[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Severiano wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Severiano wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]Severiano wrote:
The back and forths between you and I got personal a while back. You are the one who dragged b.s. that started on PWI to the get a life forum with EmilyQ who seems to be a nice enough lady. Did you ever take the time to ask yourself why a person with mastery in relationships would ask sophomoric questions about relationships that she already knows about to a bunch of meatheads and jocks? You are a bit too dim to realize I saw right through it and was giving her what she wanted, maybe you have a problem with that aspect in your life? But once again you singled me out by pointing out I was giving her what she wanted lol. She’s an intriguing lady, she’s interesting to all of us, have you gathered that yet?
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Um, wow. I just can’t even begin to unravel any of this, and don’t want to, so let me only say that I am a licensed clinical social worker, LICSW, and am credentialed to practice individual, family, and group psychotherapy in my state. That’s very different from a “mastery in relationships.”
I will also say that probably I do have mastery in relationships, as shown by the long term nature of every single one of them. However, sustaining a shitty relationship until the end of time is not my current goal. Figuring out how to identify the non-surface traits I seek (integrity, self-control) in the very brief time I have before I need to either go forward (sex) or cut bait is the issue.
That’s not one of the classes we’re taught in graduate school.
Since I like meatheads and jocks who like expressing their thoughts in writing, and hope to find exactly this combination of traits, this seems a most excellent place to ask questions.
Your response (MBTI) was sophomoric in that Meyers Briggs is taught in Intro Psych, and Chushin knows perfectly well that I have a pretty good grip on my personality type. I think you read my questions and projected your own level of development and education onto them. However, you were trying to be helpful, which is nice, and I appreciate it. Chushin was what I think of as uncharacteristically abrupt with you. Which is interesting as a female observer, so thank you both for THAT piece of my post-graduate study of men in their natural online environment.
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Thank you Emily. I’m happy to help and be part of whatever experiments you are taking part, I wish you luck! I think you picked a top notch site for your endeavors.
All I know of Chushin is what I have experienced online. I don’t know him, or really anyone on here in a professional manner. Of course context, communication and tempers are a bit out of whack given the interface. I don’t have anything good to say about him other than he seems to have some friends here, the way he interacts with people with a penis who disagree with him is all I have experienced and observed. If you were a friend of mine, I’d tell you to look at the level of respect he gives others by default. The interactions he has had with you are a lot nicer than the ones he has had with me, and the ones I have witnessed with others on PWI with people who he disagrees with and he has a rather rigid way of viewing the world.
And, if anyone took the me fighting like a kid thing as a physical thing. I’m referring to the verbal, typing jabs we have been trading for a while now, they weren’t intended as a physical threat. Just calling it what it is. Cheers EmilyQ[/quote]
Oh for Christ’s sake.
Will you PLEASE stop talking about me already?
Everybody now knows what a bad, bad man I am.
You’ve stated your case multiple times.
Now give it a fucking rest, son.
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I’m not your son. If you talk shit I’m gonna call you on it, get used to it. Maybe you got the wrong impression, I tried disengaging from the shit talk but you kept at it. I’m not someone who will lie down and take it, AT ALL.
You aren’t a bad man, stop kidding yourself power puff. [/quote]
LMAO. You sure are one tough hombre!
Knock yourself out, then, junior,
You’re too dumb to know everyone is laughing at you.
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Wait, first you try to expose some insecurity about my feelings, now you try to do it by telling me I’m losing face and people are laughing at me.
Do you think I don’t see it? Better question, do you think I care? I get it, you think I’m a dumb kid. I’m a fucking vet fool.