Well, the procedure can in many instances be reversed. A vavovasectomy is an option, as is… hormonal contraception. Though if one looks at clinical literature the latter isn’t particuarly effective unless one takes testosterone + a progestogen. Progestogens in high dosages interfere with dopaminergic signalling, as a matter of fact one trial regarding male contraception was terminated due to severe psychiatric abberations noted in a portion of the participants. There’s also the risks associated with prolonged hormone use/unknowns associated with men/long term use of synthetic progestogens. We hardly have an apt profile regarding whether TRT alone effects cardiovascular risk factors.
This isn’t the issue at stake here. The issue stems from this guys attitude towards women, whom he appears to see as sexual objects/existing for the purpose of his pleasure. Unfortunately there are a hell of a lot of women who are responsive to behaviour like this, particuarly young women who can’t see the difference between “being confident” and “being a cunt”.
The issue isn’t relations per se, it’s his attitude towards women/relations and negating the prospect of negative ramifications that can trickle down towards friends, colleagues etc (depending on who he decides to fuck)
Hitting on girls in front of their boyfriends because you “feel superhuman” sounds like a fantastic way to find yourself kissing the pavement.
Today I was lifting weights and I noticed this girl was eyeballing me (not the one mentioned in the OP) It was strange because she was with a man. I approached the rack and began doing curls. The bf (presumably) walked away and and before doing so asked her to come along. She said she’ll instead stay where she’s at began working out next to me. She kept looking until she finally decided to approach me and asked if I come here often. I just looked at her for a second and said, “not really” and walked away. She wasn’t my type but I sure hope that wasn’t her bf.
Have you considered you are more his type than hers and this is a way that bi males in heteosexual relationships often initiate male-female-male encounters?
it’s so cringe man… his entire outlook is toxic/jaded as fuck. I’d hope this entire thread is a deliberate troll but alas I’ve come to expect no less from humankind.
Let’s skip back to this eloquent solution for OP’s problems if hIs HuGe TeStOsTeRoNe level really is the culprit for his behaviour. It’s not though, otherwise something like half of the men on this forum would be narcissistic as fuck.
It might be a troll post but I’m not surprised by it at all. There are plenty of men out there who simply want to “pump and dump” women, married and taken ones included, of course for pleasure and ego feeding and as a hobby or recreation of sorts. A former married friend of mine was like this, and I’ve mentioned him before. He’s a former friend for good reasons. All the womanizing men I’ve known have been torturous to be around and unsurprisingly they couldn’t even maintain male friendships.
It is both a matter of relations and his outlook considering pre-sexual revolution men with such urges were kept in check by the framework of society and other men (fathers, uncles, brothers, husbands, male cousins, spiritual leaders) who would seek to punish pumper-dumpers/PUA’s/womanizers. A 100 years ago some jackass attempting to seduce or publicly flirt with a man’s wife night be in a fight for his life, and onlookers would approve of the encounter.
Anyway, what’s been shown in the past two years is my views on sexuality and male-female relationships are at odds with many or nearly all here and some are likely tired of me stating them.
I don’t think many here have an issue with you having those views. I have commented in regards to some of your comments about implementing those beliefs into the legal system. In general, I agree with a lot of your life philosophy, I just don’t think it should be mandated.
100 years ago schools were also segregated on the basis of race. Things change for the better and worse, societal progression isn’t a new concept. We can nitpick at certain elements present within historical societies of which could be considered beneficial, but when painting a picture in it’s entirety I’m glad I live in the here/now as opposed to the days wherein systemic racism, sexism, and organised crime was rifle.
Should also be noted premarital sex became somewhat commonplace around… 100 years ago (flappers came about in the 1920s)
Who cares! Some of my opinions are also rather unorthodox; but i’m to going to stop voicing my opinion based upon what others think. You think outside of the box, I respect that despite not agreeing with you on many issues (though from an economic perspective it has become apparent we may share a similar point of view)
Urges to have sex? This encompasses some 99.99% of men… and women…
If we are referring to the urge for inciting chaos or to break up relationships you’d be referring to a stark, sociopathic/psychopathic/narcissistic minority
I think he’s referring to more of an extreme. Lots of really nice and timid guys have very intense sexual urges, but this guy is literally displaying sociopathic narcissistic personality traits.
Agreed, however the majority of those who are truly narcissistic aren’t aware of their wrongdoings. Sociopaths also tend not to care about their actions and have very little empathy/respect for the feelings of others. They will make a conscious effort/may even seek pleasure within excising dominance/power over others.
OP has a profound level of self awareness for a narcissist. Most narcissists don’t worry about their own narcissism. That being said, it is possible OP is legitimately a very disturbed individual who should probably go see a doctor as opposed to posting about his warped views on the internet.
@BrickHead I think it’s a huge stretch to assume the average male views women in a similar vein to OP. You have apps catering to hookup culture wherein two single parties look for meaningless sex, I’d argue very few one night stands consist of men preying on married women, virginal women and/or otherwise inexperienced women.
If you’re meeting a girl on tinder or a guy on grindr for anonymous sex, chances are you’re both into it.
Or…he’s a gymcel and this is just the theatrics of what’s going on in his head of how he’d like to be? To not care for women because he’s not not cared for? There’s a little too much detail in some of his descriptions of these gym “approaches” to make it seem real. Just a thought.
I get what you mean - I went through a decade of life where I wouldn’t live with anyone or date more than a few weeks because it interfered with my workouts and eating. I’m talking about more of an incel here but - at the gym? If that makes sense.
Aren’t incels those that are involuntary celibate? Like they blame women for why they’re not having sex? I don’t think that pertains to me because i’m having sex and like I said before, I don’t hate women. Do I think there possibly something psychologically wrong with me? Probably. Just nothing that would warrant me being in mental health ward. I don’t go around spewing hatred towards women, nor do I think i’m better than them. I just have a philosophy that stems from the way I feel after I ejaculate. That post nut feeling of not caring is basically what I have all the time just but with the sexual desire. It’s complicated but I think you catch my drift.
That’s how I view their female opposite. The provocatively dressed women who don’t have any female friends because “women are all catty bitches” and “all my friends are guys because they don’t care about stupid shit.” Sure, because they’re hoping to get laid.
And by this I don’t mean women who have traditionally-male interests that inform their social groups, but women who are overly sexualized and who view other women as competitors they have to vanquish. I don’t think they’re after sex as much as attention and validation, but who knows.