This thread has been infiltrated and officially gone to shit. Nominal prospect, Napoleon and SirPhisticated have all thaught us a lesson here. I know realize that it was insecurity and a need for friends that led me to gain 80 some pounds of muscle mass. WTF was I thinking? Dumb asses.
Look, I think it is one thing if you dont agree with the guy’s training philosophies etc. but you dont have to read his journal. To call him a queen though is quite sad. You guys talk about tough guys dont have to act tough and act like they are big etc. and I agree with that 100%.
So what the fuck does that make you shmucks calling someone names from behind a keyboard. True internet warriors. I guess I was raised differently than you boys. Dont say anything about someone you are not willing to say to his face.
[quote]SirPhisticated wrote:
When talking about the whole tough guy or hardcore issue, I think it is important to realize that the whole basis for the physical self improvement (unless you’re actually training for practical use or health concerns), whether you’re trying to get leaner or build more muscle, evolves around insecurity.
The guy who adds 50 lbs of muscle because he didn’t like his skinny self had an insecurity about himself. That guy often continues to have that and projects it on to other skinny guys.
Same goes for the former fat guy who can’t stand to see other fat guys. He may be more disgusted by the fact, that those people reminds him of what he used to be and what he could become again.
Often I find that the motivational articles looks more like the author is really trying to justify and convince himself of his life style rather than the reader. Other times it looks like it’s an attempt to get a pad on the back from like minded people.
Either way I think it’s important to look at what it REALLY is that drives you and keep your ego in check. Much of the attitude should most likely be directed against one self.
Searching for a brotherhood or “fraternity” in this life style might show that insecurity of standing alone and the need for support. Look at the large amount of threads on this board where people either group up and look down upon different people or pad each others back, to feel like minded and bonded together. Nothing wrong with it but I think it’s important to notice.
I might be wrong here. Please, let me know what your opinion is.
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