[quote]The Mage wrote:
Sifu wrote:
My point was this. You prolifers are quite willing to force others to have babies they don’t want, because you care sooo much about the baby. But the moment the top of the baby’s head sees daylight for the first time you change your tune to “you’re on your own now kid. Don’t you ever become a problem for me!”.
This is the quote of the pro-deathers. I keep hearing this over and over.
But there is a problem. The person who got pregnant chose to.
Yes, chose to. By not keeping her legs closed, or using protection. [/quote]
That is an absolutely ignorant load of bullshit. Contraception can and does fail. My girlfriend used the pill just like her Gyno told her too. We waited the full two months and she still got pregnant. An abortion was the only option she had.
Category Method Number of unplanned pregnancies among 100 typical users1
Hormonal Combination birth control pills
8
Injections (Depo-Provera)
3
Transdermal patch
8
Progestin-only pills (mini-pills)
8
Vaginal ring
8
IUD Levonorgestrel (LNg 20) IUD
Fewer than 1
Copper T 380-A IUD
Fewer than 1
Barrier methods Condom, male
15
Withdrawal
27
Condom, female
21
Diaphragm with spermicide
16
Spermicide alone
29
Sponge with spermicide (no previous vaginal childbirth)
16
Sponge with spermicide (after vaginal childbirth)
32
Cervical cap (no previous vaginal childbirth)
16
Cervical cap (after vaginal delivery)
32
Fertility awareness Periodic abstinence and fertility awareness methods
25
Surgery Vasectomy
Fewer than 1
Tubal ligation or tubal implants
Fewer than 1
No birth control No birth control
85
Goddamn are you ignorant. Sterilization is the most reliable method and even that has a failure rate.
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And before you say it, my daughter is a result of this. If we had believed in abortion, she would not be here. I have thought of this before as I have looked at her.
Years later there was a “mistake” made, and there was a possibility of my wife again being pregnant. This time she wasn’t. But we would have gone through with the pregnancy. And with here medical problems, that would have been hard.
But the point is that we engaged in sex, and from that point on, we have already chosen the results.
It is rather rude to think of children, babies, fetuses, whatever as things. Something to be discarded because it is a nuisance. And this is extremely selfish behavior.
Then nothing but excuses are made. All those babies that would need to be adopted, are. Yes there are hard to place cases, but there is no problem with adopting a regular child. (Other then the stupid politics.) Sometimes it can be quick, but can take years. Which is why many people do international adoption. [/quote]
Again you are an ignorant idiot. All those babies do not get adopted. There are many kids who spend their entire childhood in foster care. The vast majority of adoptees only want babies. If they are over 1 year they can spend up to seventeen years in an orphanage waiting to get adopted.
You prolifers are so ignorant and flippant about what you want to do to the foster care system it makes me sick.
This is what happens when the foster care system gets overwhelmed to the point it can no longer cope.
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At one time we did look into adoption, and of a child, not a baby. But the specific child we were interested in was snatched up before we got very far into the process. (Was actually a friend of our daughter at the time.)
Your arguments fall right within the standard quotes of people who like to talk about these things, but don’t even consider it for themselves. [/quote]