sex drive

I’m goin thru lean times in the bedroom of late (6 months of it) surprisingly I’m not missing sex with my wife (for 10 yrs) but I am starting to fancy a bit of fresh. OK so its obvious the prospect of sex with each other isn’t enough to excite either of us into action and my wife never initiates sex anyway but is their any advice out there tmen/vixens.
BTW we are both in good shape ie look good nekid.

Yep, a new piece is always an excitment. However, my piece of advice comes in one word COMMUNICATION.

Ain’t no pussy like new pussy, that;s just how a nigga feel.

Yeah, don’t get caught, cover your tracks, always deny. If you do get a young piece of ass, bang her once for me :wink:

Nice one lads, there have been developements - though not for the better, still no nookie but a push for kids (alarm bells…real loud ones)I’ve always made my position clear (not in my game plan) but she recently said she thought I’d change my mind! Best steer clear for as long as I can. Any experience with broody women who don’t put out?!

If her plans for children have changed then the best thing to do is let her go and begin that chapter of your life. People DO change, trust me. It does not matter how great she looks as she will bring a negative force into your life that will disturb your focus on your goals. Let her go.

I think she is using the kid issue as a way out because she is probably already getting her action elsewhere if you haven’t given it up for six months. Don’t assume that because she doesn’t initiate with you doesn’t mean she doesn’t with anyone else. Statistically, married women cheat more than married men. I’d be pissed if I had a six day drought. You could always try talking to her about it instead of looking for someone to help you justify cheating on her. And for the record, the reality of cheating does not live up to the fantasy.

I agree with savanah. If shes lost sexual interest in you its because she’s interested in someone else maybe just emotional, maybe physical. I wish I had recognized the warning signs. Check out www.marriagebuilders.com

New pussy has a high price tag. It will cost you emotional and mental stability and many sleepless nights, not to mention a whole shit load of money. My .02$ is pretend your wife is somebody else and fuck her. You go messing around and you will turn your life upside down. I don’t believe I know anybody who has bettered their life by fucking somebody new while still with the old. I don’t know about you but I can’t afford new pussy. It’s sounds fun but the reality is not and it starts the second after you have blown your nut.

I wouldn’t jump to the conclusion that she is seeing someone else. Maybe she is experiencing a low sex-drive for some kind of hormonal reason in which case you should talk about it and see a doctor or maybe she is thinking that she wants a kid and knows that you don’t so that makes her moody and uninterested. And really since she is bringing up children and you aren’t interested there may be a whole lot of sh*t that she is thinking about in that respect…such as ‘what do I do from here?..’

Jeez…no sex for (6) months!! I am in the middle of a cycle and have had sex with my wife (8) days in a row. Got pissed off because she got a cold and didn’t feel like it. Anyway, I would nail something strange…a guy can only take so much. SIX MONTHS!

As much as I don’t like to condone drug use, get 2 tabs of X and fuck your brains out. You could also load up on some tribex and give her some spanish fly. Or try getting her drunk.

Make a trip to the toy store! Either on your own or together. That’s what my husband and I do to add a little spice when things get a little boring! After 17 years you need to get creative!