[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
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Oyurishi wo itadakitaku zonjite orimasu!
(Sorry)[/quote]
Um…
What !?![/quote]
Just a really nice, polite / humble turn of phrase to apologize, O.[/quote]
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, you can argue that, “oh, you’re just dating low quality women”. But I disagree. I lived for many years in Washington DC’s Logan Circle neighborhood (close to the U street, K street, Adams Morgan, Dupont, and the Verizon center hot spots). I dated women from high end establishments, jazz clubs, concerts on the mall, expensive bars and restaurants, women I met in parks and bookstores, at the monuments and museums, Tourists and Locals, etc… Not just skanks I picked up at meat market clubs (although if I just wanted to chase down a gazelle for the night, I certainly had no problem going to a meat market for easy pickings and I never bothered to give them the cell phone litmus test cuz it was a one time thing, but I digress…).
Most of them were either college students or had very good professional jobs either on “The Hill”, for non profit groups, law firms, fortune 500 companies, etc… and sure there were a few waitresses, bartenders, strippers, “artists”, musicians, etc… thrown in their for good measure as well. My point is, certainly not all of them could have been crazy. That’s statistically impossible.
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Good to know[/quote]
To be fair, it doesn’t sound like he ever dated anyone like my wife.
Then again, I’m in a different part of the world, living with a woman who comes from samurai stock…[/quote]
Hey, I come from Samurai stock…
But my potential partners, not really…
More Samurai !?!
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, before people jump up my ass and call me a home wrecker, I NEVER ask if a woman has a man when I approach them. I always assume she is available. If she is taken, she’ll let me know and I’ll back off or recruit her…[/quote]
What is sufficient notice for you?
If she mentions that she’s married, but still seems to be interested in a little “sotai dosa,” do you back off or continue to pursue? [/quote]
They fail to mention that.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, you can argue that, “oh, you’re just dating low quality women”. But I disagree. I lived for many years in Washington DC’s Logan Circle neighborhood (close to the U street, K street, Adams Morgan, Dupont, and the Verizon center hot spots). I dated women from high end establishments, jazz clubs, concerts on the mall, expensive bars and restaurants, women I met in parks and bookstores, at the monuments and museums, Tourists and Locals, etc… Not just skanks I picked up at meat market clubs (although if I just wanted to chase down a gazelle for the night, I certainly had no problem going to a meat market for easy pickings and I never bothered to give them the cell phone litmus test cuz it was a one time thing, but I digress…).
Most of them were either college students or had very good professional jobs either on “The Hill”, for non profit groups, law firms, fortune 500 companies, etc… and sure there were a few waitresses, bartenders, strippers, “artists”, musicians, etc… thrown in their for good measure as well. My point is, certainly not all of them could have been crazy. That’s statistically impossible.
[/quote]
Good to know[/quote]
To be fair, it doesn’t sound like he ever dated anyone like my wife.
Then again, I’m in a different part of the world, living with a woman who comes from samurai stock…[/quote]
Hey, I come from Samurai stock…
But my potential partners, not really…
More Samurai !?![/quote]
Abso-freakingl-lutely![/quote]
Dismissing 90 % f all women wont make very popular.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, before people jump up my ass and call me a home wrecker, I NEVER ask if a woman has a man when I approach them. I always assume she is available. If she is taken, she’ll let me know and I’ll back off or recruit her…[/quote]
What is sufficient notice for you?
If she mentions that she’s married, but still seems to be interested in a little “sotai dosa,” do you back off or continue to pursue? [/quote]
They fail to mention that. [/quote]
Que?[/quote]
Married women, they dont tell you.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, before people jump up my ass and call me a home wrecker, I NEVER ask if a woman has a man when I approach them. I always assume she is available. If she is taken, she’ll let me know and I’ll back off or recruit her…[/quote]
What is sufficient notice for you?
If she mentions that she’s married, but still seems to be interested in a little “sotai dosa,” do you back off or continue to pursue? [/quote]
If she says she is married I note it and incorporate it into my qualification strategy. Many women SAY they have a BF or a husband early on (even if they don’t) before I have effectively sparked attraction as a strategy to make a man stop pursuing them. It’s just a shit test many times. If it is brought up, I always revisit it several times. If I eventually believe that she is indeed married (and not separated, or doesn’t have an arrangement), I will NOT sleep with her. But will I back off at the first mention of a “husband”? No, as many times it is a false disqualifier.
As for girls who have a BF, well, I think Beyonce said it best: “If you like it then you should have put a ring on it”. They are all fair game.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, you can argue that, “oh, you’re just dating low quality women”. But I disagree. I lived for many years in Washington DC’s Logan Circle neighborhood (close to the U street, K street, Adams Morgan, Dupont, and the Verizon center hot spots). I dated women from high end establishments, jazz clubs, concerts on the mall, expensive bars and restaurants, women I met in parks and bookstores, at the monuments and museums, Tourists and Locals, etc… Not just skanks I picked up at meat market clubs (although if I just wanted to chase down a gazelle for the night, I certainly had no problem going to a meat market for easy pickings and I never bothered to give them the cell phone litmus test cuz it was a one time thing, but I digress…).
Most of them were either college students or had very good professional jobs either on “The Hill”, for non profit groups, law firms, fortune 500 companies, etc… and sure there were a few waitresses, bartenders, strippers, “artists”, musicians, etc… thrown in their for good measure as well. My point is, certainly not all of them could have been crazy. That’s statistically impossible.
[/quote]
Good to know[/quote]
To be fair, it doesn’t sound like he ever dated anyone like my wife.
Then again, I’m in a different part of the world, living with a woman who comes from samurai stock…[/quote]
I HAVE dated a Japanese woman of Samurai stock! Two of them in fact. The first one, Takemi was very special to me, but she was an exchange student and went back to Japan. The second, Kasumi (easy name to remember, as I’m sure you know why), I met at an Aikido seminar and we dated briefly, but she had baggage (she was formerly dating one of my sempai and allowed it to create friction). Both of them were nice girls and I dated them when I was in my early 20’s before I developed the cell phone litmus test, so I don’t know if they would have passed or failed. I suspect Takemi would have passed, TBH. She was a catch. Pretty sure Kasumi would not have passed.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Now, before people jump up my ass and call me a home wrecker, I NEVER ask if a woman has a man when I approach them. I always assume she is available. If she is taken, she’ll let me know and I’ll back off or recruit her…[/quote]
What is sufficient notice for you?
If she mentions that she’s married, but still seems to be interested in a little “sotai dosa,” do you back off or continue to pursue? [/quote]
They fail to mention that. [/quote]
Que?[/quote]
Married women, they dont tell you.[/quote]
Ah.
Then I say, “Fuck em!”
(See what I did there?)
I do agree hard with AC on one thing – keep it honest. What they do is on them.[/quote]
Many times a married woman will not tell you she’s married if she is on a mission. It’s kinda easy to spot, but depending on how hawt she is will determine if I pursue. If I am ever introduced to a COUPLE at, say a party or something, I will NEVER pursue the wife. That would be in very bad taste. Unless later down the line I have it on good authority that they get separated or divorced, then she’s open game. If they are swingers, then it’s a different story, but that only happens once in a while.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
[quote]ouroboro_s wrote:
Most people don’t survive life. No one dies unscathed. I can wager if you talk to anyone here or in your life, they all have a sad or tragic story to share. How you carry on, conduct yourself and treat others is a choice. Don’t they say living well (and happily) is the best revenge? If you want to be a victim of your own sad/tragic incident(s) carry on as you are.[/quote]
I would say that wearing a condom is good insurance against being a victim of sad/tragic circumstance. An unplanned pregnancy or STD is life altering event. All the living well in world won’t put that genie back in the bottle.[/quote]
I cant read too many Angry Chicken posts-
I am accustomed to deal with pretentious bullshit, too much common sense overloads my shitjustgotreal-meter[/quote]
WTF?
He had a streak going until you interrupted him.[/quote]
Lies, look at the time stamps.[/quote]
Oyurishi wo itadakitaku zonjite orimasu!
(Sorry)[/quote]
lol[/quote]
If you got that, then your Japanese is a lot better than I would have expected.[/quote]
I didn’t :(. I’ve seriously been slacking. I have, however, dreamed in Japanese, and I’m pretty sure that’s not normal for someone at my fluency level.