[quote]theBeth wrote:
I think maybe Catholicism realizes their papal history of sexual deviancy and corruption precedes any efforts they could make to campaign against that sort of thing. Westboro is just another Jim Jone’s special in the making. Every group is certain they are right and everyone else is wrong. “Those who speak, don’t know. Those who know, don’t speak” - lao tzu[/quote]
I could care less about if every Pope after Peter was a sexual deviant. The fact is that gay marriage is not a thing, the Church teaches that, Bishop preach it.
Catholics are not anti-gay. We’re very pro-gay (but because of equivocation people don’t define and make distinction over their terms let me explain fast).
Catholics love the sinner, hate the sin. I abhor all sexual immorality (even when I do it), this includes homosexual acts.
However, as a Catholic the reason I love those persons who struggle with Same Sex Attractions (I prefer that term to Homosexuals)) is because the Church makes a distinction between persons, inclinations, and actions.
We always declare the basic dignity of the person…meaning we love our neighbor, all of them! Of course with certain proximity comes certain loyalty I love my father above my actual next door neighbor, I love my country man more than I love a foreign neighbor, &c. That being said persons can never inherently “wrong”. They are actually inherently “good” but they are also part of a fallen race (which affects inclinations and actions, but not the inherent dignity of the person) and they are also redeemed with the possibility of being saved.
Inclinations can be ordered or disordered to their proper end. The Church teaches that those with same sex attractions have a “disordered” inclination. Because of the importance of this inclination, it is a gravely disordered inclination. Now, because we are a fallen race all of us at times can misuse our inclinations, this is called “action” different from inclination. You want to eat, that is an ordered inclination (basically the inclination is ordered to the good, in the case of hunger it is ordered to your nutrition). If you want to eat, but you want to eat dirt, that is a disordered inclination (your inclination is not properly directed to its end, dirt is not nutrition). However, you have the free will to eat a steak instead of dirt. So, inclinations are not “wrong” or “right” per se, but ordered or disordered.
“Action” can and is “wrong” or “right”. If you’re hungry, the proper thing to do is eat a healthy meal. That is “right.” Going to the playground and eating dirt is “wrong.” There are two parts of action “means” and “end” both have to be right and just. The Church teaches that there are two ends when it comes to the sphere of the marital embrace. For easy to understand terms we will call these ends “babies” and “bonding”. Their proper terms, respectively, are “creative” and “unitive acts” and their ends are in and of themselves, their means happen to be the same thing…sexual intercourse.
These are acts of “grave matter” meaning they deal directly with the fabric of society. They deal with the integrity of the family unit, the smallest unit of society. If this unit is not healthy, society will fail. Period.
So, looking back, the reason why Catholics don’t look like WBC, is because WBC are heretics and the Church has never taught to hate persons with SSA. We have taught that their inclinations are disordered and if they act on their same sex attractions that their actions are morally evil. Just like we would someone who committed adultery or slept with someone out of wedlock. However, sodomy (that which not only goes against the bonding act but the baby act) is a very grave action.
WBC does not make the tri-fold distinction between persons, inclinations, or actions. So, if you see someone who is Catholic that is being disrespectful of persons with SSA, they are actively in the wrong as they are going against the teaching of their mother Church.