So you deleted the post, but I feel this is something important enough to comment on anyways.
I feel that ‘knowing’ who you are is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. I explained why to Anna here
I wrote a lot of that post specifically for Anna, but my advice is the same to everyone really- let go of our preconceived notions of ourselves and be willing to explore. I daresay that you’re confusion about yourself is also borne from deep-seated notions of who you think you are or supposed to be.