Did you hear that Tiger is changing his nickname?
Yeah, it’s still in the cat family: Cheetah.
lol
Somebody said Disney.
Yep and he is single and all those women will blow him clear into the record books. Literaly the Fucking Best YEAHHHHHHHH BOYYYY
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Did you hear that Tiger is changing his nickname?
Yeah, it’s still in the cat family: Cheetah.
lol[/quote]
lol
I can’t believe I’m giggling at that 
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Did you hear that Tiger is changing his nickname?
Yeah, it’s still in the cat family: Cheetah.
lol[/quote]
lol
I can’t believe I’m giggling at that :D[/quote]
You really just now heard that one?
Btw, Deb your avatar! Good fucking God! I wanna do such bad things to you.
There’s a hell of a lot I’d like to say on this thread. Unfortunately I’d need at least a half hour.
I would say that if growing a family isn’t a high priority for you, and you think of marriage as a business decision where you weigh all the pros and cons of what makes you and you alone happy and prosperous… then don’t get married. LOL
Marriage, parenthood, bodybuilding, a career: all of these things require dedication, goals, and hard work. If you think the bench & curls crowd that barely eats anything yet expects results is bad, realize that this is the same type of person that marries someone they think is hot or that they don’t really get along with - expecting the relationship to automatically work. Not surprisingly these people get divorced and wind up telling everyone “don’t ever get married!”, and “17 inch arms? Dude must be on roids.”
If your attitude about relationships is “what can this bitch do for ME?”, then please don’t get married. Stick to bodybuilding, oral surgery, and geek stuff. Nobody is good at everything.
Those of us with family on our big time top 3 list of life priorities will manage our time and dedicate ourselves to the work that takes, and we’ll succeed.
[quote]mr popular wrote:
I would say that if growing a family isn’t a high priority for you, and you think of marriage as a business decision where you weigh all the pros and cons of what makes you and you alone happy and prosperous… then don’t get married. LOL
Marriage, parenthood, bodybuilding, a career: all of these things require dedication, goals, and hard work. If you think the bench & curls crowd that barely eats anything yet expects results is bad, realize that this is the same type of person that marries someone they think is hot or that they don’t really get along with - expecting the relationship to automatically work. Not surprisingly these people get divorced and wind up telling everyone “don’t ever get married!”, and “17 inch arms? Dude must be on roids.”
If your attitude about relationships is “what can this bitch do for ME?”, then please don’t get married. Stick to bodybuilding, oral surgery, and geek stuff. Nobody is good at everything.
Those of us with family on our big time top 3 list of life priorities will manage our time and dedicate ourselves to the work that takes, and we’ll succeed.[/quote]
This thread isn’t even about me so why are so many of you trying to act like I need some moral lesson in what makes a family unit so important? Also, why does not getting married without a prenupt mean you don’t want a serious relationship and don’t want kids? I never said either one of these things yet your post just now implies as such.
You don’t know shit about me beyond what I write on this forum and NOTHING stated here has shit to do with me not thinking a relationship is important.
I can’t even respond to all of the bullshit stated so far against what has been written by me because this site is moving too slowly right now (this post alone took 30min to post), but most of show some strange incompetent need to proclaim how great your marriage is when that isn’t even the point of the fucking thread.
[quote]Vegita wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]pja wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]pja wrote:
Then she would divorce me and have nothing to do with me ever again. But she wouldn’t try to hurt me just because I hurt her. I know this because I know who she is as a person. You aren’t going to believe this which is fine. If you ever find somebody that you know this well then perhaps you will understand.
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Dude, no offense, but I am willing to bet most men think their wife wouldn’t do that on the day they hook up. If they did think that, they probably wouldn’t go through with it. Do you think even most people who get divorced thought they would get divorced on their wedding day or when things were going great in the beginning?[/quote]
The point is most men date a girl for a year maybe a year and a half and then propose. Not enough time in my opinion for life to throw various things at you to see how this women you are with responds…that is my point. What’s the rush?
It would be interesting to see how the rate of divorce correlates with the number of years you dated someone before marrying them.
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I don’t disagree with you on that one point, though…so why come in the thread like you need to teach me something?
I hope you never get divorced. From what I hear, it sucks for all parties involved. But no one knows if their marriage may ever go there or not. I also know that making a marriage work is CONSTANT WORK, not something you settle into. That means at any point in the future if one or both parties stop working at it, it will fall apart.
My only question is why, in this day and age, why we still treat marriage like we need to protect the women to this degree as far as divorce…and why it is still seen as socially awkward to discuss being prepared in case of marriage failure?
Some of you came in this thread like I had assaulted your entire belief structure with that initial post.
Why is that? Why do you get attacked if you so much as imply that marriage isn’t magic?[/quote]
Ok, so essentially this is a bitch about government then. I mean everyone knows that it takes the government 100X as long to adjust to something than an private entity would, and an entity like a company takes 100x as long to react and adjust to something as an individual would. I don’t see why you are so flabbergasted over this. Like you just woke up and dudes started getting fucked over in marriage. It has been a slow gradual climb to this point, and when “we” get around to it, and it’s a big enough problem, like bigger than terrorism, forcing health care on everyone, or steroids in baseball, then “we” will take 10 years to fix it.
I also agree that the longer you are together prior to marriage, the better the chances you will stay married. My cousin just married a girl who he has known for a couple months. Not gonna lie, probably not gonna end well.
V
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X Not to be stupid, but do you want to respond to the post I made above here? I think I hit the nail on the head.
V
[quote]Professor X wrote:
This thread isn’t even about me so why are so many of you trying to act like I need some moral lesson in what makes a family unit so important? Also, why does not getting married without a prenupt mean you don’t want a serious relationship and don’t want kids? I never said either one of these things yet your post just now implies as such.
You don’t know shit about me beyond what I write on this forum and NOTHING stated here has shit to do with me not thinking a relationship is important.
I can’t even respond to all of the bullshit stated so far against what has been written by me because this site is moving too slowly right now (this post alone took 30min to post), but most of show some strange incompetent need to proclaim how great your marriage is when that isn’t even the point of the fucking thread.[/quote]
I never gave any moral lessons or said that I thought the “family unit” was important for everyone. All I said was that if it’s important to you, you need to work at it and a big reason why marriages fail is because both parties neglect that fact - regardless of wealth or status involved, but these things have an impact. I also said that if it’s not important to you, that’s fine and don’t get married.
I fail to see my own grand marriage agenda there.
If you want a prenupt, get one. I know I will. I don’t even know where you got this from, because I never wrote anything to the affect of “don’t get a prenupt”; In fact I think you aren’t in a responsible relationship if you don’t have one.
Yes we all know your thread is about scorned women trying to ruin the lives of rich men and take their money. But by page 8 I would hope the discussion has evolved a bit. Look: put yourself in these women’s shoes, and try to tell me you wouldn’t do the same thing.
On the one hand you can take that to mean hell yeah never get married, everyone is selfish, protect your assets from hoes. On the other hand maybe a man that is so absorbed with his finances and personal well being actually made for a really shitty husband, because he didn’t give the same commitment to his woman and his family that he did his job.
If you are that guy, like I said: Don’t get married!
But just because you make good money doesn’t mean you need to be afraid of gold digging women with their claws in your wallet. Women are going to look out for themselves just like men are, even at the expense of you and your lifestyle especially if you make them hate you by being a self centered ass, and especiallyx2 if you knocked them up first.
Solution 1: Put in the work to be a good husband, and give her no reason to hate/divorce/ruin you.
Solution 2: Don’t get married.
Each option is fine.
[quote]mr popular wrote:
I never gave any moral lessons or said that I thought the “family unit” was important for everyone. All I said was that if it’s important to you, you need to work at it and a big reason why marriages fail is because both parties neglect that fact - regardless of wealth or status involved, but these things have an impact. I also said that if it’s not important to you, that’s fine and don’t get married. [/quote]
Bullshit. That isn’t all you said. You even mentioned my profession like that has anything to do with what was stated. that means in other words, you made this some personal issue as if because I think a man with assets needs to protect those assets that this somehow means I think of marriage only as a business decision. IT IS A FUCKING BUSINESS DECISION as well as a vows to be with someone for life.
Your post didn’t need to be directed at me at all.
[quote]Vegita wrote:
[quote]Vegita wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]pja wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]pja wrote:
Then she would divorce me and have nothing to do with me ever again. But she wouldn’t try to hurt me just because I hurt her. I know this because I know who she is as a person. You aren’t going to believe this which is fine. If you ever find somebody that you know this well then perhaps you will understand.
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Dude, no offense, but I am willing to bet most men think their wife wouldn’t do that on the day they hook up. If they did think that, they probably wouldn’t go through with it. Do you think even most people who get divorced thought they would get divorced on their wedding day or when things were going great in the beginning?[/quote]
The point is most men date a girl for a year maybe a year and a half and then propose. Not enough time in my opinion for life to throw various things at you to see how this women you are with responds…that is my point. What’s the rush?
It would be interesting to see how the rate of divorce correlates with the number of years you dated someone before marrying them.
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I don’t disagree with you on that one point, though…so why come in the thread like you need to teach me something?
I hope you never get divorced. From what I hear, it sucks for all parties involved. But no one knows if their marriage may ever go there or not. I also know that making a marriage work is CONSTANT WORK, not something you settle into. That means at any point in the future if one or both parties stop working at it, it will fall apart.
My only question is why, in this day and age, why we still treat marriage like we need to protect the women to this degree as far as divorce…and why it is still seen as socially awkward to discuss being prepared in case of marriage failure?
Some of you came in this thread like I had assaulted your entire belief structure with that initial post.
Why is that? Why do you get attacked if you so much as imply that marriage isn’t magic?[/quote]
Ok, so essentially this is a bitch about government then. I mean everyone knows that it takes the government 100X as long to adjust to something than an private entity would, and an entity like a company takes 100x as long to react and adjust to something as an individual would. I don’t see why you are so flabbergasted over this. Like you just woke up and dudes started getting fucked over in marriage. It has been a slow gradual climb to this point, and when “we” get around to it, and it’s a big enough problem, like bigger than terrorism, forcing health care on everyone, or steroids in baseball, then “we” will take 10 years to fix it.
I also agree that the longer you are together prior to marriage, the better the chances you will stay married. My cousin just married a girl who he has known for a couple months. Not gonna lie, probably not gonna end well.
V
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X Not to be stupid, but do you want to respond to the post I made above here? I think I hit the nail on the head.
V[/quote]
Dude, this whole site has been fucked for the past 24 hours and there are other people who seem to have reading comprehension problems. If I didn’t respond to your post, that is likely because there was nothing to respond to or I haven’t read it yet.
OMG! PROFESSOR X HATES MARRIAGE!!!
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]mr popular wrote:
I never gave any moral lessons or said that I thought the “family unit” was important for everyone. All I said was that if it’s important to you, you need to work at it and a big reason why marriages fail is because both parties neglect that fact - regardless of wealth or status involved, but these things have an impact. I also said that if it’s not important to you, that’s fine and don’t get married. [/quote]
Bullshit. That isn’t all you said. You even mentioned my profession like that has anything to do with what was stated. that means in other words, you made this some personal issue as if because I think a man with assets needs to protect those assets that this somehow means I think of marriage only as a business decision. IT IS A FUCKING BUSINESS DECISION as well as a vows to be with someone for life.
Your post didn’t need to be directed at me at all.[/quote]
LOL You created a thread about this topic, and have stated personal things such as not wanting to get married, and you talk openly about your feelings towards women and about your profession. And you’re confused as to why I used you as an example in your own thread?
Now you’re just being silly.
[quote]mr popular wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]mr popular wrote:
I never gave any moral lessons or said that I thought the “family unit” was important for everyone. All I said was that if it’s important to you, you need to work at it and a big reason why marriages fail is because both parties neglect that fact - regardless of wealth or status involved, but these things have an impact. I also said that if it’s not important to you, that’s fine and don’t get married. [/quote]
Bullshit. That isn’t all you said. You even mentioned my profession like that has anything to do with what was stated. that means in other words, you made this some personal issue as if because I think a man with assets needs to protect those assets that this somehow means I think of marriage only as a business decision. IT IS A FUCKING BUSINESS DECISION as well as a vows to be with someone for life.
Your post didn’t need to be directed at me at all.[/quote]
LOL You created a thread about this topic, and have stated personal things such as not wanting to get married, and you talk openly about your feelings towards women and about your profession. And you’re confused as to why I used you as an example in your own thread?
Now you’re just being silly.[/quote]
I spoke of my feelings towards women? Where? Nothing I’ve written here about women stands apart from an explanation of all people. In general, if you are putting all of your finances, personal issues, wants and desires into the hands of another person, it just might help to stop looking at things through the eyes of some elementary school kid’s concept of marriage.
You mentioned “business” before…as if you really thought marriage wasn’t a business decision. Along with everything else marriage is, it is most definitely a business move considering the perks from tax decreases to everything Yo Momma listed.
Your initial response to me implied that you assumed someone who avoids marriage somehow avoids wanting a relationship…as if the two concepts simply can not exist together.
Why, pray tell, would you think I needed you to tell me that I need to prioritize the things I want in life?
Once again, why is MARRIAGE seen as the only sane logical leap for a well grounded person as if avoiding the paper work makes you less than you somehow?
What point were you trying to make to me specifically if it was not this and why did you think it needed to be written?
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
OMG! PROFESSOR X HATES MARRIAGE!!![/quote]
LOL, No he just hates Marriage without Prenups. Wait, no, he hates that you need to get a prenup. Wait no, He hates that people are selfish. Wait, no, He hates being a human, living on earth. Yea thats it. X wishes he could go to some alien planet where every alien lifted weights, ate steak every night, married eachother and divorced all the time, but split everything up according to thier exact worth, and Unless she is making 30 sandwiches per day, her worth is basically nothing.
V
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I spoke of my feelings towards women?
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Of course you didn’t, you need feelings in the first place to speak of them. Right pookie bear?
V
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Did you hear that Tiger is changing his nickname?
Yeah, it’s still in the cat family: Cheetah.
lol[/quote]
lol
I can’t believe I’m giggling at that :D[/quote]
You really just now heard that one?
Btw, Deb your avatar! Good fucking God! I wanna do such bad things to you.[/quote]
=D
I didn’t think it would get that reaction!
[quote]Vegita wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
OMG! PROFESSOR X HATES MARRIAGE!!![/quote]
LOL, No he just hates Marriage without Prenups. Wait, no, he hates that you need to get a prenup. Wait no, He hates that people are selfish. Wait, no, He hates being a human, living on earth. Yea thats it. X wishes he could go to some alien planet where every alien lifted weights, ate steak every night, married eachother and divorced all the time, but split everything up according to thier exact worth, and Unless she is making 30 sandwiches per day, her worth is basically nothing.
V[/quote]
lol the sandwich part was funny.
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Did you hear that Tiger is changing his nickname?
Yeah, it’s still in the cat family: Cheetah.
lol[/quote]
lol
I can’t believe I’m giggling at that :D[/quote]
You really just now heard that one?
Btw, Deb your avatar! Good fucking God! I wanna do such bad things to you.[/quote]
=D
I didn’t think it would get that reaction!
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Oh really???
Deb, (in the spirit of Animal House) I’m sure you can’t even resist feeling yourself up.