[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
hhmmmmm not a fan[/quote]
An example would be the woman who takes a fathers kids from him by using lies in court and weaving complex (yet false) tales of physical abuse. You don’t think that’s reprehensible?
Or the female who thinks that she can hit a guy just because she’s a woman?
I’m certainly not saying ‘hit women’, I’m saying hit anyone who actually deserves it. Regardless of gender.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
hhmmmmm not a fan
An example would be the woman who takes a fathers kids from him by using lies in court and weaving complex (yet false) tales of physical abuse. You don’t think that’s reprehensible?
Or the female who thinks that she can hit a guy just because she’s a woman?
I’m certainly not saying ‘hit women’, I’m saying hit anyone who actually deserves it. Regardless of gender.[/quote]
you have the right to defend yourself, yes. But that isn’t a “she deserved it”, it is a “I was defending myself.”
The court case example is not a good example of resorting to physical violence… NO. Lies go both ways.
Yeah, the phrase “a good slap” probably wasn’t the best choice of words.
“Brought back to reality” would’ve been better. That obviously wouldn’t necessitate a physical response.
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
The court case example is not a good example of resorting to physical violence… NO. Lies go both ways.[/quote]
Not always. I can promise you that much.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
The court case example is not a good example of resorting to physical violence… NO. Lies go both ways.
Not always. I can promise you that much.[/quote]
sorry to hear that. I hope things work out for you.
Not me, but someone close.
ANYWHOOOO… Back to the topic at hand - To intervene or not?
To the man that called me a Red Neck or said I had a red neck mentality or a lower-class mentality. Which ever you favor, I am not aware someone not even of acquaintance could determine that opinion.
I have known middle/high-class men to abuse their SO/Children just as lower-class men do. It’s not a class thing, it’s an out of control male thing.
One of two things comes to play, high-class men are fewer compared to lower which equates abuse in a higher number of incidents, not necessarily higher percentage. I have found no study or done a study myself to find this exactly out, but I’d guess the percentages would be roughly (no pun intended) equal. Two, if the percentage were lower for high/mid-class fellows, I’d suppose the uppers would have more distance from their SO/Children then the lower. Which would leave less irritation to the male and less of stress to provide for his family.
[side note: let’s not forget woman abuse men more than the other way around]
To OctoberGirl, no one likes to hit anyone. I sure do not, even though I do box. If you do, besides the sportsman version, I suspect something wrong with you. I do not like to hit (read: slap) woman and children, but I am no square, there comes a time when a woman that was not raised right and definitely there is a time when a child will test the limits.
I have always warned my brother (speaking of children) that if he did something I would whoop him. If he did it, I would have to keep my word as a man. Same thing went for my girlfriend, which I am still with. She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.
I had to make a “man” decision as one of my mentors calls it. I had two choices, either to kick her out of my home or to offer her a physical punishment. I had to weigh the decision, which one do I want more, to keep her or not. If I did not want to keep her I would have told her if she did that again, I’d kick her out. Instead, I told her if she did it again I’d whoop her ass, not because I am abusive and hate woman, because there needed to be a consequence for an action.
I did it because I am a man and I stay true to my values, and I do not let people run over me as they please. When I have a reasonable excuse for you not to do something, I except you to honor my wishes.
I am a easy going guy, and I do not get angry often. People trust me and hardly anyone that knows me fears me. People hit me and I do not go crazy, I can have fun. Even when I am play fighting I will still keep my word, just how I am.
I have been in confrontations with woman, even in my own place of business. I have only had to resort to using something other than physical restraint, once. That was when a girl attempted to nail me in my genitals and I pushed her back and over a table. She resorted to leaving instead of coming at me and if she did I would have no problem going one on one with her. If you have no respect for my body as a man, then I have lost respect for you.
Again OG, sorry about your mishap in the parking lot.
As many have said, Id intervene if a woman was being abused or it was a totally unfair situation.
A couple of years ago on holiday in Europe I had to stop a guy driving his car into his girlfriend. I threw my bike in between the car and her - he got out and talked a lot but did nothing. He went back to his car and started to root around in the trunk so I grabbed her and left fast.
i found out later he got pulled over by the police and drove into the police car to try and get away. Hes currently cooling his heels in a Greek prison for some time.
[quote]rsg wrote:
Treat a woman like a lady if she acts like one.[/quote]
That’s about it. But, if a woman attacks me like she’s a man, then you can be damn sure I’m going to hit her like one.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
An example would be the woman who takes a fathers kids from him by using lies in court and weaving complex (yet false) tales of physical abuse. You don’t think that’s reprehensible?
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In that case I think the more appropriate response would be to kill the bitch with a length of piano wire.
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.[/quote]
What did she do? I’m wondering what you consider a punishable offense.
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
To OctoberGirl, no one likes to hit anyone. I sure do not, even though I do box. If you do, besides the sportsman version, I suspect something wrong with you. I do not like to hit (read: slap) woman and children, but I am no square, there comes a time when a woman that was not raised right and definitely there is a time when a child will test the limits.
I have always warned my brother (speaking of children) that if he did something I would whoop him. If he did it, I would have to keep my word as a man. Same thing went for my girlfriend, which I am still with. She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.
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I am going to intervene on this BS and say that any MAN that slaps a Woman/wife/girlfriend is a coward/pussy. End of Story. If I did something that you did not like you would not resort to violence against me, or let me say it would take far more of an infraction from me for you to even consider slapping me. This proves that you are a PUSSY. I feel sorry for any woman that had been around your ass backward ignorant pussy coward ass. I live in Galveston Texas if you want to come slap me let me know.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Brother Chris wrote:
She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.
What did she do? I’m wondering what you consider a punishable offense.
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Yah… that is my question.
[quote]BlakeAJackson wrote:
I am going to intervene on this BS and say that any MAN that slaps a Woman/wife/girlfriend is a coward/pussy. End of Story. If I did something that you did not like you would not resort to violence against me, or let me say it would take far more of an infraction from me for you to even consider slapping me. This proves that you are a PUSSY. I feel sorry for any woman that had been around your ass backward ignorant pussy coward ass. I live in Galveston Texas if you want to come slap me let me know.
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Awesome! Couldn’t agree more.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Brother Chris wrote:
She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.
What did she do? I’m wondering what you consider a punishable offense.
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Whatever it was, apparently she did it one too many times.
[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
In that case I think the more appropriate response would be to kill the bitch with a length of piano wire.[/quote]
A bit too far don’t you think? Especially when you could do so much more damage psychologically.
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
pch2 wrote:
Brother Chris wrote:
She agrees with me one hundred percent on what I did, she did something that bothered me, and I warned her. She did it again and I slapped her. She never did it again.
What did she do? I’m wondering what you consider a punishable offense.
Yah… that is my question.
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I heard that she kept pointing and commenting on how his penis barley stuck out further than her clit.
Not to provoke the bad-ass woman slapping T-man. This douche should have his membership revoked from this site. There is no time that it is okay to slap a Woman. PERIOD!
[quote]BlakeAJackson wrote:
There is no time that it is okay to slap a Woman. PERIOD!
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What about… if she tortured and killed your entire family and everyone you know? Can you slap her then? Or should she just get a stern talking-to?
I’ve never, nor will I ever (I think) hit a woman, but man, I do get the urge to just grab and shake some of them.
[quote]Bauer97 wrote:
BlakeAJackson wrote:
There is no time that it is okay to slap a Woman. PERIOD!
What about… if she tortured and killed your entire family and everyone you know? Can you slap her then? Or should she just get a stern talking-to?
I’ve never, nor will I ever (I think) hit a woman, but man, I do get the urge to just grab and shake some of them.[/quote]
I can appreciate a good chauvinistic joke as much as the next guy. I am married to a doctor. That not even a punch line, it�??s the truth! I am all for gender roles and men being men, but I also believe that it is our duty to be the protector of our families not the dominator. This guy is not talking about such and instance as the above described scenario, I guess in that situation it is okay to kill regardless of sex.