[quote]Dasher wrote:
“I bet you could kick my ass.”
I have heard this quite a few times, and still I never know how to react. I dont know if its a “thank you” situation as much of its a “Oh, I wont do that. Promise.”
It make me feel like I look scary, which is not at all what I want.[/quote]
You don’t look scary at all. If dudes think you can their ass, based on your profile pic, you has some really pussy male friends.
Not that your physique is lacking, it’s just not intimidating.
HG–thanks.
It almost always occurs in the gym. I have some pretty special workouts. Unfortunately, the same people that give this compliment are the same people that will interrupt said workout to say it. boo.
It’s bad when this happens to guys too. I often get people at work etc that assume that I’m going to be aggressive, violent or stupid just because I’m big. I never want to think that I’m scaring people.
Obviously it goes against the general female archetype of smaller and weaker for a woman to be perceived as physically strong and powerful in proportion to men (not a bad thing in my opinion, considering most men are like limp rags), but it can still be very frustrating for a man who wants to be seen as an equal in a business setting when your peers say things like “I wouldn’t dare disagree with you on anything, you’d crush me!”. I usually just feel awkward and respond with “Err…no, I won’t”.
I can imagine that it would probably be a lot worse for a woman though.
That said, any of the T-Vixens are welcome to come and try to crush me. Do your worst I say!
[quote]kevinm1 wrote:
She could kick my ass, and most of the men on here.[/quote]
haha, chocolate bitchez make the best bodyguards
[quote]Dasher wrote:
HG–thanks.
It almost always occurs in the gym. I have some pretty special workouts. Unfortunately, the same people that give this compliment are the same people that will interrupt said workout to say it. boo.[/quote]
My apologies for the previous typos I’m using a phone and auto correct sucks. Anyways, it sounds like they are trying to compliment your training in a self depreciating manner in an attempt to be charming and disarming. Then they are halfway hitting on you as a knight in instructional armor.
And that is why is an unsuccessful pass.
[quote]Dasher wrote:
And that is why is an unsuccessful pass.[/quote]
Yeah but do they lift heavy?
I couldnt tell you what their lifting looks like. I was only a “gym member” for about 9 months.
No one I work with says I could kick their ass…and they all lift heavy.
[quote]Dasher wrote:
I couldnt tell you what their lifting looks like. I was only a “gym member” for about 9 months.
No one I work with says I could kick their ass…and they all lift heavy.[/quote]
its totes obvi that you workout and are in great shape dasher… but you could most definitely NOT kick my ass 
people with mustaches like mine dont get their asses kicked.
that stache is a BOSS.
why thank you ma’am
[quote]gregron wrote:
why thank you ma’am [/quote]
With that 70’s porn stash its all ass licking not kicking
[quote]DJHT wrote:
[quote]gregron wrote:
why thank you ma’am [/quote]
With that 70’s porn stash its all ass licking not kicking[/quote]
That sounds more fun anyways.
Edit: General comment in reference to porn reference.
[quote]Nards wrote:
Just want to say that every Crossfit thread that comes up, I’m the one who points this out.
If you check out the Crossfit thread a few up from this "I Wonder if Crossfitters…" you will see I said this.
If I were a woman I wouldn’t think this would be a great compliment. Insinuating that we (me the woman and you the guy saying it) are actually going to get into a fist fight is weird enough, and then I’m going to defeat you at that. Just doesn’t do what it was intended.[/quote]
Nards, I remember that quote as page 3 or 4 in that thread, some guy who did not read what you wrote actually said “she would kick my sorry ass”. I lol’ed.
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.[/quote]
Greg last time at a stop club.
[quote]DJHT wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.[/quote]
Greg last time at a stop club.[/quote]
I dont know what a stop club is but I probably said that
[quote]gregron wrote:
[quote]DJHT wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.[/quote]
Greg last time at a stop club.[/quote]
I dont know what a stop club is but I probably said that[/quote]
Hahaha
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.[/quote]
Kenny Powers?
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
“Who wants a moustache ride” name that quote.[/quote]
super troopers, ramathorn.