[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
Actually, he’s spot on. You guys sound like a bunch of insecure pussies.
On the rare occasion we go to the bar, my wife(of 16 years)regularly talks to other men and women because she is a gregarious social person. Do other guys want to nail her? Probably, but who cares? If your woman is prone to fucking around, hovering over her won’t change that.
And for the poster who thinks guys are pussies for not acting all insecure, it’s because they are not threatened by you. Do something inappropriate and see what happens, it’s not the guy puffing out his chest you need to worry about.[/quote]
wtf are you going on about now?[/quote]
Condensed for the slow: If the quality of woman you habituate requires you hover over her in order for her to not fuck others, you are screwed.[/quote]
I didn’t read all of the back and forth nonsense but AndrewG’s main point was that a strange guy walking up to hit on his girlfriend while he is there is being disrespectful to him.
Your post didn’t address his main point at all. [/quote]
I have a buddy who has the maddening habit of doing just that; blatantly approaching a woman while she’s at a bar or a club or whatever and is obviously there with her boyfriend. He’s a total dick in this respect. I asked him this morning why he does that shit and his response was “I only do it when I get the feeling that the guy with the woman is a tool. In short, because he is inadvertently telling me that I can.”
I think this is a dick move and reeks of an out-of-control ego. But in many cases it isn’t clear that the woman in question is there with any sort of significant other. When this happens, and maybe her BF sees this from across the room or whatever, and feels the need to come over and assert himself, I think this is a sign of insecurity. If she clearly isn’t put off by the guy and you take this as a threat, either it’s a legit threat (in which case you need to reevaluate why you’re with this woman) or it’s not and you’re simply overreacting in an insecure manner.
Now if this happens to your GF and she is clearly uncomfortable with the situation, then your presence is definitely warranted. But to do so as a pre-emptive measure or to do so out of some need to make sure she doesn’t go home with that guy is one of two things: either insecurity or, if she may in fact go home with him, then in that case it’s a sign that you need to make better choices in women.[/quote]
For the most part I agree but it’s not always so black and white and I wouldn’t classify those who do feel the need to interrupt “beta bitches”.
I don’t know, maybe it’s just your delivery I have a problem with. You come across as a wanna be tough guy, too hardcore and all that jazz. I think AndrewG pointed this out to you in his first response, something about your good points not being taken seriously because you seem like a giant cocksucker.
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Lol. Yeah I suppose I do come across as a total dick sometimes. I am a total dick, but not in the sense that you probably think I am. My “tough guy” attitude from my first post was, like I said earlier, a poor attempt at humor. I was trying to mock the whole tough guy attitude but apparently I just came across as one myself. I suppose it’s a combination of me not being as cleverly funny as I think I am and my humor flying right over your heads. I am actually a complete pussy. Not really.[/quote]
Lol, yeah the sarcasm did not shine through.
Don’t feel too bad, my response earlier in the thread was my attempt at humor…
(but fuck you guys, I still think that post was funny)