[quote]Vicomte wrote:
People will always assume that what they believe is right in the absolute. You can blame the media, marketing, indolence and decadence, or whatever, but in the end it is all about what people like. Different people like different things.
For every person who likes a full-figured, voluptuous woman you’re going to have one who likes a skinny ballerina-type. For every woman who likes a muscular, strong man you’ll have one who likes a slight, wiry dude. It’s when you assert that whatever you are or like is the only right that we have problems, because that’s just fucking stupid.
Just because some guy thinks your girl is fat, or some girl rejected you because you lift weights, doesn’t mean things are all fucked up.
And the hard-wired biological preference for certain characteristics that we always hear about is obviously not that telling, or we wouldn’t have people(lots of people, apparently) with opposing preferences. If we are programmed to like things by our biology, then any amount of mental conditioning wouldn’t change that.
Humans have gotten to where they are using their brains, not their muscles. As a society, we have far less use for physical strength now than we ever have, so wouldn’t it make sense that a less muscular physique would be in demand? We have more food than we can ever eat, so wouldn’t it make sense that skinnier women would be in demand?
If our preferences our indeed driven by biology, and therefore by prudence in selection of a mate based on our current environmental conditions, then what the media is feeding us right now is exactly what we should be wanting.
But it’s not that simple, because we have choices, rather than being simply ruled by our biology and the suggestions of others.
All the bullshit in this thread seems to be from people trying to justify why no one else seems to appreciate what they do. They just don’t. And they’re not wrong.[/quote]
[serious] good post. [/serious]