[quote]ChelaW wrote:
[quote]hungry4more wrote:
[quote]ChelaW wrote:
[quote]Nards wrote:
[quote]ChelaW wrote:
Today I was getting set to do a stiff-legged deadlift, as in the bar was in my hands & I was getting into position. This guy gets off of the recumbent bike, walks over to me, puts his hand (affectionately and condescendingly) on my lower back and tells me, “Don’t hurt yourself, hun.” I raise my voice (I have on headphones, after all), and say, “I’m going to hurt myself if you keep talking to me when I’m trying to lift!!” He stutters, “Um…okay. Uh…I’m going to go play basketball now.” This is not the first time he’s done this. Pisses me off to have some random guy touch me and talk to me like I’m a baby kitten!
Also, there are two guys who bring their laptop to the gym and do P90X in the aerobics room. Not douchey, but funny nonetheless. Walking past the free weights to do P90X off a laptop? Grade A comedy.[/quote]
I hate the recumbent bike…nothing says that you’re lazy like “The sitting up bike isn’t for me but he sitting down one is” like the recumbent bike.
Also…you were doing stiff-legged deads…most people don’t even know about standard deadlifts so they think you’re doing it all wrong and lifting with your back (which is a bad idea BUT that’s not what a stiff-legged deadlift is!) so he tries to help you.
I’m not defending him at all…just trying to explain his total retardation.[/quote]
I get what you’re saying, but this was my first set, so he hadn’t actually seen what I was doing yet. He just saw me holding the bar.
He’s always trying to talk to me and be all flirtatious while I’m lifting. So irritating.[/quote]
Lol I did actually have a really hot chick doing SLDLs in the power rack next to me today, I wanted to compliment her form and encourage her, but didn’t since I knew it would probably just come off as an attempt to hit on her.
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I will say that when guys genuinely compliment me (like “You come in here and bust your ass everyday…” or “I can tell you’re training for something…”), I’m appreciative. I think it can be done as long as you compliment then just walk away. Don’t ask what her name is or any crap like that. Just a simple, “Your form is awesome…others could learn from you. Keep up the good work” should suffice.
Oh. And don’t wink or touch her lower back. And say nothing if you’re dicking around on the recumbent bike.
@Dixies: I don’t think it’ll come to that. I think I embarrassed him by yelling at him in front of other guys.
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You did embarrass him…now go for the kill…literally?