Using Your Size and Strength In a Fight

Have you seen the video of the skinny dude on bath salts who needed like 6 guys to hold him down?

You were almost olympic level? Thats pretty sick

Theres a video of a professional kickboxing fight

160lb muay thai fighter vs 220lb champion kickboxer. The 160lb demolished the heavier guy

Size matters… a lot… but a heavy guy with little to know fight IQ/experience isn’t going to beat an advanced lightweight BJJ purple/brown/black belt.

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Have you ever watched the first UFC?

You’re using two guys who know how to fight here.

When skill is equal, the heavier/stronger guy wins

But if someone isnt a skilled fighter, skill can level the playing field for a smaller guy.

If you don’t believe me, go into a boxing/wrestling/BJJ gym and ask to roll with a smaller brown belt, ask to wrestle with a smaller collegiate wrestler, box with a smaller guy who has a pro contract.

Yup. On VHS even :slight_smile:

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No, but I have easily pinned a similarly sized, similarly intoxicated man who endured a remarkable amount of punishment from five guys before I stopped them. After getting attacked for my efforts and pinning him he immediately attacked the cops when I let him up. They weren’t as nice as I was.

A 140 lb guy is still 140 lbs, even with drugs. Most men are also inept at controlling violent people.

That’s not the scenario we’re discussing here. This is the goon thread.

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I don’t see the point arguing here… I’ve seen it play out before

One of my good friends was a very, very, very good wrestler in HS. He got into a fight with a rugby player who had 50lbs on him, rugby guy didn’t know how to fight…

My friend took the rugby dude down in like 20 seconds…

Neither were ā€œsmallā€ per se. Friend was 160 and stocky/shorter, rugby guy was 210lbs or so.

I did not feel like we were.

Martial arts are great for learning how to overcome someone with a size and strength advantage.

The fact martial arts exist for the purpose is proof of concept that size and strength ARE an advantage. It’s why we have weight classes.

Martial arts skill can overcome some size discrepancies. Large size discrepancies can overcome martial arts skill.

I imagine we’re all in agreement on that.

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To be fair

BJJ has open weight comps and comps split by weight class

And very large skill discrepanciss can overtake size discrepancies

Obvioisly if we talk differences of say… 100lbs + and both parties are athletic its wishful thinking

But not all size is quality size. A morbidly obese fatass isn’t necessarily going to be able to fight.

I don’t feel that’s being fair at all. I think it’s focusing on the wrong part of the story, ala Joe Dirt :slight_smile:

You HAD to have ignore what I wrote RIGHT before that to write that

Please keep this in good faith my dude.

To bring this thread back-on-track, let me answer the question of…

ā€œWhy should I even bother with goon tactics? I’m a (insert martial artist rank here).ā€

You shouldn’t, unless you can. Whether or not you can depends on the situation.

There were many opportunities on the job for me to use violent customers as grappling dummies. I could have gone for flashy and more violent hip tosses instead simple trips, clinches or wall pins. Instead of asking ā€œAre you ready to leave now?ā€ after putting someone on their ass, I could have followed guys down to the ground, used grueling pressure and set up a kimura to make them say ā€œuncleā€. I could have held them down while I take my time setting up a walk-around-armbar. I could have forced the back and choked them out. I could have taken high mount and Mr. Miyagi honked some noses, too, and I kinda regret never doing that.

Why were those options available to me?

Because I was the bigger, stronger, better-trained and more experienced in those situations, usually all four and always at least 2.

Why didn’t I?

Number one, don’t go to the ground unless you need to or unless it is best to.

Number two, it is a whole lot easier and often more effective to simply try the front door first. Being big and strong compared to the person you’re fighting is what allows those ā€œknock on the front door firstā€ techniques being discussed here to be effective, often moreso than any sort of technical wizardry you might learn at a Rickson Gracie seminar.

But…

Only if you’ve got the attributes. If not, you should start defending yourself by avoiding fights in general and specifically with those guys who are bigger and stronger than you. Especially if you’re three sheets to the wind and they’re bouncers telling you to call a cab. Once you’ve got that basic part of handling violence down pat, training is the only way forward. Strength, conditioning and combat.

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Have to appreciate the comedy as well that, instead of putting forth Rickson to represent the Gracie clan for UFC 1, despite him being the absolute golden child of the family, they hand-selected Royce because he was so small of stature. Primarily because they wanted UFC 1 to be a BJJ infomercial. But in THAT regard, it’s ALSO proof of concept that even the Gracie’s recognized the value in being a hoss on top of being really good at martial arts, because Rickson had BOTH going on.

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Curious, do what martial arts forms do you guys think are most beneficial for street fights/self defense? I always imagined BJJ and Muy Thai would be the magical ticket, but I’ve never trained in either (interested for future prospects).

I think you’ll be a pretty complete fighter by street standards with proficiency in BJJ and Muay Thai, but only if you’re addressing stand-up grappling, takedowns and throws.

Starting rolls from the feet during BJJ training was, by far, the biggest training benefit I applied during bouncing situations. First off, it makes you hard to take down and practiced at closing the distance, getting to a clinch or a grip of some kind and then going to work. Toss in a sobriety edge, which is OFTEN a factor in violence whether you’re at a bar or not, and you get situations like the videos I linked above. You’re totally comfortable in that struggle with another person while the other guy is panicking on the inside.

IMO this stand-up aspect of a fight is where strength training can really shine through as well. You need to get your hands on someone to goon them.

Being fast as fuck is probably the number one best thing you can do from a personal safety perspective. Just be gone.

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A glock

Question would be contextual. Are we asking ā€œif I wanted to get street ready ASAP how should I trainā€ or is it ā€œWhat would be the master of street defense?ā€

For the former, boxing and wrestling pair SO well together, are quick to pick up, and give someone a LOT of valuable tools and skillsets. Even with everything else I’ve trained, it’s what I tend to fall back on.

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Do you mean that there’s still a gap in training somewhere, or am i mis-reading this?

I’m not going to be the incel that open carries or feels the need to use a CCW. I would have my wife get a CCW though, but still - that doesn’t work in most situations.

Perhaps not the master of street defense, but I would like to be prepared for most situations - keeping in mind I stay away from trouble as much as possible.

I would also like to eventually have my wife and daughter be competent enough to not get man-handled if I’m not around (my daughter is 5 so this isn’t a next week-type situation) so getting them trained in a couple years is a goal too. I can get away with goon tactics, but neither my wife nor my daughter would have this capability. Do you think boxing/wrestling still apply for the ladies?

I can’t think of a single fighter that has EVER regretted learning how to box and wrestle. Irrespective of whatever direction you end up taking your fighting ā€œcareerā€, the skills you pick up there are going to transfer over. When I was teaching my kid martial arts while homeschooling them during COVID, boxing and wrestling featured.

Ideally, if someone is smaller and weaker, those skills are used primarily to create space and run away, but those 2 arts are great for that too.

I also taught my kid how to clinch, throw knees and elbows, and they have a push kick and roundhouse that I don’t want to get hit with, but our big focus was getting away.

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Depends on the schools and their programs. I’ve written a lot about this elsewhere in the Combat forum, so no need to derail here. There are places that advertise themselves as BJJ where you will not train fighting fundamentals like…

Sprawls
Headlock escapes
Bodylock escapes
Strike management
Throws/Takedowns
Dive-and-clinch

Some of this stuff might get lip serviced, but if you find yourself at a school where all of the mat time is on the ground, you won’t be gaining meaningful proficiency in most struggles you’re likely to encounter off-of-the-mats.

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