Yes. But given that I’m an immature teenager, that might change. I just find the notion of fidelity based on sexual contact outdated. I trust men enough to believe emotional connection isn’t always tied to physical connection
Once you tell him that, you’ll end up speculating on certain things. Who has he been fucking and what kind of diseases could he have picked up? Does he wear protection? Will he have a kid with someone else? Is he going to keep a mistress? Then you’ll make his life hell if he’s not the kind of person who sleeps around. Start controlling his finances. Check your privates and freak out even at the smallest rash. Start monitering his schedule and insisting to know his every movement. That’s what my wife did after we got married. The irony is that I was the one who almost couldn’t take it. Make proper choices.
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Noted. I love the free wisdom I get on this forum
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Ah but here’s the flaw. The basis of fidelity in marriage for you right now is sexual contact. There is so much more to a monogamous relationship than just sex. What you’re doing is effectively reducing marriage to a license to have just sex, but there’s just so much more to it than just that.
Don’t trust men. For anything. Ever. Lol!!
Kidding aside, okay, he may not become emotionally attached, but what about your emotions?
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@anna_5588, there’s more to a happy marriage than sex. If you’re future husband doesn’t appreciate or give you what you need, then will you feel the urge to satisfy his sexual desires?
Sex always has underlying elements. Contrary to popular belief, sex always has a deep connection.
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Noted.
You, like, just got to college. Give it a bit.
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I don’t trust men- I trust they enjoy casual sex on occasion. Idk if that’s actually true though after what you guys have said
Funny how much of the advice you’re getting are from…well…Men. Haha!
I was just teasing, didn’t mean to make it sound like I’m telling you how to feel about all of this.
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Most of my friends have slept around because there are lots of high end KTVs here. I think you know what I’m talking about. I’m very sure their wives know. Their wives, however, are smart enough NOT to let them know that they know because this would imply that they approve of it.
hmm… that actually sounds like quite an appealing strategy
Yes, don’t be a dumbass like my wife and do the “I don’t care what you do outside but don’t bring them home” thing.
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My wife told me “Look and flirt all you want, but don’t touch.”.
Until I touched.
It’s interesting, what people think they’re OK with until they find out otherwise.
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So I was doing some googling on leg workouts and apparently I’m supposed to have hamstrings 
anybody know where I can buy some hammies
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@ActivitiesGuy I got fitted to be a buggy driver (CMU tradition) today and thought I’d have an easy time given how small I am. Turns out, my terrible neck and shoulder pretty much disqualified me.
Same issue of 0 hammies, why would you use them when you can just use your low back instead?
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That’s my problem as well leg day leaves my lower back trashed and legs fresh
It’s looks so funny. I don’t have big quads by Tnation standards but they make my little hammies even littler. Very strange. From the back it’s wven worse.
Counting down also works for me in hard sets. When I have a squat pr set or something I’ll go, “cmon 10 more and I’m done, 9 more and I’m done… 8 more… 7, 6…”
For some reason it helps psychologically as the number I’m counting now means “reps left until I’m done with this shit.”
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A confession: living in a country where university isn’t anything close to US college (being that here university is, well, just a school and you only spend a few hours a week there as opposed to living, sleeping, developing your social life like I think is done in US colleges), I sometimes feel like I’m missing out on something. American teens’ life must be way less boring than ours.
I guess if I were in the US and just about to go to college for the first time I’d be super excited and it’d basically completely change my life on a daily basis. Whereas I’ll soon be starting university and, while I’m excited for it, the impact it’ll have on my daily life will be about “wake up, drive to the station, take the train for an hour, spend a few hours there for the classes, train back home, rinse and repeat…”