[quote]Doug Adams wrote:
Himora22 wrote:
So I have never been one to care weather or not I owned a gun. Never felt the need to, But yesterday someone tried to break in to my apt. luckily I was home at the time and scared the guy off. But now I feel like I need to get one, not for me so much as for my girlfriend who lives with me. I’m in the Army so I know how to use a gun and have no problem teaching her how to use one.
But it just pisses me off that now I have to go out and spend my money that I…!!!WORK FOR!!!.. b/c some mother fuck is too lazy to go out and work for his own shit. Unfortunately there is no self-defense law in NC so if you shoot and kill someone it is manslaughter and you go to jail. But I really dont care next…if there is a next time, I will shoot that mother fucker.
Here’s my $.02, which may have already been said, but I stopped reading after a few responses. First off, I’m very sorry you and your girlfriend were put in such a bad situation as having someone break in your home. It’s never happened to me, but I’m sure you two are feeling angry and vulernable, hence the urge to buy a firearm for protection.
Now I’m a fan of owning firearms as much as anyone, but I feel that purchasing one reactively because of a traumatic event isn’t the best idea. I’m not going to tell you not to buy a gun, just don’t rush to buy one. Give it at least a week.
I guess the biggest reason why I’m saying this is because in your state there is no “castle doctrine” or whatever they call it these days. If you lived in my state where it is legal to defend your home, I’d say happy hunting. That’s not the case for you. Saying you’ll shoot the MF’er sounds like the right thing to say anyway, but what if it did happen? If you only injure him you’re not only looking at criminal charges, but who knows how much money in damages from the inevitable lawsuit from the intruder. Yes, that’s fucked up but it would happen.
Just give it a little time, that’s all.
Oh, if you do decide to get a gun, I’d go with a .38spl revolver. Idiot-proof, more than enough power to get the job done at 10-20 feet, and if you miss you’ll still blind the son-of-a-bitch from the muzzle blast.
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Thanks for your concern. I have a few friends that are cops and talked to them alittle about it today. Even though there is no “castle doctrine” here there arnt any judges that would convict you of anything with in limits.
But ya im angry but its really not me im concerned about, my gf has some mace she keeps with her and I really wouldnt expect her to use the a gun even if it were there but I do want that option open to her.
I really want one so i can keep said person from running next time b/c that is what burns me more than anything is that this person will get away with it.