Geez, I always used “Hi, my name is Jeff!” What the hell was I thinking?!? Thanks, Nate!
If you have to read a book, you will never get it.
CHRISMCL: “As if I need to make mo’. I gotta mansion and 6 cars that I paid for.”
LOL. I know a guy who (jokingly I hope) uses the fish bait analogy. When he wants big fish, he uses big worms. In the case of women, if he wants to real in a hottie, he uses bigger bait, bringing in a wad of cash.
Small hijack If some woman wants to prove to you she thinks she hot stuff (shes all that), she will want you to spend good money on her before ever considering other options, like acknowledging your existence. Which leads to another interesting questions: How is this different from prostitution? Is this the excellent result of the feminist battle: Fight for your right to be independent and still finally fall for the guy with money? WOW.
Now, before any lady here goes into the were not all like that debate, a couple of things. 1) I know. 2) I would never sacrifice my independence for someone elses cash. I do my own thing and expect the other to, the exception being splits for mutual experiences. 3) Some people will fall for the sugardaddy/sugarmomma thing, whatever day and age we are. People are still people. End hijack
Hi! Wanna fuck?
DAN C: I disagree. I think you can make up for a lack of personality with cash. Sure, there are some hotties that are that way (Exclusively), but the way I see it is that you have to either have: really good looks, power, money, great personality. Any one of those seems to do.
“suck me beautiful” American pie, just watched it.
DON’T ever ask them what kinda guys they like.
and DON’T ever ask them what it is about you they don’t like. you set your self up either way with those. i have never seen guys in a bars get any where with those Q’s. but it’s funny to watch.
oh, and look for body language. if you can read it you’ll know what to say when and vice versa.
If you want a girl to let you “put the moves on her” she knows within the first minute/or less wheter or not you have any chance in a stricly sex related sit. Beyond that women (especially very attractive ones) are so used to hearing bullshit that being yourself is probably your best bet(unless they’re young/dumb/both). Look at it this way. If you meet a guy who you think is cool, it’s likely that you will get along and share some sort of “chemistry” (as freinds/no faggotry). You wouldn’t try to tell him things he wanted to hear to be freinds with him right? To a degree the same goes with women if you get along+ you pass the minute evaluation you’re getting some.
nephron,
add to that list…big muscles and ability to move heavy objects…and a sense of humor!
honestly…the men i have dated that had money…it was actually a turn off…most felt like they could buy anything they wanted and put me on that list. I earn my own and enjoy not “needing” a man to support me!
I do however like a man that can make me laugh and carry on an intelligent conversation…and if he is suffering from massive hypertrophy…all the better.
of course, asking if I “wanna f**k” does cut to the chase.
Chrismcl whatever you do don’t fall to spending money to impress a girl.
“I don’t know whatcha heard about me
but a bitch can’t getta dolla outa me
no cadillac no benz you can’t see
that I’m a mother fuckin PIMP.”
DAN C, that was just a quote. I’ve decided to take a crack at posting some sort of quote at the end of each of my posts. Why? I don’t know.
Btw, if you’re wondering I’ve decided to quote bling-bling rappers after each of my posts. That one was Dr Dre. Why bling-bling rappers? I dunno, I like listening to them, and its sorta funny listening to them go on and on about how much money they have and how many gallons of Hennesy they have waiting for them at the party tonight.
“When I hit the club, I’mma be wit David Banner. A thug-ass n**ga wit bad table manners.”
Get them talking about themselves… and then just bust their balls a little bit. Get a laugh and you’re in there.
Read their body language and if they’re not feelin you… move on.
honestly bro, i dont consider myself the best looking guy. but i have always been able to get the attention of beautiful women. why?
- by far the best pick up line is “hi my name is rob”
- i am so different from people that when it comes to describbing me people have always said “you are just rob.” so be yourself.
- smile
- chivalry is not dead
- be confident, but not cocky. i have a hard time with that sometimes…
- ask them questions, AND LISTEN! dont ramble about yourself off the bat
- find things you have in common and exploit them.
- if your abs or ass is as hard as mine, get them to touch them/it. every party we have at my fraternity house i always end up doing this, and in return i get them to let me touch THEIRS. this my brother will open the body language barrier right open.
- if you can not “smell” some chemistry going on, move on. there are plenty, repeat plenty, of gorgous women out there waiting for the right t-man to pluck them up.
- SUPRISE THEM! they eat this shit up alive man. this is more for the time following the “hook” phase.
tips for predetermined one-nite-stands.
- if you sleep at her place, leave as soon as possible. this will avoid many situations that you dont want to come across. make sure to announce a early engagement during the nite that you must attend so that she will know you have to leave early. leave a nice note on the pillow.
- if at your place, make her breakfast. this is a great start. i cant guide you much more than this because from here it all depends…
also, apply the very good tips that have already been posted here…
I agree with viz. You have to honeslty be yourself. Don’t talk about yourself a lot, just be yourself.
You want to know the truth. I’ve been hit on by more women now that I’m engaged than ever. I’ve talked to married men, and this happens to them too. You want to know why? Because they are just talking frankly. Nothing more, nothing less. They are not trying to hit on a woman, nor are they trying to impress her. I know I’ve turned down numerous women here in St. Louis, and a lot of them know about my fiancee!!
Chivalry will get you far.
Pull out chairs. Hold doors. When being seated at a restaurant, give her the seat that faces everyone. Pay for everything. Give her your jacket. Be completely nice to everyone when you are around her. They say that you can tell the way a person treats others by the way he treats the waiter/waitress. Tip well. Laugh at her jokes. Smile a lot. Make her feel comfortable. Take charge when you need to.
The simple things will get you far with the ladies.
Don’t fake it. Don’t pretend. I can say that it is good advice to ask her a lot of questions about herself, not too many and probably not too probing but it does show you are intertested in her. You have to be honest about it though. If she is really cool she’ll say only so much about herself before she turns it on you and asks you about yourself. When each of you begin to do this honestly you’ll come across any number of good things to talk about. After a while if you are really attracted to each other and feel comfortable the subject of sex will probably come up. When it comes up, then you have to muster up every creative way you can to honestly say you want her really bad, and then you just do something about it. This is how conversation has lead into something else for me if that’s what you are looking for. Like I said though the magic ingredient is honesty because otherwise you’ll never get to this point. You’ll have pissed her off by trying to play some mirroring game or talking about yourself too much. I also agree, DO NOT pretend to be everything she wants. I do this with women who approach me that way- I make up some BS about what I want sometimes if I think they are full of it and see if they go for it. Some people will say they are into just about anything, even really stupid shit, if they want to get with you. BIG turn off. Just recently I had a few girls hear me say I’d like to go sky diving and when I struck up a conversation with them, magically that was what they wanted to do for thier whole life. Makes me suspect them right off the bat when I hear stuff like that. She’ll suspect you too if everything you like is exactly what she likes. Besides, part of the fun of a new romantic interests is someone who might get you to participate in thier life. This means trying out new things and hopefully broadening your own horizons.
Oh, one really good pickup line is, “Hi my name is, _____.” Then you can follow it up with, “How are you?” If they don’t answer to either one they are boring and unadventurous. I also recently asked a girl who is now only a friend, why she didn’t come up to me and talk to me first (she had a crush on me). She said that she normally didn’t just strike up a conversation with people she didn’t know. I said why and she said because she didn’t know them. I said how else are you supposed to get to know them and that person might end up being a good friend. I then nicely hinted to her that we may have been more than friends if she did that instead of waiting for me to strike up the coversation when I knew she had a crush on me. Side note-
God Karma I got to say getting in shape has really improved my radar! This girl has got some confidence issues, but shes a friend and I am trying to encourage her to change that. I even told her about you and you overcoming the difficult situation you were in.
JWRIGHT: Well educated and/or mature women respond (in kind or well) to chivalry. The average Ho wont see it and/or appreciate it and certainly not reciprocate it. I expect good matters of mature adults and I expect them to gracefully return these simple attentions, but I would not expect your average 18-25 to care about it at all, unless shes been used to it. Anyway. Works fine with evolved people, or, like Finch would say, sophisticated ones.