Porn Addiction

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Makavali wrote:

[quote]belligerent wrote:
Most porn is way too tacky and seedy for my taste.[/quote]

See I watch porn, but I find myself filtering out like 90% of the videos within the first two seconds for the above mentioned reasons.[/quote]

I agree.

The X-Art stuff is classy and still erotic. I find nothing “degrading” about it and I don’t feel it sucks the life out of your soul and ruins your libido like many have mentioned here.[/quote]

Could you clarify, push? Are you referring only to a certain kind of porn, like X-Art, or to all porn?

I read this thread from post 1 and I read many porn effects for men like ED, etc. But how about porn effects for women? I ask this because my gf like to watch porn very much ( and if you like to open prnhub and yup*rn, you would know that many many girls watch porn ) . She basically watch all kind of porn, straight, gay porn ( her favorite ) , hentai anime porn. Since they cant have ED, whats the effects of porn can harms women?

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:
I read this thread from post 1 and I read many porn effects for men like ED, etc. But how about porn effects for women? I ask this because my gf like to watch porn very much ( and if you like to open prnhub and yup*rn, you would know that many many girls watch porn ) . She basically watch all kind of porn, straight, gay porn ( her favorite ) , hentai anime porn. Since they cant have ED, whats the effects of porn can harms women? [/quote]

It’s been said to make it more difficult to orgasm during actual sex, especially if she does it with a vibrator.

More interesting though she loves gay porn? So do girls like that as much as I like hot lesbians? I thought that was just a guy thing.

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Makavali wrote:

[quote]belligerent wrote:
Most porn is way too tacky and seedy for my taste.[/quote]

See I watch porn, but I find myself filtering out like 90% of the videos within the first two seconds for the above mentioned reasons.[/quote]

I agree.

The X-Art stuff is classy and still erotic. I find nothing “degrading” about it and I don’t feel it sucks the life out of your soul and ruins your libido like many have mentioned here.[/quote]

Could you clarify, push? Are you referring only to a certain kind of porn, like X-Art, or to all porn?
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I think a whole lot of porn may very well do many of the things you’ve mentioned – not because I’ve experienced it but because many of you make a very convincing case that it has – I just haven’t experienced it personally and that’s all I’ve got to go on. Maybe even the X-Art type stuff.

I will qualify that by mentioning that I honestly don’t think I have an addictive personality. Some who know me will laugh and point to the time I spend here on T-Nation but we all would have to admit that the dopamine release thing doesn’t apply in that instance and so is not analogous.[/quote]

Thanks, push.

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:
I read this thread from post 1 and I read many porn effects for men like ED, etc. But how about porn effects for women? I ask this because my gf like to watch porn very much ( and if you like to open prnhub and yup*rn, you would know that many many girls watch porn ) . She basically watch all kind of porn, straight, gay porn ( her favorite ) , hentai anime porn. Since they cant have ED, whats the effects of porn can harms women? [/quote]

It’s been said to make it more difficult to orgasm during actual sex, especially if she does it with a vibrator.

More interesting though she loves gay porn? So do girls like that as much as I like hot lesbians? I thought that was just a guy thing.[/quote]

Yes many girls like gay porn ( thats what my gf said ) . Because gay porn is the only porn that focused on male performers. In straight porn male performers are just a prop. They only needed for their dick and their stamina ( and their faces rarely shown on the screen ) . And you wont find ugly fat male performers like ron jeremy in gay porn. Girl like hot guys, and there are tons of them in gay porn. She said only Manuel Ferrara, James Deen, and Derrick Pierce ( who is he? i dont know him ) are hot in straight porn.

With high speed internet and tons of free porn on the net, porn is not just guy thing anymore.

I think the best argument against watching porn is that it’s simply for the most part a waste of time. This time could be spend doing something more productive, i.e., something that provides value that lasts beyond the activity itself. But that reasoning applies to almost all the time spend on the Internet, including posting on TN. The Internet is mainly used for mental masturbation.

[quote]csulli wrote:

More interesting though she loves gay porn? So do girls like that as much as I like hot lesbians? I thought that was just a guy thing.[/quote]

He didn’t say it was lesbian porn.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Ha! I’m sure it’s happening with some of the kids I work with. There are definitely recognizable “crushes,” though I assume they’re more maternal than sexual.[/quote]

Aww, you’re cute!

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

More interesting though she loves gay porn? So do girls like that as much as I like hot lesbians? I thought that was just a guy thing.[/quote]

He didn’t say it was lesbian porn.[/quote]

“So do girls like that (i.e. gay male porn) as much as I like hot lesbians?”

You misunderstood a bit :stuck_out_tongue:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

More interesting though she loves gay porn? So do girls like that as much as I like hot lesbians? I thought that was just a guy thing.[/quote]

He didn’t say it was lesbian porn.[/quote]

“So do girls like that (i.e. gay male porn) as much as I like hot lesbians?”

You misunderstood a bit :P[/quote]

Ahh, my mistake.

You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?
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Or your sexual partners are useless? lol

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.[/quote]

Maybe its not anybody’s fault. Many women cant get off from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. How about Woman on Top ? Usually this will solve the case if you know how to grind. And how about oral? My ex girlfriend can only get off if shes on top and shes the one taking control. And oral.

But I dont know about vibrator. Maybe using vibrator your genitals desensitized?

Anyway I never like lesbian porn ( since the first time I know porn ) although I like girls. I found its icky and a boner killer. Dont know why. Even if its just kissing. Honestly I dont know why so many guys like it.

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.[/quote]

Maybe its not anybody’s fault. Many women cant get off from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. How about Woman on Top ? Usually this will solve the case if you know how to grind. And how about oral? My ex girlfriend can only get off if shes on top and shes the one taking control. And oral.

But I dont know about vibrator. Maybe using vibrator your genitals desensitized?

Anyway I never like lesbian porn ( since the first time I know porn ) although I like girls. I found its icky and a boner killer. Dont know why. Even if its just kissing. Honestly I dont know why so many guys like it.[/quote]

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.[/quote]

Maybe its not anybody’s fault. Many women cant get off from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. How about Woman on Top ? Usually this will solve the case if you know how to grind. And how about oral? My ex girlfriend can only get off if shes on top and shes the one taking control. And oral.

But I dont know about vibrator. Maybe using vibrator your genitals desensitized?

Anyway I never like lesbian porn ( since the first time I know porn ) although I like girls. I found its icky and a boner killer. Dont know why. Even if its just kissing. Honestly I dont know why so many guys like it.[/quote]
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Haha

[quote]MattyXL wrote:
Man it sure as hell seems that anyone disagreeing with the point of view that pornography is not as damaging as they believe it to be gets stonewalled and labeled as someone that will not intelligently debate the topic.

I watch porn, and masturbate to it a few times a week, I have sex with my wife often, I masturbate to my wife often, I masturbate w/o porn often. I watch porn with my wife once in a while, we have a healthy sex life. Porn has been part of my normal behavior since I was 13. I understand what is fantasy and what should be left as so, I understand that porn isn’t reality and treat it as so.

I understand that too much of anything may lead to adverse reactions. Including having no sexual outlet at all, before marriage I have had some sexual dry spells, and I thank god I was able to masturbate to porn and to my imagination because without it I was an asshole.

Why does everything have to be so cut and dry, not much in life is. [/quote]

no non no nooo, my dear matty, you do not understand how the world works my friends. drugs_BAD
porn-BAD
guns-BAD
global warming - TRUE and BAD
i could go on and on…

there are just some things that are just NOT up for debate. you are an addict and in denial. admit it, we can help you.

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.[/quote]

Maybe its not anybody’s fault. Many women cant get off from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. How about Woman on Top ? Usually this will solve the case if you know how to grind. And how about oral? My ex girlfriend can only get off if shes on top and shes the one taking control. And oral.

But I dont know about vibrator. Maybe using vibrator your genitals desensitized?

Anyway I never like lesbian porn ( since the first time I know porn ) although I like girls. I found its icky and a boner killer. Dont know why. Even if its just kissing. Honestly I dont know why so many guys like it.[/quote]
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Derek your gifs have been spot on lately, genuine lol’s.

[quote]heavythrower wrote:

[quote]MattyXL wrote:
Man it sure as hell seems that anyone disagreeing with the point of view that pornography is not as damaging as they believe it to be gets stonewalled and labeled as someone that will not intelligently debate the topic.

I watch porn, and masturbate to it a few times a week, I have sex with my wife often, I masturbate to my wife often, I masturbate w/o porn often. I watch porn with my wife once in a while, we have a healthy sex life. Porn has been part of my normal behavior since I was 13. I understand what is fantasy and what should be left as so, I understand that porn isn’t reality and treat it as so.

I understand that too much of anything may lead to adverse reactions. Including having no sexual outlet at all, before marriage I have had some sexual dry spells, and I thank god I was able to masturbate to porn and to my imagination because without it I was an asshole.

Why does everything have to be so cut and dry, not much in life is. [/quote]

no non no nooo, my dear matty, you do not understand how the world works my friends. drugs_BAD
porn-BAD
guns-BAD
global warming - TRUE and BAD
i could go on and on…

there are just some things that are just NOT up for debate. you are an addict and in denial. admit it, we can help you.

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lmao!!!

Some people try and take all the fun away! Next thing you know fucking will be outlawed. It’s too dangerous!

[quote]Goodfellow wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]TheGreatXavi wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
You know I use my vibrator and think about Anthony Kiedis all the time and maybe it’s ruining my women parts for potential real life sex dudes. I have never gotten off from an actual live man before, maybe that’s my fault…?

Anyway, I would rather watch girl on girl porn than two guys doing it bleh.[/quote]

Maybe its not anybody’s fault. Many women cant get off from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. How about Woman on Top ? Usually this will solve the case if you know how to grind. And how about oral? My ex girlfriend can only get off if shes on top and shes the one taking control. And oral.

But I dont know about vibrator. Maybe using vibrator your genitals desensitized?

Anyway I never like lesbian porn ( since the first time I know porn ) although I like girls. I found its icky and a boner killer. Dont know why. Even if its just kissing. Honestly I dont know why so many guys like it.[/quote]
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Derek your gifs have been spot on lately, genuine lol’s. [/quote]