Just ignore it…unless you don’t trust her (this would mean you have a separate issue to deal with). When guys hit on my wife I just take it as a compliment and leave it alone. You can’t go talking to everyone that hits on her. Look at it this way…he hits on her…and everytime she goes home with you. Sooner or later he should feel like an ass and he’ll start on another.
Or follow slimjim’s roll of quarters advice…that really made me laugh.
first off, are you bigger than him? lol. in seriousness though, that her job, not yours. maybe she enjoys the flattery?
yes ive talked to my girlfriend about this. she seems like she would be pissed as hell if i came down there to talk to him. she says he comes and talks to her when shes there for like 5 minutes. she says there no flirting or anything. this other girl did say he was asking her for her number. my first instinkt is to go down there and talk to him. i know she would be really pissed at me if i did though. im alot bigger than him, that is not a problem. i should probly ask this other girl what he has said to her since. maybe i should wait another week and think everything out, im just not quite sure on this
[quote]christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?
Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.
I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.[/quote]
well its because you girls are so scandalous. you know the deal when a guy is hitting on you and you got a boyfriend. are you the kind of girl who tells it to him straight or “mistakingly” drops something on the floor to tease him more for the attention? i cant stand girls who have a boy and are still big attention whores, it just brings stress to the relationship. yea i just got out of one so im venting a little, is that so bad? haha
[quote]allNatural wrote:
Be really nice to him.[/quote]
LOL
[quote]christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?[/quote]
That’s what I pictured when I wrote it.
[quote]lifter321 wrote:
yes ive talked to my girlfriend about this. she seems like she would be pissed as hell if i came down there to talk to him. she says he comes and talks to her when shes there for like 5 minutes. she says there no flirting or anything. this other girl did say he was asking her for her number. my first instinkt is to go down there and talk to him. i know she would be really pissed at me if i did though. im alot bigger than him, that is not a problem. i should probly ask this other girl what he has said to her since. maybe i should wait another week and think everything out, im just not quite sure on this[/quote]
If you decide to piss her off (sounds like she will get very pissy about this)you might as well imagine her with that guy. If she thinks he is cool and she is mad at you, you can bet she will be…
[quote]Easy E wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?
Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.
I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.
well its because you girls are so scandalous. you know the deal when a guy is hitting on you and you got a boyfriend. are you the kind of girl who tells it to him straight or “mistakingly” drops something on the floor to tease him more for the attention? i cant stand girls who have a boy and are still big attention whores, it just brings stress to the relationship. yea i just got out of one so im venting a little, is that so bad? haha[/quote]
I tell the f*ckers straight up if I have a dude. This has happened damn near every time me and the ex-fiance would to to this certain bar in Lancaster so he could play pool, and inevitably each and every time whether I walked up to the bar to get us drinks or happened to shake my ass a little on the dance floor, some dude would approach me and try to get me to go home w/him. Some even slipped me their numbers which obviously got thrown straight to the floor! That’s just the type of gal I am, when I’m with a dude, it’s him ONLY…
a little heads up (if you haven’t figured it out already)…
hot looking college age girls are VERY promiscuous…the odds of you being the only guy she has sex with over the next twelve months are incredibly low…
so don’t try having a serious relationship with a hot looking college age girl…go on dates with them, flirt with them, fuck them, whatever…just don’t be fool enough to take one seriously (unless of course you don’t mind smelling another guys sperm on her breath from time to time)…
if you want a serious relationship start dating 25+ women that have a full time job, can take care of themselves, and are well past their college-slut stage…the odds of you having a non-fucked up relationship go from 1% to about 50% when you smarten up and start dating older chicks…
[quote]christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?[/quote]
I pissed on my gf’s leg when we were in the shower once…just to see if I could get away with it, and I did, she didn’t even notice with the hot water from the shower hitting her too…hahahaahahahaa
[quote]Easy E wrote:
christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?
Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.
I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.
well its because you girls are so scandalous. you know the deal when a guy is hitting on you and you got a boyfriend. are you the kind of girl who tells it to him straight or “mistakingly” drops something on the floor to tease him more for the attention? i cant stand girls who have a boy and are still big attention whores, it just brings stress to the relationship. yea i just got out of one so im venting a little, is that so bad? haha[/quote]
Well, I have always been the wall flower, I know the type of person you are talking about. (I usually like to hang out with that type as it takes the attention away from me.)
Anyway, what I have learned is that just because one likes to flirt and have all the attention does not mean that they will stray.
I say just chill out and let her get the extra attention if that is what she wants/needs. If she goes home with you, then you win. If she goes home with the other guy, then she’s a whore and wasn’t worth your trouble to begin with.
[quote]Avoids Roids wrote:
What has this world come to?
How to be a man should come naturally to you.
And the topper is someone giving advice when he has been whining and waffling for days in another thread about an ex-girlfriend.
Somebody please tell me that these ‘problems’ are made up by TC to keep us entertained between workouts as a form of a written Jerry Springer/Oprah show and are not really submitted by the male gender of the human species.[/quote]
Please. We are real men and we lead real lives. Love and loss and bitching about women with your buddies is all part of the deal.
We all have moments of weakness. It is how we deal with them that defines us.
[quote]DPH wrote:
a little heads up (if you haven’t figured it out already)…
hot looking college age girls are VERY promiscuous…the odds of you being the only guy she has sex with over the next twelve months are incredibly low…
so don’t try having a serious relationship with a hot looking college age girl…go on dates with them, flirt with them, fuck them, whatever…just don’t be fool enough to take one seriously (unless of course you don’t mind smelling another guys sperm on her breath from time to time)…
if you want a serious relationship start dating 25+ women that have a full time job, can take care of themselves, and are well past their college-slut stage…the odds of you having a non-fucked up relationship go from 1% to about 50% when you smarten up and dating older chicks…[/quote]
I think this is the best advice you are going to get. Nice summary DPH.
[quote]DPH wrote:
a little heads up (if you haven’t figured it out already)…
hot looking college age girls are VERY promiscuous…the odds of you being the only guy she has sex with over the next twelve months are incredibly low…
so don’t try having a serious relationship with a hot looking college age girl…go on dates with them, flirt with them, fuck them, whatever…just don’t be fool enough to take one seriously (unless of course you don’t mind smelling another guys sperm on her breath from time to time)…
if you want a serious relationship start dating 25+ women that have a full time job, can take care of themselves, and are well past their college-slut stage…the odds of you having a non-fucked up relationship go from 1% to about 50% when you smarten up and dating older chicks…[/quote]
Incredible advice. Where were you 20 years ago?
[quote]christine wrote:
Well, I have always been the wall flower, I know the type of person you are talking about. (I usually like to hang out with that type as it takes the attention away from me.)
Anyway, what I have learned is that just because one likes to flirt and have all the attention does not mean that they will stray.
I say just chill out and let her get the extra attention if that is what she wants/needs. If she goes home with you, then you win. If she goes home with the other guy, then she’s a whore and wasn’t worth your trouble to begin with.[/quote]
This is true, but it takes a fairly secure man to be okay with his girl flirting and getting attention from other guys. This totally will play into our own insecurities. Also, it makes you look like an ass because your girl is out there flirting and getting attention from other dudes.
Any man worth his balls will not be okay with a girl he is in a serious relationship doing this on a regular basis. He must address the issue or break up with her. But then, many are too weak to cut sling and leave her and instead spend their time bitching at her for doing it until one night she goes home with one of the assholes she is flirting with.
If a guy is hitting on a girl who he knows has a boyfriend, he is directly challenging that boyfriend. The boyfriend must then give the appropriate response. It is jungle-law that you must meet this challenge, or be forever a pussy like Paris in that Troy movie.
Challenge him to a good old fashioned
POSEDOWN!
AAARRRGH!
[quote]lifter321 wrote:
I assumed this was the section that this should go in. Well here is the problem. My girlfriend works at a gym. And this guy comes in pretty much whenever shes there and talks to her.
This girl at school came over to talk to us the other day and shes knows this guy. And she said that he was asking her for her phone number and screen name. She told him she had a boyfriend though and this kid kept on bothering her about it asking for her number.
Things like this piss me off, cause you got to have some respect and jsut stop trying when you know someoens with someone. So my thoughts are to go down to were she works tommorow and when he comes in to say something to him.
Honestly all i want to say is look dude this is my girlfriend and thats disrespectful to me asking someone for her number when you know shes with someone.
My girlfriend dosent want me to do this at all. So I am thinking. Am i being to overprotective? Should i just wait it out and see if he keeps at it? Or should i just go down there say a few words to get it all over with?
what do you guys think?
[/quote]
Wait until it bothers your gf, she’ll be asking you to talk to him then. Keep face dude don’t look insecure to your woman.
[quote]christine wrote:
Kratos wrote:
christine wrote:
Two of these replys are “Mark your Territory”.
How exactly is that done?
Branding, Black Eye… or do you just piss on your gf?
Don’t take it so literally. If she’s not going to tell the jackass to leave her alone, he needs to or maybe he needs another woman, or a woman period, instead of a girl.
I know! I just think its funny how boys get all worked up over this sort of shit.[/quote]
What really cracks me up is dudes who get all pissed off when other guys look at their woman. WTF? I generally take it as a compliment, and am proud to have a woman that draws looks. Insecurity…it’s an ugly, ugly thing.
[quote]canada wrote:
Wait until it bothers your gf, she’ll be asking you to talk to him then. Keep face dude don’t look insecure to your woman.[/quote]
crap, that was better advice than anything I’ve said…do that, and don’t bring it up with her again.
You can’t really do anything in this situation. Unless you’re prepared to beat the shit out of him right there, you’ll just end up looking like a douchebag.
Beating the shit out of some guy who flirts with your girl = manly
Walking up to some guy to tell him not to mess with your girl when you clearly can’t do anything about it = pussy