The Tactical Life

To add a bit to what idaho said, this is decisive non-lethal force in action. Some guys just don’t know when to quit, so a pig pile gives them no choice. One of the longest shit-shows I oversaw ended with a guy, who just moments before was beaten severely by a pack of 5 bikers, charge at the police when they showed up. He got tased and pig-piled by 3 of them before being taken into custody.

The beating he took prior to that defied all logic. He just kept getting up asking the bikers for more, and getting more. Running his mouth like he was Mike Tyson but completely inept at both offense and defense. I tried to stop it and succeeded just before the cops showed up and he decided to run his mouth at them. Total insanity.

The guy was wasted and impervious to both pain and reasoning. It is really tough for people to understand what that’s like unless you’ve dealt with someone in that state with bad intentions. I’m guessing some type of coke/meth/speed was in play as well as alcohol.

These are dangerous people to attempt to subdue by yourself.

A few thoughts…

First separate social violence and predatory violence. As a bouncer I mostly dealt with the former. These were not guys who were after anything specific from me, but only wanted to seem as if THEY were in control of the situation, that THEY got to dictate the terms at the bar and that THEY ARE THE SWINGING DICK TOUGH GUY.

That’s social violence, and those peacocks retract their feathers rather quickly when things don’t go their way. IMO you need only separate yourself by training, fitness and most importantly, conduct to avoid this quite easily. If you happen to be unable to, such as if you do doorman work, you will be much better off if you can resolve these issues without putting anyone in the hospital or even busting up their face a little bit. It is better to make them both feel and look like a helpless child. You don’t need to rack up a list of enemies that way, and may even make friends with some of the people’s ass you whoop. That requires that you separate yourself significantly by a combination of training and attributes/fitness.

It also requires some level of grappling proficiency. Once you start throwing strikes, faces start getting busted up fast.

Predatory violence is when someone wants to take something from you or administer life-altering damage. In the most basic form, think of the knock-out game where someone just sucker punches you out of the blue. Predatory violence is serious violence, up to and including lethal force.

When that whistle blows, fight as hard as you can with everything you have. In that case, grappling is also your life line. The most basic skill you can gain is being difficult/nearly impossible for a single person to hold down. Then you get good at holding people down. Then you start with the submissions and more refined techniques.

If your grappling sucks and your striking is great, you’ve left the door open for a good high school wrestler to whoop your ass if he hits you with a sucker double and pins you down.

But sir… There’s a very attractive girl in my Muay Thai class. I’m sure I don’t stand a chance, but it’s swaying my logic in the direction of wishing to primarily partake in Muay Thai.

inCrEdIblY lOgiCal thought processing going on up in my brain. What a dilemma… @twojarslave

To any reading that are NOT acquainted with real world violence or self defense, these ambush attacks on the (usually) weak, are a good starting place for instruction.

One minute you are lost in your own thought. The next, any number of random scenarios - hit in the back of the head, slammed from the blind side into the street/ground, confronted at personal space range by a knife, bottle, gun, stick, fists that you never noticed until in your face.

This will done TO you. Not with your consent. Not like an old movie where 2 guys line up and agree to duel it out. It will be without provocation on your part, with psychopathic intent on theirs, and possibly be life changing.

That is why observing and controlling your space is pitched over and over. The training from hand to weapon is possibly the only thing that will save you, if you lose control of your space. Again because someone else decided to invade it, for whatever reason. Fighting (not defense) is just actively deciding you will take the risks.

edit 2JS wrote this out better than I

A good nugget of wisdom from my instructor…

“You’re either committing assault or starting the fight in a bad position.”

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I’ll focus on both striking and grappling at an equitable rate while I start out, though my prior experience in combat sports involving striking seemingly has me pegged ahead of the game. Half a year to a year down the line I’ll prioritise my preferred sport/art.

Hoping these practices won’t interfere with my weight training too much. I’ve bumped my strength training down to 4x/wk to accommodate the new volume (sometimes 5) from 6x/day, sometimes twice per day (would go with multiple dorm mates). To note I’m not a fighter, I haven’t “fought” in years. Had a few close calls with random delinquents and peers alike in the past two years. Always walked away (in one case practically ran), can’t help but wonder “what if this happens again and I can’t run away or talk my way out of a savage beating?” It’s probably not a fear stooped in logic or adequate rationale, but regardless I firmly believe I’d feel a lot better knowing that I harbour the skills required to potentially defend myself if shit were to hit the fan.

I’ve also started running/roadwork 2x/wk. Regardless of whether it helps or not, it’s enjoyable and relaxing. 2x/wk is as much running as I can handle due to nerve damage present in my foot.

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Of course it is. It happened to me when I was only a few years older than you. I didn’t choose to be assaulted and did all I could to defuse. The asshole had other ideas and I was beaten severely. You don’t prepare for the tens of thousands of days throughout one’s life when you don’t have to fight. You prepare for the day your number gets called, if it ever comes.

Aside from bouncing encounters, which are essentially voluntary on my part, I’ve had to deal with one armed robbery and one unprovoked felony assault in my life. Not on the same day, luckily. That makes 2 out of 15,000 days where I had to deal with unwelcome violence. I’m very lucky to have lived such a peaceful life.

Sounds like you’re getting plenty of work in. Good luck!

I can see the headlines
“armed robber commits felony assault on random guy in crowd for no reason”
“One mans REALLY unlucky day! As everyone was released from the diner/bank unscathed, one victim and only one victim inexplicably exited the building with a broken nose.”

I feel the need to ask. You’ve specified you don’t become jaded/discomposed relating to your work… How?

I’d lose my shit if I was around drunk (or coked up/both, as one typically isn’t present without the other) people all the time. I’m not against letting loose every once in a blue moon, but let’s be honest; being sober in a room full of drunks (or those intoxicated on stimulants) can be a very unpleasant and irritating experience.

When you’re part of the fun you don’t realise how obnoxious you/others may seem to a non-inebriated individual. As specified, individualistic antics on occasion, probably not the end of the world. BUT, infant stand it when people take their own irresponsible antics and shelve it into the hands of others, thus making the problems and ramifications not of their own.

I’m not some kind of Saint or teetotaler, though I always make a concerted effort to never get to the point wherein others need to take care of me/that I make an ass out of myself. I know my limits (not proud to admit this) through rigorous experimentation over the years. My eventual conclusion was that all of that kind of shit, while it can be tremendously fun, is a HUGE waste of time. As a result I’ve settled down a lot ever since starting college, which makes for an interesting social paradigm as it seems many wish to do continue and even build upon that “party hard and all night long” type of mentality that many of us including myself at times had in high school.

As time has gone by, I’ve become somewhat disappointed and disillusioned. There are consequences associated with this kind of behaviour, consequences and responsibilities many refuse to own up to when an individualistic act of stupidity ends with detriment imposed upon everyone in the room.

I’ve actually become sick of going to bars and clubs because I’m sick of the obnoxious douchebaggery and deviant tendencies it seems to bring out of people (and the music sucks, refreshments are expensive whether alcoholic or not and I hate stepping in puke just to make it to the bathroom. I also find it gross when people piss in the sink… Disgusting).

What’s interesting is … I actually found this exciting and intriguing and one point, I suppose you have to experience it to have a take on it… The only benefit to clubs/bars is… Girls… But even then, I wouldn’t take a drunk girl home if I were to be sober. I can attest to this with confidence as I have been directly propositioned in this manner.

Why aren’t you fed up from being surrounded by what is arguably one of the worst aspects of humankind all day? I think you’ve mentioned you bounced in dive bars? I don’t go to such locations here, but in Europe I went to quite a few dive bars (by myself mind you, 18y/o me just wanted to see/do everything). Went to some dive bars that primarily played punk rock/hardcore punk, one was a metal bar etc. There are some seriously dodgy/seedy looking characters in these places that gave off such an intimidating aura, I wouldn’t even want to accidentally look at the wrong way!

Why would you want to be surrounded by people like this? Don’t you feel as if your safety is at risk? Don’t you get sick of smashed people slobbering and stumbling all over the place, picking fight, fucking in public etc?

Why do you like the work? No judgement on my part, perhaps the dynamic differs when you aren’t surrounded by inebriated high school kids and college students. I seldom drink now, but when I do it’s typically with my older cousins with the aim being to get tipsy as opposed to so drunk you wake up feeling like you’ve been hit by a freight train. Sometimes (very occasionally) I’ll even enjoy just one serving of beer/scotch/liquor. But doing so is very rare as I dislike the effect alcohol mediates on body composition and cardiometabolic parameters relative to what little upside intake has.

It seems as if self defence would be incredibly applicable to bouncing. I’ve hands down noted bars appear to be the place where the highest proportion of aggressive or antisocial behaviour breaks out.

Should clarify when I specify I’d lose my shit… I’m not referring to violence, I just think it’d have a negative impact on my already cynical ideological worldview if I was to be consistently surrounded by people in a state that brings out their worst characteristics.

I don’t depend on it for income, for one. It is essentially a paid personal interest that I’ve always experienced in moderate doses with increasingly good pay over the years. I’ve always prioritized my career over my side-job.

There are other perks to the job. Many different types of women like a good bouncer. Dudes do too, and I’ve met a lot of people at work who’ve become my friends over the years. Between the dive bar and the upscale bar, I’ve had more great interactions with people from both home and abroad than I could ever count.

That’s an awfully presumptuous statement, and it is extremely off-the-mark. I bounce at my neighborhood bar, where our regulars include everyone from doctors, lawyers, politicians, cops, paramedics, strippers, pro fighters, business systems analysts, drug dealers, outlaw bikers and just about everyone else you can imagine. It is a dive bar, but it is not some den of filth with no standards. It is a den of filth with moderate standards. Sometimes people show up who need to be seen out. That’s why I’m there.

I bounced in my neighborhood dive bar and my neighborhood upscale bar. Two bars total. I’ll take the dive bar any day of the week, unless I’m bringing a woman out on a date. Then we go the upscale bar.

Because it is fun. Because I’m a good person to do the job of helping some of my friends, neighbors and the people they happen to interact with that night arrive at good decisions after a night spent cutting loose.

Not particularly. If it ever got really bad for me, I’ve got a bar full of people who I’ve watched over for years and built up good relationships with who would hopefully intervene on my behalf.

If not, it might just be my day to die.

Not at all. It keeps the job interesting and grants opportunities to publicly set a tone for what sort of behavior we’ll tolerate. I like to think I do a good job of treating those people with respect and hopefully giving them something to reflect on later. The bar I work at is fun as shit. My good friend owns it. I take a personal interest in watching over things. These are my people.

It definitely is, but to tie it back to the original notion that sent me off on my latest screed…

I’m living proof of this. I’m big, strong, moderately athletic for my size, calm of demeanor and a serious martial arts student with several hundred hours of mat time. Those are my basic advantages.

Most of my “fights” ended in a clinch of some kind, or a throw/takedown/choke away from a clinch. If a guy my size with a 600lb deadlift gets behind you and then grabs you by the hips, I have control over you and now we go where I say we go. I can make a fairly convincing argument with nothing more than a good clinch. Enough to get the wheels of thought spinning towards deeper consideration of the risk/reward calculation of picking a fight with the bouncer when he lets you go.

In this thread I may speak about more extreme and unusual behaviors, but most of the job is hanging out at a really cool bar and talking people into cabs/ubers.

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I wasn’t referring to the people themselves being of questionable character.

Rather the characteristics excessive inebriation can bring out within people equates to amplifying negative personality traits for many. When I say “the worst aspects of humankind” I’m referring to that boisterous, loud/obnoxious, callous and overconfident state alcohol induces.

Student/college events certainly amplify this to extremes, as many appear to have complete disregard for others and the environment around them.

Well then, see above. That’s the most complete explanation for why I bounce that I’ve probably ever thought through.

It is a job that someone needs to do. If nobody does it, it doesn’t get done. If the wrong people do it, it makes things worse.

Thought for the day:

@zecarlo brought up an excellent point that has not been covered much here. Thou, I am always armed in the states, international travel is another animal. My choice for a weapon to travel with has been the cane for several years. I have had no problems with foreign police or security in airport terminals, including Middle East countries.

Some more information:

Potentially lethal weapons are those items that can cause death or severe injury when used by themselves with little, to no training.

Fire extinguishers can be used both as a blunt force object and a distance weapon. The chemical in the extinguisher is an eye irritant. Spray it in the face of the intruder and, while blinded, smack them very hard with the tank.

Knives and other sharp things like ice picks, screwdrivers and pens can be used to poke holes into an intruder.

The key to a successful defense with a sharp object is where you poke the holes. Deadly areas are the neck, chest and large arteries. Severely injurious targets are the abdomen and extremities. You may have to start by slicing anatomical pieces that the intruder unwisely presents close enough to you before going for the fight ending blow. No matter what, all cuts and stabs hurt.

Smaller blunt force weapons include items like a self-defense key chain, an iron, pots and pans, a can of food, hammer, lamp and a glass bottle to name a few. These objects simply increase the force output of your attack while also relieving your fist from taking the pain of self-defense.

Gardening tools like shovels, rakes, hoes and other metal-tipped long-handled objects are great for keeping some distance from an intruder. Poking and hitting works well with these tools.

Sporting equipment like bats, racquets and other long hard objects work great as blunt force weapons.

Footwear is an often overlooked self-defense item. The hard heel of any shoe will work well has a blunt force weapon.

Distraction weapons are those items that are relatively harmless but are good for causing a distraction while trying to get to more dangerous or lethal weapons.

Household chemicals of almost any kind will work effectively in the eyes but look at the warning labels and view the areas of the body discussed as targets. Some good examples of these are bleach, aerosol insect poisons (wasp spray is great because it sprays 10 to 20 feet away), powder detergent and hair spray.

A blanket, towels or clothes can temporarily block the intruder’s vision while you break free to another area of the house or escape.

Spices like chili powder, pepper or salt are all eye irritants. Though I do not expect you to always have a handful of chili powder in your palm, I bring it up to help open your mind to possibilities. Sand and dirt fall into this category of self-defense weapons as well.

There are a few things to consider when using a weapon. Consider that, unless it is attached to you, the weapon could be taken from you and potentially used against you. Take a moment to think about what you will do if that happens.

Also consider that you may inadvertently take a life. Take a moment to think about the toll this may have in your life.

Lastly, make your attack count and go for the painful areas.

The most powerful weapon you have is your mind. Using your imagination to think of ways to defend yourself is going to keep you the safest. Your mind is also your worst enemy. Your mind is going to want to hesitate when it is time to start defending yourself. It is going to want to try to convince you that you are “peaceful” and that fighting back is not in your nature. You have to defend this thought with thoughts of your loved ones and how much they love, need, and rely on you.

This is why l liked @s_afsoc training of getting off of the X.
It immediately gives you a chance of avoiding the full brunt of a first assault, sets your brain and body into motion rather than momentarily freezing, and (in my personal experience) have seen aggressors hesitate, upon seeing you react rather than being caught fully unawares.

Thought for the day:

From Toney Blauer:

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Are people training for their last fight or are they training for their next fight?

Think about it…

If you lost your last fight it would be natural to stew over it, to fixate on it, maybe ‘go back to the drawing board’, review the film, ask for a rematch and so on.

And then, while hitting the bag or sparring, probably still thinking about the loss or person who beat you.

But what if you won??

Guess what, I’ve noticed the same thing…

From combat sports to combatives, even when people were victorious they still talked about the last fight. And in many cases, they may even prepare the same way, after all, they won. “Don’t fix it if it ain’t broke.”

In both cases, victim or victor, people were talking or thinking about their last fight.

Here’s the danger: If you are a sport fighter your opponent is preparing [and probably] using video of your last fight and how you train. The same goes for law-enforcement and military. Everyone shows their tactics on the net. Who’s watching?

If you are not reinventing yourself you’re making it easier for a motivated opponent.

This reframe can help change self-awareness, making sure that you are always reinventing yourself.

Pro tip: Always be training for your next fight.

Thought for the day:

" The final weapon is the brain, all else is supplemental" John Steinbeck.

Never forget how fast and brutal a knife attack happens. Train accordingly.

35 seconds. That’s how long East Peoria Police Officer Jeffrey Bieber fought for his life against a suspect who stabbed him 10 times with a knife.

Thought for the day:

Today is a special day for the U.S. Army and the symbol of our county: The flag of the United States of America.

However, I don’t think Omar or the squad of 5 even know, or care, or have ever studied the history of the country they so vilify .

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In the United States, Flag Day is celebrated on June 14. It commemorates the adoption of the flag of the United States on June 14, 1777, by resolution of the Second Continental Congress. The Flag Resolution, passed on June 14, 1777, stated: “Resolved, That the flag of the thirteen United States be thirteen stripes, alternate red and white; that the union be thirteen stars, white in a blue field, representing a new constellation.”

The United States Army also celebrates the U.S. Army birthday on this date; Congress adopted “the American continental army” after reaching a consensus position in the Committee of the Whole on June 14, 1775.

But they will happily take this country’s money.

They learned everything they need to know about American history from Nikole Hannah-Jones’ 1619 Project.

Thought for the day:

"Endurance is one of the most difficult disciplines…
…but it is to the one who endures that the final victory comes." –Buddha

And speaking of endurance and never giving up:

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Honey Badger don’t care!