The Dead Bedroom Thread

There’s a joke about building one house or sucking one dick.

I didn’t post that. You’re reading into my post.

I would argue the ordinary man as he has access to a lot more women. Look at Bezos, he had to settle for a woman who looks like a tranny. A dude at college has access to more women than a celebrity or CEO.

Did I really need to clarify that we’re talking about straight women?

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No, but things like this tend to be on a spectrum. There are some women that basically want a man that is a woman in a man’s body for example. Non masculine traits. This is a minority. I agree with you for the most part, just the “universally” caught my attention.

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Sticking with Latinas, just how high would these men be ranking Salma Hayek, Sofia Vergara or Jennifer Lopez?

Have you seen those KPop “men”? Extremely effeminate yet they have a lot of female fans.

I promise you unattractive men were having a hard time before Tinder.

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College students have more access to women than Brad Pitt?

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I think they are popular despite their looks. Kpop is weird, I don’t understand it, but being in a popular music group can do a lot for a guy (regarding women).

I don’t think many of the guys that were in boy bands 25 years ago were particularly attractive. Probably the same as with Kpop, there is a lot of status attached to it.

But I am a dude, so I can make guesses at what makes women tick, but I don’t really know.

I believe you 100%.
But it is worse now than it was before.

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I actually saw a study about this. Their fans are mainly pre-teens. The study said that girls think effeminate boys are cute and find more masculine traits unattractive. When puberty hits, they shift toward masculine traits. This increases as they get older. Well, unless they get on chemical birth control, as many teen girls do for the treatment of acne (bad idea). That can shift natural perceptions.

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Are you telling me that Justin Beiber fans were mostly young girls?

I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around all this

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Whats wrong with licking buttholes?

To be fair, if you’re using tinders numbers as backing you have to consider the composition of tinder, which is pretty broad, and include it in your considerations.

Otherwise you have a lack of analogy between your statement and the information backing it up.

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…right.

Lesbians looking for lesbians did not have data input in the numbers of women looking for men. That was filtered.

IF IT WASN’T filtered, then it looks like 80% of women including lesbians are looking for 20% of men.

So my point stands, as far as I see it.

Thats not what this says.

No it doesn’t.

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Tinder users are majority men.

I said this earlier, but I really think the thots you see on social media really skew what actually happens in real life.

I found this most interesting

That’s only 10ish% of Americans. I’d of guessed higher.

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didn’t you also say that you don’t think social media has any weight in people’s beliefs (something to that extent)? if not here, then in another thread?

“More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women, signaling a larger breakdown in the social, romantic and sexual life of the American male.”

Two explanations we can gather from this:

  1. Quasi-polygamy in which women are actually sharing high-status, thrilling, or handsome men.
  2. Older men tapping into a younger pool of women.
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This reminds me of a thread or post somewhere a while back about women loving Brad Pitt’s fight club physique and all the guys just couldn’t accept it. “He’s built like a twink” It’s what most women like :man_shrugging:

No, I said I don’t believe social media is as influential on society/culture as people think, which is consistent with what I wrote above, but was perhaps not very clear.

I think thots on social media skew people’s perception on what actually happens in real life. Meaning, the Hoes you see on Instagram are not representative of the way women are, generally, in real life.

There has to be at least a 3rd explanation as yours only cover the lack of romantic relationships. What is driving the lack of friendships?

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