama, so I guess you could eat a squirrel and fuck your sister if you get REALLY antsy…
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I wish stuff like that helped alleviate stress for me.
Yea due to my job there’s no way I could have custody even if the court said I could. I’m trying to be the bigger man. I think I’m there now but man, it’s tough.
My sister isn’t really my type 
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Who wants this divorce (initially)? You? Her? Both?
Me. She says she doesn’t want it but it hasn’t stopped her from getting in dating websites and going on dates
Like I said, people do weird things when they’re hurt or scared. She’s reacting to stuff too. Sorry again, dude. You ever need anyone to talk to, gimme a shout.
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You’re right. What sucks the most is she always tells me this is all my fault and how I don’t even hurt or anything. She’s always sucked at seeing anything from any other point of view than hers, so annoying!!
I appreciate that man
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Man really sorry to hear the divorce dilemma. If you ever need an ear to vent to hit me up dude. Happy to. Unfortunately in any conflict one person has to step up and start the recovery process. Seems to me like your taking the high road and working towards making the right choices not the easy ones. Believe me though. If you have an ounce of hope left then there’s a chance for reconciliation. Again really sorry my man
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I appreciate the offer man. Unfortunately I don’t have any hope it would work. I wanted it too, but it’s just not. I’m just ready to get this behind me. I’d give anything to be in a coma till 2021
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Had a really good back and bi day. I can already feel the weight loss on pull ups. It’s crazy how I can tell.
I was rushed because i decided I was going to depress eat a large pizza and they closed at 10. Good news is I showed restraint and only at half of it.
I can already tell some areas are starting to lean out. Of course none of those areas are the ones I’m worried about 
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I didn’t realise this was a thing. Does that mean there’s half a pizza going spare?
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