well played OP well played.
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.
Where is the original thread about the people in your program being loons? Sounds interesting…
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
First of all Ct. don’t pull this crap … I know as well as you that you won’t die from a burning on the stake
secondly, regardless of what Stephanie Meyer might say, Vampires don’t have emotions so don’t try to fool me with your fancy schmancy words
All i was trying to say is there are better ways to a.) handle stress and emotions b.) treat people in moments of stress and emotion and c.) better ways to communicate without insults or snarky remarks especially in a professional/academic setting.
So, stop looking down your nose at me, and maybe think about what I said before you jump to conclusions … maybe use some of the schoolin’ you’ve received for some critical thinking rather than just quirky quips … now go sparkle in the sun and stfu 
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
Don’t apologize for shit…christ. I don’t deny we all lose our cool here or there. Yet guess what? Most of us who do, have a pretty damn good reason and we cool it after(kind of like the alpha lion roaring/warning others and laying back down nonchalantly). Yet to stick up for this bitch doesn’t make sense. She clearly disrespected him in my book, neither you nor I should be trying to rationalize or give any buts about it. ffs
So what should Accipterq have said instead? hugs her “I know you’re feeling real emotional right now, it’s absolutely not your fault you said all those cruel things, here I baked some cookies for you, BFF please?”
[quote]polo77j wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
First of all Ct. don’t pull this crap … I know as well as you that you won’t die from a burning on the stake<------ this was an attempt to trick you, in case you actually tried killing me
secondly, regardless of what Stephanie Meyer<---- who the hell is this? might say, Vampires don’t have emotions so don’t try to fool me with your fancy schmancy words…you are a brilliant man that did not get blinded in the smoke, well played.
All i was trying to say is there are better ways to a.) handle stress and emotions
^^^
total truth, I’ll never deny this.
b.) treat people in moments of stress and emotion and c.) better ways to communicate without insults or snarky remarks especially in a professional/academic setting.
So, stop looking down your nose at me, and maybe think about what I said before you jump to conclusions … maybe use some of the schoolin’ you’ve received for some critical thinking rather than just quirky quips … now go sparkle in the sun and stfu :)[/quote]
LMAO! see you just got hot at me.
you are right and I can’t fight any of your points. Will you at least entertain the possibility of a lapse in judgment?
And I’m the last one to EVER turn my nose up at someone. I just like the full spectrum of perspectives on situations. So, a sincere apology for my communication error on your post. It came across angry to me.
wtf is this sparkling in the sun? I don’t get it.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
First of all Ct. don’t pull this crap … I know as well as you that you won’t die from a burning on the stake<------ this was an attempt to trick you, in case you actually tried killing me
secondly, regardless of what Stephanie Meyer<---- who the hell is this? might say, Vampires don’t have emotions so don’t try to fool me with your fancy schmancy words…you are a brilliant man that did not get blinded in the smoke, well played.
All i was trying to say is there are better ways to a.) handle stress and emotions
^^^
total truth, I’ll never deny this.
b.) treat people in moments of stress and emotion and c.) better ways to communicate without insults or snarky remarks especially in a professional/academic setting.
So, stop looking down your nose at me, and maybe think about what I said before you jump to conclusions … maybe use some of the schoolin’ you’ve received for some critical thinking rather than just quirky quips … now go sparkle in the sun and stfu :)[/quote]
LMAO! see you just got hot at me.
you are right and I can’t fight any of your points. Will you at least entertain the possibility of a lapse in judgment?
And I’m the last one to EVER turn my nose up at someone. I just like the full spectrum of perspectives on situations. So, a sincere apology for my communication error on your post. It came across angry to me.
wtf is this sparkling in the sun? I don’t get it.
[/quote]
No worries but your reply was a little condescending insinuating that I think everyone should conduct themselves without emotion …
and as far as the sparkling in the sun, twilight dude, twilight … that bitch Meyers ruined vampires … I saw New Moon and had to watch From Dusk til Dawn and Lost Boys back to back to convince myself that vampires are still bad ass
She’s clearly ready to enter the business world.
You don’t owe her anything. Perhaps work a free meal out of it.
Her “when can you fix my computer”
You “whenever you can work it into my schedule. You can bring it and something for us to eat”
or, “While I’m doing this, you can do a few loads of my laundry”
[quote]Carlitosway wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
Don’t apologize for shit…christ. I don’t deny we all lose our cool here or there. Yet guess what? Most of us who do, have a pretty damn good reason and we cool it after(kind of like the alpha lion roaring/warning others and laying back down nonchalantly). Yet to stick up for this bitch doesn’t make sense. She clearly disrespected him in my book, neither you nor I should be trying to rationalize or give any buts about it. ffs
How do you know that woman wasn’t going to apologize and attempt to fix the issue? Realize there are lots of unknowns here.
So what should Accipterq have said instead? hugs her “I know you’re feeling real emotional right now, it’s absolutely not your fault you said all those cruel things, here I baked some cookies for you, BFF please?”[/quote]
In any case, we’re all on the same page. AQ could hve ignored it until it was face time with the girl then went for ass. The only things I wanted to get across is the fact that her actions, while improper, are understandable. As I was getting at above, there are many unknowns here. For examples her intent of apology upon meeting or her actual personality. So I guess I’m wrong for trying to put myself in another person’s shoes. And before you jump on that last sentence, I definitely will put that crazy bitch in her place if it does turn out that she’s an actual loon.
That’s all
she wasn’t right and I’ve said it more than once. Like you’ve said, this was a chance to actually put her on her back but AQ didn’t capitalize.
[quote]polo77j wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]polo77j wrote:
By no means is OP obligated to help her in the first place, nor should he go out of his way to help her, even though he had offered up his time and as a thanks she insults him because it didn’t mesh with her time table? There are better ways to get what you want out of people, insulting them only hinders any type of future voluntary collaboration.
She wasn’t his project partner, she was just some classmate … and I don’t give a FUCK what time of the year it is, finals time schmimals time, how well is this young woman equipped to handle stress in the business world? If she treated a co-worker this way I’d expect her to be let to fall flat on her fucking face. Shit, I’d welcome this type of behavior from a co-worker, especially one who I’m in competition for a promotion. See if I work well with her.
Learning how to handle stress and co-operation with co-workers/classmates is one of the best lessons I learned from the military/college. I’ve furthered myself a lot easier and farther by interacting with people appropriately than being abrasive in situations of stress than I ever would have if I burned bridges by insulting someone who was lending me a hand.[/quote]
well polo
allow me to apologize for both myself and that woman for having emotions. I guess its just the worst thing on earth to lose your cool every now and then. Right? It never happens to you, huh? You’ve actually never had a moment, right?
again, many apologies, we clearly are just awful and deserve a burning at the stake. [/quote]
First of all Ct. don’t pull this crap … I know as well as you that you won’t die from a burning on the stake<------ this was an attempt to trick you, in case you actually tried killing me
secondly, regardless of what Stephanie Meyer<---- who the hell is this? might say, Vampires don’t have emotions so don’t try to fool me with your fancy schmancy words…you are a brilliant man that did not get blinded in the smoke, well played.
All i was trying to say is there are better ways to a.) handle stress and emotions
^^^
total truth, I’ll never deny this.
b.) treat people in moments of stress and emotion and c.) better ways to communicate without insults or snarky remarks especially in a professional/academic setting.
So, stop looking down your nose at me, and maybe think about what I said before you jump to conclusions … maybe use some of the schoolin’ you’ve received for some critical thinking rather than just quirky quips … now go sparkle in the sun and stfu :)[/quote]
LMAO! see you just got hot at me.
you are right and I can’t fight any of your points. Will you at least entertain the possibility of a lapse in judgment?
And I’m the last one to EVER turn my nose up at someone. I just like the full spectrum of perspectives on situations. So, a sincere apology for my communication error on your post. It came across angry to me.
wtf is this sparkling in the sun? I don’t get it.
[/quote]
No worries but your reply was a little condescending insinuating that I think everyone should conduct themselves without emotion …
and as far as the sparkling in the sun, twilight dude, twilight … that bitch Meyers ruined vampires … I saw New Moon and had to watch From Dusk til Dawn and Lost Boys back to back to convince myself that vampires are still bad ass[/quote]
Honest here, I had no clue what Twilight was until someone was talking shit to me about it on here. 30 days of Night and the two you named are the only mainstream movies I like. I’ve been called Blade many times though so I might check them out too.
anyway dude, you should know by now I’m anything but a snoob. I’ll never go that route.
to the OP you should send her a Ham-Glute Pic that’ll fix it.
Ah…the Bah-stun attitude…I don’t miss it.
OP, you handled it just fine. If she continues to contact you, tell her to leave you alone…you don’t dig fat chicks. (Even if she’s hot, this will still get to her.)
I would have told her off after she questioned your sleep habits. I don’t think she understood that YOU are helping her on YOUR own time, and that’s valuable time near finals. And i probably would have laughed my ass of at that text message and responded with something like, “Bitch, are you crazy?”.
I’m curious to what she said back after OP told her off.
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
i’m actually feel bad for the op[/quote]
You go to BC?[/quote]
I’m actually feeling bad for the OP*
No sir, I go to Northeastern
[quote]detazathoth wrote:
typical boston college crap, i deal with too many of you guys being fucktards. i’m actually feel bad for the op[/quote]
glad it’s not just me that’s noticing it.
[quote]aznt0rk wrote:
I’m curious to what she said back after OP told her off.[/quote]
She said she was sorry but she didn’t think what she did was bitchy. I never replied. You can’t argue with people like that, and I’m not going to spend 3 hours explaining to her why you don’t insult and act overly demanding to someone trying to save you a few hundred bucks.