I am a Christian. I am in no way ashamed of it. I don’t care who knows, or what anyone thinks about it. If an atheist or anyone else wants to insult me, call me stupid, or claim that I am living in a fairy tale world that is fine with me.
I live my life (imperfect as it might be) to the best of my ability. I try to treat everyone with respect. I make every attempt to live my life in such a way that someone will think, hey Christopher is a Christian without thinking all of the things I read others post about Christians. At times I must admit that I am offended or insulted by the harsh words spoken about my faith, but I try to be thick skinned and move on with my life. I wish people (and by people I mean everyone not just one group of people) would not be so harsh and mean spirited. But there will be those types of people regardless of religious or any other kind of views. Oh well, I will just try my best to treat people with respect. After all, I can’t control other people’s actions, but I can (although it is hard at times) control mine.
Let’s try not to “group” people. Some people on this thread have made some general statements about atheists and other groups of people. I know several agnostics and atheist. They are very friendly and respectful to me and my beliefs, and I truly believe that is because I am friendly to them and respectful of what they choose to believe. I am not saying I am ok with what they believe, think they are right, and wouldn’t love for them to convert to what I believe to be the truth. However, I am not going to try to force anything on them. They know exactly where I stand and are perfectly capable of questioning me about anything. Then I feel free to talk with them about my beliefs since they have expressed an interest in discussing it. Some Christians may not agree with this or say that I should be bolder and witness to them. What would that accomplish other than them thinking I was just trying to make them convert to my way of thinking? It would only serve to push them away. Then I end up with someone who doesn’t want to be around me and I lose the opportunity I use to have of living my “witness” in front of them.
On the flip side, it would also be nice if the atheists and others would not make general statements and lump all Christians together. That is equally unfair. I know plenty of people who claim to be Christian and have ready about people throughout history that claim to be Christian, and yet they have acted in such vile and hateful ways that they did/do not represent Christ. Must we then immediately say they represent all Christians? That just doesn’t seem fair to me. Sure there are Christians who certainly have good intentions, but often offend and insult out of nothing more than ignorance. They are not bad people, just misguided people. And there are those who are so misguided that they truly feel they are doing what is right. And then there are those I mentioned first who are hateful and purposefully mean malcontent. The latter group of people must have some other agenda and they are using “Christianity” to cover it up. None of these examples, even though the people have different levels of intentions, represent how I want to be viewed. Just because someone does something in the name of Christ (or anyone other deity or religion), does that mean they are automatically the whole representation of that movement? If what they are doing is not a true representation of Christ and does not exhibit love and kindness, then, in my opinion, they are not truly living (at least at the time the offense is done) after the teachings of Christ, thus they should not be a representation of all Christians.
I feel it would be hypocritical for me to make a statement such as "all those on the atheist thread are stupid, ignorant, and weak minded (which is what I read is believed about me as a Christian), just to turn around and flame the atheists for being arrogant and hateful when the statement I made was also arrogant and hateful. I am not going to throw around insult and purposely make an effort to hurt and offend people. I believe that accomplishes absolutely nothing. Well, and remember I am admitting to being FAR from perfect, unfortunately there are several people claiming to be Christians that are insulting the atheists. I don’t think they should be doing that, but as I have already mentioned, I have no control over their actions.
In a similar manner, I don’t feel it is fair for the atheists to make such statements about Christians only to claim intellectual superiority over Christians while accusing us of the same thing. It happens on both side, and in my opinion it is a sign of disrespect. I am not willing to participate in it, and I would hope that the atheists that visit this thread in the future will elect not to participate either. If someone claiming to be a Christian comes to your thread and starts hurling insults or is not willing to engage in a civil debate, ignore them. Likewise, if an atheist comes to this thread and does the same thing, ignore them. I really feel it is quite that simple. If the people who are respectful of others regardless of their religious belief would just continue to be respectful and ignore the people being hateful, then I think a lot more peaceful and meaningful discussions would take place.
OK. That was a lot and after reading over it a few times I don’t expect anyone will even read it. Nothing was meant as a flame. I was just expressing my views on both sides.
Christopher