I did I was politely rejected. She said she’s busy and isn’t that interested in a relationship.
Cool man. You asked, now you can check her off the list and move on to something better.
I think it was Joe Girard who wrote “How to Sell Anything to Anybody” who said, learn to love the word no.
If you close ten percent of the time, once you collect nine no’s, the next one is a yes.
Just be yourself bro, move on to the next. Be a nice guy, be kind, be confident.
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Yeah bro!
Looks like I’m throwing in the towel atm. Cause the rest of the girls in my school are ugly asf.
…and you’re in a position to be choosy, are you?
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You’re terrible at statistics… 
Don’t you go to a big school lol … this can’t possibly be true
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I just looked at the yearbook
I’m not just gonna date anyone.
Not with that attitude.
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This is what I was saying. There are only 2-3 good looking girls at your school that’s so big that you don’t even see this girl regularly?
Look at your attitude. You’ve been repeatedly rejected, and your communication skills are obviously lacking, yet you’re gonna sit here and say most of the girls are ugly and beneath you.
Let me let you in on a little secret that internet incels don’t know - guys don’t need good looks or muscular bodies to get laid. How do you know that, you ask? Because I was 6’4 165-170 with a Jew fro in high school and I dated 3 of the hottest girls in school, all because I could make them laugh, and hold a conversation. Lots of lonely, bitter guys think girls hold all the keys to the bedroom, but I’ve seen a ton of hot girls with ugly guys, and I’ve never seen a handsome, jacked guy with an ugly, fat girl. Believe it or not, guys can get by strictly on personality, and girls are forced to meet minimum aesthetic standards.
My point here is, you’re calling girls “cowards” for rejecting you, but you seem to be unable to initiate or hold a proper conversation without screwing it up within 24 hours. You have to date someone before you say you won’t date just anyone.
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Cmon that’s not exactly fair to say that. I never even get a chance to talk in person. School is too damn big. It’s not like I can start a conversation in the hallway when we’re all going to different classes. I’m always stuck to fucking texting and it always goes to shit because you can’t build rapport behind a screen.
Not to mention I was following those so called “rules” to texting. Trying to make me someone I’m not. They say ask interesting questions but the examples are boring asf.
That’s my point, dude. If you get someone’s number, you don’t have to do anything miraculous to get some face to face time with the person.
You can absolutely build rapport behind a screen, you just won’t know whether that rapport is genuine or not until you’re not behind a screen. That being said, it is no one’s fault but your own that you are failing to move the relationship beyond the text stage. If you’re pulling numbers, you’re probably not a bad looking guy, so you’re either trying too hard or you’re not too keen on social cues, or both. The good news is this is fixable. But it is only fixable if you are amenable to the idea that it is a shortcoming on your part. I promise you, the day you start blaming girls for not being interested in you is the day you become celibate.
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ok so there was this one girl I hit up on snapchat and we even had good conversations. She was in this one class and even rubbed lotion on my hand for whatever reason. But yk what I never talked to her person cause I was too damn nervous :/. That’s why it went to the shitter. Also the girl who I recently got rejected by. There were times where I would walk past her in the hallway but I was too nervous to say hi or anything. I get so nervous and idk why I think this is the main problem.
How do I stop being nervous
I was always nervous with girls. Just gotta push through it, and when you treat them like people, and not like potential flings, it becomes a lot less awkward.
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Have you considered nihilism?
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Uh no?
Talking about this is making me salty.
All those cute girls I failed with…
You ended that sentence with a question mark. Do you not know if you have considered it?