[quote]Amsterdam Animal wrote:
You should have kept ignoring it. [/quote]
Well, someone did post it on a discussion board to be discussed. And that is what I am doing.
No, I think I am someone who gets tired of bodybuilders have such thin skin they can’t even hear a critical point of view. If you’re supposed to be tough, then act like it.
My point was simple - truly big, tough guys don’t need to whine about how society just doesn’t get them or how super special they are. The point I made was that what he is doing actually accomplishes the reverse of what he wants - it makes him look weak, insecure, and all-too-worried about what other people think. That ain’t tough.
As for me being an ‘internet tough guy’ - nope, and I never said Wrath or Captain Awesome or whatever he wants his superhero name to be wasn’t dedicated, big, or strong. He is all those things. I commented that his writing was melodramatic garbage and it continues to make bodybuilders look like idiots because it reinforces the view that they are weak, narcissistic skinny guys at heart in desperate need of approval.
That ain’t tough, no matter how big your biceps get.
Bodybuilding is a positive force - increasing health and strength. It is not some spiritual sacrfice for a higher good, it is not curing any disease, it is not accomplishing any goal that history will remember. It is not a burden.
I never said he should take the journal down - I said it sucked.
As for the Brotherhood of Iron, the blokes I work out with a gym lift as heavy and intense as anyone - but they leave all the other melodramatics behind. The results speak for themselves, and they have no need to act so tragic about their desire to get strong.
Here is the difference for you - the guys I am referring to aren’t just strong from the neck down, they are just as strong between the ears. Make sense now? They have a real, unshakeable self-confidence, so they have no need to obsess about themselves ad nauseum in verbal or written form. There is nothing manly about constantly whining about the ‘sacrifices’ you make as a weightlifter. If the mantra is ‘shut up and lift’, then by all means: shut up and lift.
Oh, we all get weary - just some of us approach it differently. Every day I get to go train at the gym is a privilege - I have both the health and free time to do it. It is not a burden, not a sacrifice. No one is a martyr for lifting weights. Rather than think you are some kind of a hero because you worked out when you were tired one morning, realize yuo are lucky to actually do so. Realize that going to lift weights is a gift, realize that people with legitimate problems think a drama queen whining about how bodybuilding made him break up with his girlfriend is a life they wish they had, and learn that the “strong, silent type” never goes out of style.