[quote]Mick28 wrote:
maloneted knows that he’s in over his head and this debate is lost. So, he goes into silly mode. But don’t worry I’ll translate each line for you.
malonetd wrote:
You’re not even worth debating point for point since you didn’t even really make a point.
Translation: "I don’t really have a good answer to the statistics posted and your main point. I want to continue to live in my little world and believe with all my heart that racism is every bit as bad as it was years ago, so leave me alone.
So instead, do us all a favor and tell us how a man of you aptitude escaped poverty. You know, so we all have a template – sort of a guide to follow.
Translation: “I cannot argue the abundant general facts that you have presented. So, I’d like to take this to a personal level hoping that I can poke holes in your story and make you look bad. Could you help me out here I know I’m the one looking bad right now, and I don’t like it very much.”
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As usual, avoiding my question and resorting to personal attacks.
What statistics did you post? The ones about black enrollment and black officials, etc, etc? How does that change my point? Have you even read anything I posted? I said things were getting better in my very first post.
Look, it almost feels like we’re arguing around each other now and not even debating the same points. I’ll try and back up here and start over. It’s not worth either of our time to just start taking things personal. I say this because you come off a little brighter that texguy, and while we might not be able to see eye-to-eye, I think we can both agree on certain points.
First, I don’t think racism is as bas as it was years ago. I do believe it still it exists and can be a factor in many people’s lives. I think our only disagreement here is the level it exists and the role it plays in people’s lives.
The problem with a debate like this is that racial discrimination is hard to prove. It’s hard, if not impossible, to prove someone’s intentions and motivations. There are discrimination lawsuits being tried all the time across America. Are some of them garbage? Definitely, but I believe many are not and I think this means there is still a problem with race relations in this country.
I do believe things have gotten better, but we’re still not quite there yet. Remember, the only reason I jumped in this thread is because texguy said we are all truly equal now. I disagreed with that. I think for the most part things are headed in the right direction, but we’re just not there yet. It’s just going to take a little more time.
Next, I do not condone or offer any justification or excuses for criminal activities. I thought I made that clear. My point was that poverty equals crime. I don’t think that’s debateable.
As far as getting out of poverty, I think our big disagreement was when you used the word “many” as in many people get out of poverty. I don’t know what you meant number-wise, but I read many to mean “a lot” or “the majority.” It also felt like you were implying that it wasn’t that hard to do it. Perhaps I misunderstood.
On the flip side, I think you read my posts to mean that I thought people shouldn’t try and that it is impossible to get out of poverty. I didn’t mean that either. I think it is damn hard. People definitely should try. The problem is that because it is so hard, not people have the fortitude or the mental toughness to stick it out. For every rags to riches story, there are thousands of individuals that die poor and hungry.
Though I may have come off as a smart ass, I didn’t mean to, and I was being serious when I asked about you escaping poverty. I understand this is a public forum where you may wish not to share these things, but I was just curious. And, growing up the way I did, this is a subject I feel strongly about.
I’m much better off now than I was in the past. I wish I could say it was all hard work that got me where I am, but I’d be lying. I got very lucky a couple of times in life. My siblings didn’t get as lucky and are still struggling. I have a brother in prison. I have a sister who was/is an addict and was/is homeless. My alcoholic mother lives with her alcoholic boyfriend who beats her regularly – or at least she did four years ago when I made my third and final attempt to have her in my life.
Now, I will be the first to admit, my relatives got where they are through their own actions. No one or no thing made them do what they have done. But understand that poverty consumes people. And this is what happens when you can’t fight back.
Anyway, to summarize:
Things better – yes
All truly equal – no, not yet
Poverty – very hard to get out, not many do
I hope I cleared up my position a little without any pointless personal attacks. I also think we don’t disagree nearly as much as we made it seem.