[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
And hebrewhero, what did White people do to you that you think everyone who disagrees with you is racist? Serious question.[/quote]
I dont hate white people. I am white. But as a white man with a black wife and 3 mixed kids which by anyones intial glance would just assume them black I get put in the unfortunate position of dealing with racisim frequently. All the time I hear white people say stupid shit about black people becuase they assume its “safe” to say it around me.
When I show them my kids pictures or mention my famil status I get the same 2 stepin backtracking answers “oh well I didnt mean it like that” or “Im not racist thats not what I meant” I cant stand it and its bullshit… When people use terms like “those people” “they all do this” or my fav “oh thats how they talk” Its racist bullshit. In the realworld I confront people all the time on it so on here I shouldnt expect less as its just a micro-cosim of society. I respect all people of any color, ethnicty, religion, and style choice. [/quote]
Nice insight into the heart of the matter here.
The law is the law and I certainly don’t have all the details of the case but I suppose the jury had little choice with the current laws.
A lot of Black people scream racism. Some or a lot of White people disagree, saying no that is not racist. The current system, while progressive, is inherently created to keep those in control on top. Again, those in power telling others what is and what is not racist, just another form of control. Many will disagree, but the view from on top of the social mountain rarely sees a cloudy day. This is one reason why so many scream, “You have taken away my America, Bring back my America” etc in reference to now having a Black President (who is only half black, but never is referred to as white, funny how quickly you get kicked off that social ladder rung).
This is where the disconnect occurs. A White person cannot begin to understand what it is to be Black in this world just like a Black person would find it had to identify with growing up white. You could reference the one cool black guy in your white neighborhood as successful integration, but it is a thin veil for what hebrewhero referred in his post. When white people attempt to scream they have been discriminated against, minorities actually chuckle and shake their head. The entire society caters to your success. You are the hero, the role model, the upstanding citizen, smart, attractive, successful, healthy, what everyone should strive so hard to be like. Even by all biblical accounts, God-like.
Black…not so much.
Latino…not so much.
Indian, Asian, even foreign born white folks are not qualified. (Speak American, God dammit)
Again, this will fall very, very short in trying to explain what it can be like for a minority group and most likely will not change anyone’s views, but try to understand if someone tells you they feel bad because of something or a situation and you say “No, it is not like that, you are stupid to feel that way”, negates their very emotion. Imagine someone refuses to recognize you and how you feel, that would only make you feel much worse and even angry.
Try it the next time your wife shares her thoughts with you…