Thank all the Gods, gods, God, god, and everything else.
I sure as fuck don’t want to be cuddling up next to a dude.
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Why do you do this to me?
This thread was kind of a let down, comedically. Appreciate y’all that tried though.
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You were supposed to keep us quiet.
Geez.
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Stop projecting your childhood on us sir.
Hey man, it’s number of partners, not number of parents being discussed in this thread.
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It is associated with positive traits in men, and negative traits in women. The thing is, if a woman wants it, she has access to sex with men whenever she wants. Men do not have that access unless they are good looking, have lots of money, a great personality (the positive traits), or sleeps with other men.
Because of these differences, a woman that had lots of partners is seen as less in the dating market. I think the thought is that if she was so willing to put out before, what happens when there is a rocky part of the relationship? When she is out on a girls night? Of course, this type of logic doesn’t always hold up. Some of these women become loyal partners.
I also think there is some logic that men use that a partner with a high body count means that they aren’t anything special to the woman. Like she put out for all these club / bar dudes, am I the same as them to her? Of course, that isn’t always true either.
These type of things do come down to insecurity. Insecurity isn’t necessarily an invalid feeling though. It may or may not be valid depending on the circumstance. I think it should be okay to acknowledge that it is something that very well could make men insecure, but that insecurity is a natural response.
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Well, I thought you wanted some humor… I was just trying again.
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That’s a good point. I have a flagrantly hypergamous second cousin who wouldn’t accept any man for a husband who was not only highly paid, but a highly-skilled professional. Some rich guy who owned a chain of restaurants or stores or had whatever business selling things? Nope. A good man with a modest income? Nope. She eventually found a dentist.
Is this considered a——behavior? What about a woman who wants a guy who “makes her laugh?” I mean, she will reject men who are not funny.
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If the guy is attractive he will be funny to her (most likely).
It is actually a good test of interest IMO. Tell the worst joke you know and observe the reaction.
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I think that is among the traits a woman may prefer, but not necessarily the only trait a woman prefers.
If you ask any given woman she’d probably list it off the top of her head like “Smart, funny, interesting, well built, driven, caring, etc.”.
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Almost 100 comments in, and nobody’s told OP to roll back his training max a couple cycles and add some conditioning?
I’m not gonna lie, I’m disappointed guys.
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My son a few years ago (he was about 8 I think) found my old iPod with a twisted sister album on it. He took a look at the cover and then with big eyes said
“Man, Dad those are some ugly women”
“Those are dudes”
The look of shock was priceless
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Lol, 3. The number most guys would kill to hear when they ask that question.
And cmon guys, we really don’t need to turn this into another thread about women asking for too much, especially when this is a thread about an immature dude whose girl hasn’t slept around much.
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Well to be fair -
He didn’t ask what his BF percentage was with a picture without holding a shoe.
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Yes.
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agreed. It’s like poop jokes. Repeated but never seems to get old
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If you are referring to men’s obsession with sex and women, which I think is exacerbated in the current day, no, it will never get old. Nearly all men on earth are invested in this.
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Wow, This thread has covered a ton of topics. I guess what I’ve learned is that Twisted sister and Mariah Carey have the same message and use the same hair products?
I think I learned 3 doesn’t put her outside of what is the normal range of say 2-8. I’m sure the other girls I’ve dated were probably within that range as well, I just never asked.
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Don’t forget to learn the lesson about questions you may not want the answer to.
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