I go to a big high-school. I never see her lol. All I can do is say hi in the hallway when going to class.
I heard asking straight out of nowhere is stupid. If it were the other way around I wouldn’t hang with someone without knowing them a bit.
If it were the other way around, when would you want to be asked out?
Idk man idk. I get contradicting advice. It’s a like a stupid game.
You don’t know when you would want to be asked out?
But you’ve been texting her for a week and a half … just meet up already - honest question: what are you waiting for?
Man, I remember being 17/18, hearing fakakta shit like this and taking as gospel…But ask yourself this … why is it stupid? Ask that question and prepare to hear red-herrings and circular logic…it’s the monkey’s and ladder logic … we don’t know WHY we’re beating you when you touch the ladder, it’s just something we’ve always done.
So are you choosing to go with the safe advice vs the one that puts you out there and makes you “vulnerable”? Dude, you’re missing out at chances to make decisions that YOU think are right and learning from either a success or a failure … either way, you’re growing…
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Honest advice-- ask her out now, or all your gunna be is “texting friends” and the guy who had the balls to ask her out right away will be taking her out while you were wishing you did.
Bro, your in HS. Don’t worry about asking a girl out and being rejected. That’s life. It will happen, and when it does don’t even let it affect you. You said your in a big HS so there’s plenty of tail there. Be confident, talk to girls in person and ask them out. GL
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There’s not going to be some secret combination of words and texts sent over a specific amount of days that that suddenly unlock the “get a date achievement” here. There’s no playbook for a reason.
If this person is interested in going on a date, when you ask, they will respond with an affirmative. If, when you ask, they respond with a non-affirmative (because people at your age tend to be not great at confrontation…and this continues into adulthood as well), then they are not interested in you.
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“Hey, wanna grab(sit at) lunch together tomorrow?”
/done
I expect a wedding invite. I give great speeches and give good presents.
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Over text or in person? I never see her irl which sucks. I could ask her if she would like to study for finals with me after school tomorrow
Really?? In text dummy.
Don’t do this. You’re not going to study. Ask her out on a legit date. Study after. Ask her to
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Any ideas. Where on a date. I can stay after school in the after school cafeteria.
That part’s up to you bud … I don’t know shit about where you live or any other logistical information - What are the girl’s interests? Tailor a quick outing around that … or if you don’t really know, like a 30 min coffee date or an equivalent kind of date … shit if your cafeteria is sufficient, there you go … maybe go for a walk around campus of the neighborhood or w/e … again, I don’t know where you live or anything about it, use your imagination…
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Cafeteria definitely. It’s thunderstorms all week.
Ask her to go kite flying. If she agrees, you know she’s into making poor decisions.
That means you’re in.
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Dude, chill with those memes.
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Have u ever talked to a girl in person before?
Judging by the posts she liked in that time frame. I think she’s been hurt by some dude who used her. Typically happens to nice girls. 
I guess I can’t blame her. Who knows. She might change her mind. I the meantime I won’t get my hopes up and continue getting stronger lol.
Did you ask her?