[quote]jmarshburn wrote:
[quote]Oleena wrote:
With all due respect, this is BS. American soldiers are given their own holiday; public speakers often start their talks with having everyone stand and clap for those who have served in the military, and friends of mine who’ve gone to serve commented that they were shocked by the difference in respect they received when they were in uniform (people opening doors, stepping aside for them, etc). This is all given because the general public DOES think all soldiers have done with they did to serve and protect their way of life. Being a soldier in our society automatically earns you a reception of respect from all and awe from most, especially other men. Those who don’t fall into line with this are given disrespect themselves and viewed as highly ignorant. Unless the war is highly unpopular.
I’m actually the minority regarding my thinking that many soldiers joined for other primary reasons than to serve and protect, and as a result, I never really discuss this with others in real life.[/quote]
Oleena, again… you are not incorrect here. Please allow me to elaborate some.
The general public does honor us in ways that still can bring me to tears. There is no emotion that can describe getting off a plane and having regular citizens who have taken time from their busy and hectic lives there just to clap for us and hug us as we deplane from a deployment, the first time back on American soil in many months.
And, yes we do have Veteran’s Day, honoring the brave souls who have gone before us in defense of an idea, and at times defending our very homeland.
As a country, we have made great strides in separating the soldier from the conflict. In Vietnam, there was not that crucial separation, and as a result soldiers were forced to bear the brunt of their countrymen (and women) who were extremely unhappy with the policies of the government.
I can never fully express my gratitude for the continual outpouring of emotion from the American people. Here we are ten years into this mess of Iraq and Afghanistan and we still receive so many anonymous care packages that we often don’t know what to do with the bounty.
What I meant in talking about why many soldiers serve is at their core. We use terms like “Selfless Service” and “Quiet Professionals”. For many (myself included) those take deep root in our way of thinking. While the general public praises us, it is not in many of our personalities to accept that praise and basque(sp?) in the glow of praise. Not because we are not grateful, but we look to our left and right and see our friends and buddies and believe that the praise is for them. Am I making any sense here?
So when asked why we joined, it is easier to give the superficial answer as opposed to exploring the depth of our commitment. Many soldiers on their first term of enlistment might very well be there for college money and job skills, that may be who you are talking to, that doesn’t make them wrong, it is just where they are in their time.
Admittedly, most of the soldiers that I interact with are more senior and our beliefs have been formed over an entire adulthood of service. By that very nature, there is a strong bias in the manner in which I approach questions like this, I can not nor will not deny that.
I do, however, personally believe that by the time a soldier is on their second or so enlistment or term, there is a stronger sense of service than initially existed. Just serving for college money or job skills is very shallow, and can only sustain someone for so long before they are fed up and leave the service.
JM
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Thanks for the response. I completely agree that most all soldiers reasons for serving changes once they’re in and a few already had those reasons to begin with. Your post reflects the attitude of the soldiers I’ve know who’ve served overseas.