[quote]Irish Daza wrote:
When you find and instructor with passion and knowledge, who practices real sparring - not just prearranged forms - go for it! Even if it’s a style that’s supposed to be crap! How good you are depends on who taught you, otherwise we’d all learn from books and DVD’s![/quote]
The above advice is probably the best, since you are just starting out. You will be basically learning to walk again. No one has become a great fighter over night. Style isn’t going to matter as much as getting a good base, and learning to use your body. Once you have learned “how to learn”, you can start to branch out.
Another part of in getting better is CONSISTANCY! It’s also great if the instructor is close by. Having to drive for 1/2 hour or more to a class is a pain in the butt. Especially if you are trying to train 3-4 times a week. If you can find a good club that is a 10 minute walk away you are rocking.
As for sparring(note: this is from my personal experience)…
When you are just starting out (first year or two) 80-90% of sparring time should be working on technique, rather than a free-for-all brawl. This is the time to hone the moves,locks, strikes, etc. with a living, moving target. Work on trying to slip to the side, getting behind your opponent, block counter, practice control moves, etc.
This means you will be losing most of your sparring matches because you are trying to learn something new. Sparring in the club is a relatively safe place to lose, unlike in the street!
Ultimately, winning a fight is all about the odds…
Training more increases the odds of winning.
Having more strength/power increases the odds of winning.
Training in a more practical style increases the odds of winning.
Having diversied MA background increases the odds of winning.
Etc, Etc.
But no matter how good you get, there will still be some 90lb girl somewhere who could kick the living crap out of you because she is just naturally that f&^ing tough.
Cheers,
BigUrukhai