Wait, what? What’s brutal?
I think there’s generally a big difference in the mindset of people in those situations too though, right?
Anna, respectfully - you are one of the least qualified individuals to speak as to why people want to be in relationships…
You view them as contractual in nature and run a Cost-Benefit Analysis before comitting to an “Academics with Benefits” type arrangement, that frankly makes no fucking sense at all.
Both are likely incels to be completely honest with you… they are in graduate school for economics. Hardly the sexiest profession.
Agree to emotional support; this is the point I was trying to make for @BrickHead
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Yes, but I think this changes with time too. You cannot expect someone to act towards their 2-week girlfriend the same way they would act towards their 10-year wife. But if you were dating a girl for 10 years, what the fuck is the difference between being married and dating at that point… Taxes?
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oh, I think I misinterpreted your statement. My teammates are girls- actual friends who I don’t expect any help from.
This isn’t actually that uncommon at my school. girls will date guys to get extra help in CS classes
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my mistake for assuming - I believed them to be males. It’s slightly more believable to me that they are female and virgins, because despite what pop-culture magazines insist - women can go without sex and be fine. Men without sex turn into violent little incels… no such thing as a female incel IMO (but that’s a topic for another thread).
(joking) I always suspected those porn movies were real. Wouldn’t be the first time a gal has used her body to gain an advantage… I’d shame this situation, but honestly it’s still the nerd getting laid who feels like they’re winning.
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And a legally binding contract based on emotion that usually fucks the male statistically 
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Eh, I was with one that this was definitely NOT the case.
Her sex drive was higher than mine on boatloads of androgens.
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I think libido falls into a bell curve. Men and women have separate bell curves, but they can overlap.
She must have been an outlier if you’re anything like me on androgens in excess.
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Until you marry them.
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Definitely an outlier. Insanely hot and insanely crazy too.
Like kill you in your sleep crazy, but she was a lot of fun. She was also a sub completely.
Her mom was Brazilian and her dad was half white / half Japanese.
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I’ve found that women who identify as sub or dom (into BDSM) are usually on the right end of the libido bell curve. Red heads too.
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She was more into just wanting to be completely controlled by her man in all aspects and your word is law to the extreme.
Like if we were in a large crowd and you told her to strip - she would do it no questions asked immediately because you said so. (not that I did that, but it was uhhhhh eye opening?)
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I was thinking more like…
I guess I should’ve closed my eyes
When you drove me to the place where your horses run free
'Cause I felt a little ill when I saw all the pictures
Of the jockeys that were there before me
Believe it or not, I started to worry
I wondered if I had enough class
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Why do some women put the blame on male insecurity? It’s okay for men to have standards, same as it’s okay for women to have standards. If a man doesn’t find a woman that’s slept around a lot attractive, that’s fine. Fine in the same way that a woman might find a guy that doesn’t make any money or isn’t 6ft+ unattractive.
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This is a very broad/generalizing statement. Could you be more specific?
Sorry dude but, I am pretty sure Prince wrote the lyrics. So, why you blaming women?
Edited to “some women”.
A large majority of men have a body count number that they will struggle to accept. A woman that has had a lot of partners will struggle more in the dating market compared to a woman that doesn’t. Rather than take accountability or accept that the man might not find it attractive, it is often blamed on misogyny or insecurity of the male. This happens all the time @ChickenLittle
I apologize if I came across as demonizing women, that was not my intention at all. It was just a question put towards the theme of the lyrics.
I think it’s pretty uncommon for women to judge men based on their body count (unless it’s unreasonably high) frankly.
A man with double digits is still highly likely to maintain a marriage with little to no fallout.
A woman with double digits is significantly less likely to have a long-lasting marriage. Data supports this claim, and men, typically, support this as well.
Given these inherent differences, I think some differences in opinions between men and women are warranted; of course, these lead to societal behaviors that make it easy to claim victimhood.
As for women (generalizing here) blaming men for problems the woman herself created, this is more of a cultural issue I believe… Really not too different from the fat-acceptance people who blame non-fat folks for not being attracted to them.
We have a culture which allows people to blame others for their self-proclaimed victimhood, then demand that society bends to accept their typically unacceptable actions (like having a 3-digit body count). Social media, SJWs, PC dweebs, and their ilk have allowed these types to self-marginalize and become a festering problem which the rest of us have to deal with.
^All this, when the only thing anyone has a right to do about this situation, is to take accountability for their actions and own both the pros and cons of their choices. But “being responsible” is hardly sexy in the public eye, and the only accountability we hold is of others, rather than ourselves.
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Yeah alot of this was discussed in a thread a month or so ago. I may have made similar points myself. I probably shouldn’t have asked the question, I was typing a bit fast and was a bit direct, which I didn’t mean to be. Just wanted to hear a different perspective as ChickenLittle is of the ladykind.
There are many, many inherent differences, societal and biological. There’s a search for equality that can not and will not ever happen. That’s not because one gender is better than the other, nothing of the such, but because we are different.
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