Forgot to add… how did it work out for you with her? 
It’s been a while, but I used to play the field pretty hard. Or whatever it’s called now.
It would’ve been pointless to ask most of the women how many partners they had, because they wouldn’t remember accurately. And who gaf. They knew what they liked, what I liked and were not shy about it. Great and plentiful sex.
She probably has had a dick bigger than yours but she’s still with you because she wants to be, so don’t worry about it.
Dude, this is YOUR time. Time is a commodity that you can never recover once squandered.
Don’t be in a hurry to find the right one. God will send you someone when the time is right and you are both ready for each other.’
Until then you have to experience life and learn well what is real, what just feels real, and what feels real bad. When that tingle in the back of the mind tells you to run on this one or one of the next ones, it is your LEARNED INTUITION trying to warn you before stepping in a pile of it…
At 22 HAVE FUN, get RIPPED, experience new things…
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Not trying to be judgmental, but you’ve been with 7 women and she’s been with 3 guys. Simple grade school math, but 7 is more than double 3. Why are you allowed to have more partners than her? Seems to me like an outdated male chauvinistic attitude. Get over it. The question really should be, is she right for you? If not, move on and let her find someone else.
I know youre only 22…but damn.
Were riding a knifes edge of factors likely leading to a massive economic calamity and staring down the barrel of WW3 right now.
Id be more worried about if she can pluck a fucking chicken and maintain a garden than if she had sex with 3 guys in the world where sex is everywhere, all the time.
It is insanity that this is your priority. Secure resources.
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Yes, yes you are being a jerk.
The better question is - why would it matter? Is a healthy sex life important to you? If so, why would you want to be with a partner that didn’t enjoy sex. Examine why you are hung up on that, and get over it. People have pasts, people enjoy sex. Why judge them for it? Is it that you are super religious? In which case it seems like you already have a pretty huge problem there yourself. But if that isn’t a factor, just enjoy your time and get over your s*!t.
Be warned that most girls will divide their body count by 3 (or more).
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I don’t usually quote myself, but this thread kinda revived and it needs said again. 
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Its the dozen or so that she was awake with that you need to worry about.
I’m curious to what this means
As for the topic: I’m my wife’s first bf and the only man she’s kissed, let alone slept with. I’d definitely argue that most men prefer women with low body counts, as do I, and that’s perfectly fine. Just like how most women prefer taller men. People should be entilted to their sexual/romantic preferences in a partner… assuming they can get that.
And I’d take a woman with a body count of 100 who’s honest about it than a woman with a body count of 10 who lies about it (whether directly or by omission). You can’t date/marry a liar.
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Its just a play on the sleeping with/slept with misnomer.
I slept with my wife & her best friend on a camping trip once. Didn’t bang either of them though. 
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And guys will multiply it (by 3x or more ) 
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Multiply her answer by 5x.
Women do it all the time. What guy is completely honest when pursuing a woman?
I was/still am. Though it’s less honesty out of morality and more that I’m extremely disagreeable (just google Big 5 personality traits). The idea that I have to lie for someone else’s feelings or some weird social game just pisses me off.
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Samezies
I won’t lie to try get someone on the line if I’m romantically interested.
I remember my parents tried to set me up with this nice jewish girl. She was attractive, amazing, intelligent… the whole package.
But she’s four years younger, and VERY innocent. I immediately said to my parents “I’m not a bad kid, but I can’t go out with someone like this”
“why not?”
“Because I don’t want someone like her to be introduced to my world. She still harbors a kind of childlike innocence. I think that’s sweet, but I don’t think we are compatible. I would have to fundamentally change who I am in order to go out with someone like this”
The answer I got was “just go out with her, everyone has their backage. Sprinkle it in over time!”
Go out with her… But I can’t introduce her to my friends… or show her my interests like horror films, metal music, combat sports etc… I smoke pot from time to time, I imagine that’d be a dealbreaker for her (remember SUPER innocent).
I think she’s an amazing individual, but she needs to get a little bit older because I don’t want to be that one person who introduces her to metal concerts, horror films, I’ll never introduce someone to pot (or alcohol for that matter)… I’m friends with her now as opposed to pursuing anything.
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Maybe that’s a sign to find new friends.
Your potential mate doesn’t need to share all of your interests.
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In my mind it’s pretty important that they don’t. I’m not saying don’t have lots of shared interests, but I feel there’s gotta be things you like and do away from each other. Dependency can sometimes become a real issue otherwise.
really? I don’t think I could date someone who doesn’t share at least some of my interests unless it’s a purely “functional” relationship (e.g. arranged marriage to help family)
I think you misread what I said. Of course you should have some shared interests - that’s important too! I’m implying that not having some things that are just “you” things could be potentially unhealthy long-term.
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oh yeah, definitely
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