I think it CAN BE and I think organized religion was created for this purpose. That doesn’t mean it’s always used for this purpose when you look at it from a micro perspective. Some families just want their kids to grow up right and treat other people right while developing a sense of community that humans normally crave.
Look more into Confucianism or read the Tao Te Ching. Buddhism is better for it’s parables and moral lessons. There’s too much woo woo stuff for my taste. I’d go with the former first.
But, at your age, shouldn’t you be focusing more on your actual school studies? Don’t waste your time with this shit. It won’t benefit you in your career. Read the Art of War if you MUST read something.