Should I Say Something to Him?

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[quote]TACHICK wrote:
Easy E wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.

How exactly is that done?

Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?

Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.

I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.

well its because you girls are so scandalous. you know the deal when a guy is hitting on you and you got a boyfriend. are you the kind of girl who tells it to him straight or “mistakingly” drops something on the floor to tease him more for the attention? i cant stand girls who have a boy and are still big attention whores, it just brings stress to the relationship. yea i just got out of one so im venting a little, is that so bad? haha

I tell the f*ckers straight up if I have a dude. This has happened damn near every time me and the ex-fiance would to to this certain bar in Lancaster so he could play pool, and inevitably each and every time whether I walked up to the bar to get us drinks or happened to shake my ass a little on the dance floor, some dude would approach me and try to get me to go home w/him. Some even slipped me their numbers which obviously got thrown straight to the floor! That’s just the type of gal I am, when I’m with a dude, it’s him ONLY…

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i love you

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Look, if you two were married it would be one thing. Marriage is sacred and any guy who tries to mess with it needs to be punished. But you two are just “together.” So you have the right to step in ONLY when she wants you to. If she chooses infidelity then you need to punish HER by breaking up with her. But if you’re not married other guys have every right to go after her.

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i guess ill just see how everything goes from here. im not gonna go to her work tommorow. im just gonna wait and have her tell me whats going on. and if i hear anything about him saying anything to her i dont like im just gonna go down there and kick his ass

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[quote]lifter321 wrote:
i guess ill just see how everything goes from here. im not gonna go to her work tommorow. im just gonna wait and have her tell me whats going on. and if i hear anything about him saying anything to her i dont like im just gonna go down there and kick his ass[/quote]

YEAH!

Biotest should bottle that supplement that lets someone grow a pair of big brass ones in less than 3 hours!

Hooray for Lifter!

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Wolverine: You going to tell me to stay away from your girl?
Cyclops: If I had to do that, she wouldn’t be my girl.

She works at a gym. She told him she had a guy, but was nice about it because she didn’t want to get fired. If you go to where she works, and start something with a member of the gym she works at, you will get her in trouble, and you will be banned.

I dated a girl that worked at a bar. She had all sorts of guys hitting on her. She was nice to them, and let them down gentle. Later, we would mock them after we had sex.

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[quote]lifter321 wrote:
i guess ill just see how everything goes from here. im not gonna go to her work tommorow. im just gonna wait and have her tell me whats going on. and if i hear anything about him saying anything to her i dont like im just gonna go down there and kick his ass[/quote]

I don’t think she’s going to tell you much if anything at all, because it doesn’t seem to as big a deal to her as it seem to be for you. She probably know you will try something if she were to tell you that the guy asked for her number or a date, so you can forget about hearing it from her. You’ll probably give in to your insecurity and go kick that guy’s arse one way or the other, which will piss your girl off and give him a chance to move in.

Either way, you’re screwed unless you start behaving like a man who isn’t afraid of a fair challenge. Once you start reacting as if she is going to dump you the moment some other guy hit on her, you probably will.

Do you believe that she will “react appropriately” and brush that guy off if he really asks for her number? hmmmmm?

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[quote]Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.

How exactly is that done?

Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?

Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.

I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.

What really cracks me up is dudes who get all pissed off when other guys look at their woman. WTF? I generally take it as a compliment, and am proud to have a woman that draws looks. Insecurity…it’s an ugly, ugly thing.[/quote]

Looking is fine, but leering is unsat. I’ll say something to a guy who leers like a hungry dog, I’ll only give a head nod to a guy who looks.

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How old are you, or more importantly your g-friend? She could be trying to wind you up to see how you react. Sometimes girls will do things to see you express emotion, any kind.

If she doesn’t fear him or think he is likely to assault her you shouldn’t do anything. The most you should do is as posted above, be introduced to him but not say anything about his asking her out to him. If he doesn’t back off after that I’d very surprised.

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[quote]lawrence wrote:
lifter321 wrote:
i guess ill just see how everything goes from here. im not gonna go to her work tommorow. im just gonna wait and have her tell me whats going on. and if i hear anything about him saying anything to her i dont like im just gonna go down there and kick his ass

I don’t think she’s going to tell you much if anything at all, because it doesn’t seem to as big a deal to her as it seem to be for you. She probably know you will try something if she were to tell you that the guy asked for her number or a date, so you can forget about hearing it from her. You’ll probably give in to your insecurity and go kick that guy’s arse one way or the other, which will piss your girl off and give him a chance to move in.

Either way, you’re screwed unless you start behaving like a man who isn’t afraid of a fair challenge. Once you start reacting as if she is going to dump you the moment some other guy hit on her, you probably will.

Do you believe that she will “react appropriately” and brush that guy off if he really asks for her number? hmmmmm?[/quote]

i do believe she will react appropriately. i trust her.

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[quote]lifter321 wrote:
yes ive talked to my girlfriend about this. she seems like she would be pissed as hell if i came down there to talk to him. she says he comes and talks to her when shes there for like 5 minutes. she says there no flirting or anything. this other girl did say he was asking her for her number. my first instinkt is to go down there and talk to him. i know she would be really pissed at me if i did though. im alot bigger than him, that is not a problem. i should probly ask this other girl what he has said to her since. maybe i should wait another week and think everything out, im just not quite sure on this[/quote]

how the fuck old are you? i dont even care enough to look at your profile, because even if it said 26 or 36 or 46 id still say youre acting like a dumb fuck 16 year old thats “totally in love” with the first (and only) girl that hes had sex with.

let me clue you in on something…if youre being this big a tool about this, then you and this girl probably arent going to get married and live happily ever after, because youre being a psycho.

now let me clue you into something else…your gf probably has a little crush on this dude, and thats why shes told you anything about him. people do that. i cant speak for every guy on this site, but im sure some would agree. occasionally, when ive had a g/f, and ive met another girl thru whatever avenue, ill find myself telling the g/f how stupid ‘so-and-so’ was being or whatever…secretly- if it even is a secret- im thinking to myself, yea i want to bang so-and-so. she probably likes the guy. for her, its easier to talk shit about the guy and how annoying he is and whatever, than it is for her to simply shut up about him while youre around. think about it- shes telling her girl friend about him, and id bet the fucking farm shes adding in those details that she left out when she told you.

do the smart thing buddy, have some fun on the side, or go solo and have some fun all over. id go around rocking out with my cock out if i were you, and i wouldnt even worry about a rubber. youre not even making man juice until your balls drop anyway, and from your post i gather they havent.

wah wah wah, my girlfriend has big hoo hoo’s and other guys want to suck on them…welcome to the fucking world man. do you not see girls all the time and think about banging them? if every guy went based on your philosophy, you would then have a fucking pack of guys just looking to beat your ass, wouldnt you?

after the homily the collections baskets will be passed around, now please give what youre able.

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[quote]calgarynewf wrote:
How old are you, or more importantly your g-friend? She could be trying to wind you up to see how you react. Sometimes girls will do things to see you express emotion, any kind.

If she doesn’t fear him or think he is likely to assault her you shouldn’t do anything. The most you should do is as posted above, be introduced to him but not say anything about his asking her out to him. If he doesn’t back off after that I’d very surprised. [/quote]

were both 17

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[quote]lifter321 wrote:
lawrence wrote:
lifter321 wrote:
i guess ill just see how everything goes from here. im not gonna go to her work tommorow. im just gonna wait and have her tell me whats going on. and if i hear anything about him saying anything to her i dont like im just gonna go down there and kick his ass

I don’t think she’s going to tell you much if anything at all, because it doesn’t seem to as big a deal to her as it seem to be for you. She probably know you will try something if she were to tell you that the guy asked for her number or a date, so you can forget about hearing it from her. You’ll probably give in to your insecurity and go kick that guy’s arse one way or the other, which will piss your girl off and give him a chance to move in.

Either way, you’re screwed unless you start behaving like a man who isn’t afraid of a fair challenge. Once you start reacting as if she is going to dump you the moment some other guy hit on her, you probably will.

Do you believe that she will “react appropriately” and brush that guy off if he really asks for her number? hmmmmm?

i do believe she will react appropriately. i trust her.[/quote]

In that case, there’s no need for you to go busting anybody’s ass unless she asks you to, ie. he is harassing her and stuff.

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I wouldn’t sweat it bro. If he keeps it up, he’ll look like a huge jack ass. Also, your gf can always just call him out on it right there in the gym, and call him pathetic. I’m pretty sure he’ll never show his face in that gym again if that happens. Anyway, the important thing is, you got the girl, not him.

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so let me get this straight, youre having problems with your 17 year old gf…so today you decided to sign up on T-Nation to get advice on it?

a. TSB
b. troll
c. tool
d. all of the above + being a pussy

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[quote]dez6485 wrote:
so let me get this straight, youre having problems with your 17 year old gf…so today you decided to sign up on T-Nation to get advice on it?

a. TSB
b. troll
c. tool
d. all of the above + being a pussy
[/quote]

either a troll or the kid’s legit but dumb as a box of rocks…

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Guys, we were all 17 once. This type of shit seemed to matter at one time. Hit fast forward and poof, you laugh at what mattered at 17. That is, in most cases. There are still 30, 40, 50 year old adolescents running around. There are threads here that ooze proof of this. “what should I do if a guy looks at my GF”

Funny how some people buy a car, jazz it up and crave that people notice it. Get into a relationship, and they beg that the world ignores their “signifigant other”

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[quote]Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.

How exactly is that done?

Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?

Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.

I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.

What really cracks me up is dudes who get all pissed off when other guys look at their woman. WTF? I generally take it as a compliment, and am proud to have a woman that draws looks. Insecurity…it’s an ugly, ugly thing.[/quote]

There is a huge difference between looking at her and harassing her at work. I read it as she was being harassed.

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[quote]lifter321 wrote:
calgarynewf wrote:
How old are you, or more importantly your g-friend? She could be trying to wind you up to see how you react. Sometimes girls will do things to see you express emotion, any kind.

If she doesn’t fear him or think he is likely to assault her you shouldn’t do anything. The most you should do is as posted above, be introduced to him but not say anything about his asking her out to him. If he doesn’t back off after that I’d very surprised.

were both 17[/quote]

I take back my mark your territory advice. Make fun of the guy and move on.

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[quote]Easy E wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
Easy E wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.

How exactly is that done?

Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?

Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.

I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.

well its because you girls are so scandalous. you know the deal when a guy is hitting on you and you got a boyfriend. are you the kind of girl who tells it to him straight or “mistakingly” drops something on the floor to tease him more for the attention? i cant stand girls who have a boy and are still big attention whores, it just brings stress to the relationship. yea i just got out of one so im venting a little, is that so bad? haha

I tell the f*ckers straight up if I have a dude. This has happened damn near every time me and the ex-fiance would to to this certain bar in Lancaster so he could play pool, and inevitably each and every time whether I walked up to the bar to get us drinks or happened to shake my ass a little on the dance floor, some dude would approach me and try to get me to go home w/him. Some even slipped me their numbers which obviously got thrown straight to the floor! That’s just the type of gal I am, when I’m with a dude, it’s him ONLY…

i love you[/quote]

Muah baby! And as Stiffler’s lil bro said, “you have beautiful eyes, wanna fuck?” LOL!

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Seriously DON’T DO IT
unless shes a bit wierd and into jealous guys your the one that’s going to come off as the ass cause you’ll look like you’re checking up on her and dont trust her

if she told you, you can more than likely trust her
just don’t be a dumbass(no insult intended) and ruin it for yourself cause thats what jealous behaviour will do

if you don’t believe me put the same question int the T-vixen forum section…see what girls have to say about it