[quote]bellis800 wrote:
You must be incredibly hot; to make a guy go crazy like that at the thought of losing you.[/quote]
Karma is hot, but I’d wager this guy was not balanced to start with. Women don’t “make” men go insane… they start out that way, and choose victims to unleash the insanity upon.
[quote]~karma~ wrote:
You… You mean you don’t want to sleep with me? sob Even if we just cuddle?[/quote]
ahem … (cough) … you didn’t really buy that last part, did you? ;]
(1) i like the way you think
(2) tell me more. i know that i am slow, but wtf? pity f*ck first?
(3) no, there is absolutely no reason that we shouldn’t be
Bastard
[quote]jsbrook wrote:
What’s the point? There are women everywhere in the real world. Many of them dateable.[/quote]
Some of us aren’t as good at face to face interaction, and prefer to wait until we actually meet someone to turn them off :-D.
Seriously, a lot of people just don’t have time or inclination to get into the bar scene.
[quote]jsbrook wrote:
What’s the point? There are women everywhere in the real world. Many of them dateable.[/quote]
Not true. I agree with Jerry Seinfeld. Only 5% of the population is “datable.” The other 95% are undatable!!!
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
[quote]nephorm wrote:
Seriously, a lot of people just don’t have time or inclination to get into the bar scene.[/quote]
You’re missing out on some fun and more.
And you don’t have to think of it as a way of hooking up for a one-night stand either.
I’ve also used bars/clubs and the people I’ve met for “networking” purposes. I’ve met friends of friends, and we’ve also done things outside the club scene. This way, you can find out if that hottie you met is just a one-night hoe, or a really cool person with some potential to be a three-week fling…or maybe a girlfriend or whatever.
It’s all about “networking.”
You meet a girl. You meet a girl’s friends. You meet friends of friends. You have a plethora of options.
[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
jsbrook wrote:
What’s the point? There are women everywhere in the real world. Many of them dateable.
Not true. I agree with Jerry Seinfeld. Only 5% of the population is “datable.” The other 95% are undatable!!!
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!
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hahaha! That seinfeld episode did cross my mind when I was writing that.
[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
You’re missing out on some fun and more.
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I understand all that… but I don’t drink, I don’t dance, and I don’t mingle very well. So clubs/bars are a depressing waste of time for me!
[quote]nephorm wrote:
I understand all that… but I don’t drink, I don’t dance, and I don’t mingle very well. So clubs/bars are a depressing waste of time for me![/quote]
I don’t drink. Never stops me from having fun. Even if I only have a cup of water in my hand.
I’ll dance, as I’ve found that women like men who will dance. It’s an easy in. But I don’t always like to. But I go out and have a good time when I do. You just have to let yourself go and have fun. I don’t think I can dance worth a shit, but all the girls I’ve danced with think I do. Must be the alcohol.
If you don’t mingle well, then that is a whole other issue. If you can’t have fun hanging out with your friends or talking to strangers, then you really have to work on that. And not just for the bar/club scene.
[quote]nephorm wrote:
Nate Dogg wrote:
You’re missing out on some fun and more.
I understand all that… but I don’t drink, I don’t dance, and I don’t mingle very well. So clubs/bars are a depressing waste of time for me![/quote]
Dude do you grocery shop? Go to church?
Both have a plethera of people who are in your boat.
thanks to all who posted…interesting perspectives 
[quote]nephorm wrote:
I understand all that… but I don’t drink, I don’t dance, and I don’t mingle very well. [/quote]
well, someone has to constitute that 95%
;o
Bastard
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[quote]BFG wrote:
nephorm wrote:
I understand all that… but I don’t drink, I don’t dance, and I don’t mingle very well.
well, someone has to constitute that 95%
;o
Bastard
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online dating can be fun. You need a decent picture, you need to spend some time reading other people’s profiles because believe me a well written profile is the difference between getting no smiles and a lot.
There is just a lot of politics, but just as much as there is in a bar/club.
I’ve hooked up with a knockout chick who had a six pack 
[quote]BFG wrote:
well, someone has to constitute that 95%
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Ouch. I don’t think I’ve been properly “owned” on the T-forums before. Thanks for that!
[quote]elevationgain wrote:
Dude do you grocery shop? Go to church?
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Rarely and no. And really, I don’t like to harrass people who are trying to get their shopping done. At least with online dating, there’s no question why you’re both there. Either you’re both interested, or you aren’t.
[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
If you don’t mingle well, then that is a whole other issue. If you can’t have fun hanging out with your friends or talking to strangers, then you really have to work on that. And not just for the bar/club scene.
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Good advice, Nate, and I generally agree with you. I’m just not a club person; if I had friends who wanted to go out, I’d be ok with that… but I’m just not going to go by myself.
Nep, go hang out at a sports bar. Sit at the bar. Watch the TV. You don’t have to drink a lot, but maybe a bit, and you’ll end up talking to people about the game, unless you don’t want to.
Do that a bit, eventually a woman will mistake her way to the bar and talk to you.
It might take days or weeks, but hell, it doesn’t cost much, you get to watch and talk sports, and you get to see all kinds of humorous jackasses to boot!
Oh, shoot, I was taking you seriously again… my bad.
P.S. If you go enough times to learn the name of the bartender or waitresses, they will talk about you… at least if you appear to be in their age group!
[quote]vroom wrote:
Oh, shoot, I was taking you seriously again… my bad.
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Wow. I’m confused.
[quote]
P.S. If you go enough times to learn the name of the bartender or waitresses, they will talk about you… at least if you appear to be in their age group![/quote]
Unfortunately, my progeria pretty much knocks that out of the running.
It’s always gotta be something doesn’t it?
[quote]BFG wrote:
well, someone has to constitute that 95%
nephorm wrote:
Ouch. I don’t think I’ve been properly “owned” on the T-forums before. Thanks for that![/quote]
hey … my hair, your words, what fun is life without a little shredding on one another?
seriously, you come off as a nice as hell guy that will randomly stumble across the girl of your dreams … or be single forever
(DAMNIT … i just had to say that last part … idiot)
Bastard