[quote]hungry4more wrote:
X, I really try to stay out of these things.
But you need to realize, you are coming at this discussion as someone saying “I want to be a huge strong-ass mofo” as an end-goal, yes? For starters, you simply aren’t going to get the same respect with that sort of non-definable goal as an aspiring bodybuilder, powerlifter, strongman, oly lifter, football player, etc will get. They can say “I won this BBing comp” or “I made the NFL” and point out the goals, with concrete evidence that they accomplished them.
You, with your vague goals, can only relay stories of times when various people said “hey that man looks big”. Not the same, not even comparable, unless you actually end up looking TRULY ridiculous. You haven’t dieted down, you haven’t even posted a single front double bicep sans shirt. You say things like “Well at 300 lbs I looked like a powerlifter”, but I don’t see your elite total to back that up. When’s the last time you squatted 2x bodyweight or more for reps?
So aside from these anecdotes of “The cashier thought I looked strong”, what do you have to PROVE you are someone to be listened to? I have a couple elite powerlifting totals, a pretty good physique, and that while serving active duty USMC and supporting a family. I manage to just about ALWAYS give people polite advice regarding training/diet questions, and not just vague “Eat more burgers” advice, but stuff that’s actually relevant. Same goes for people like Stu, Maiden, and too many more to mention. These are people that have competed, they have proved their mettle through definable means.
Your ability to blame the world while holding yourself as the sole shining pillar of true knowledge, the persecuted, is disgusting. I’ve had WAY too much experience with one particular delusional person recently (She’s a felon fwiw), and the similarity in your logic is disturbing. Do you see guys like steelyD being condescending in their responses to most people? Hell no…he’s a big burly guy, and I would propose that is at least in part because he KNOWS he doesn’t know it all, and that sort of thing is why he, and others, will always get more respect than somebody that acts like you have been.
Have some humble pie. It’s much more enjoyable when everything isn’t a pissing contest. Well, hopefully I can avoid posting in here again.
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