Yes and no. You’re looking at bar violence with some flawed assumptions. There are no guarantees in a fight, and everyone should always remember that before choosing violence.
Being a bouncer is another way of saying that you’re a polite bar employee who waits to be assaulted. Not because you want to be, but because you will be.
Why? Because it is your job to confront people about bad behavior. There’s a certain percentage of people who won’t react well to that. Some may choose assault.
When they do, I can defend myself with reasonable force. Not because I’m a bouncer, but because I’m a human with rights. There are no special laws governing bouncers here. You’re an agent of the establishment, just like a bartender of a gas station clerk.
I rarely took more than one or two shifts per week, so I never got jaded or sick of the work, I might start picking up shifts again now that we’re opened back up. I chose the work because I enjoy it and the fringe perks that come with the job.
As far as training, BJJ as I’ve learned it isn’t sport grappling. It is core judo, core wrestling, basic footwork and striking and fight-oriented Jiu Jitsu. No berimbolos for me yet.
I’m graded as a three stripe white belt, which I earned at my first school. My present instructor teaches at home mats for free, and I’ve got roughly double the mat time there there that I did at my first school. I’ve been a three stripe white belt for 3 years now I think.
The only discussion I’ve had about my belt ranks with my present instructor was when he told me he’d give me a blue belt for a day if I wanted to compete. That was over two years ago.
I’m guessing if I went to a paid bjj school again I’d get promoted to blue fairly quickly. It has been a very long time since I’ve been tapped out by a white or blue belt, and you don’t see many white belts with the kind of mileage my gi has on it.
Belts only mean what the person giving them out mean. My instructor has been a four stripe brown belt for at least four years now. He’d have been a black belt for years at nearly any other school in the world. His instructor is a different breed, and I couldn’t imagine learning violence from a better source.
Standards vary wildly from school to school. Some have none at all aside from time in rank.