So you think there’s no purpose to getting friends and only a purpose to getting objects. This lines up with your current attitude. Friends are everything to me. There is great purpose in getting good friends.
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How about just being genuinely nice to people you meet? Male, female, gay, trans, kids, parents, grandparents, teachers, beggars, rich businessmen, the barber, the lady at the counter, and so on. See where it goes from there, just be patient. Sounds like a plan?
PS stop reading thoughtcatalog
Oh, thank you! I meant the meme specifically, though, haha.
I’m a licensed clinical social worker, but yes, work as a psychotherapist.
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kinda sounds like you’re treating them like pokemon. Don’t treat women like pokemon.
Ik there is. I have close friends. But why girls specifically.
I’ll stop confusing myself.
I doubt it.
For real?
Welp gonna make new friends in college.
You doubt I have close friends?
Was what I said confusing somehow?
Why do you doubt?
Why should I blindly believe you?
Because right now, you have to imagine girls taking a shit to talk to them, and when you DO talk to them you’re a wreck, so having female friends that you can just talk to cannot possibly hurt at this point.
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Hell, if nothing else, is this really the way you want to have a victory? Is this the story you wanna tell your kids?
“Dad, how did you and mommy meet?”
“Oh son, lemme tell you: I had to fantasize about a LOT of pooping bald girls before I finally considered your mom beneath me enough to ask her out on a date”
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“And before that I had to ask a bunch of totally random dudes on the internet for advice - which I didn’t do any of anyway”
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I honestly just got that from an article online. I am not gonna read another one of these stupid articles.
What do you expect me to do “whang”
it’s Summer. It’s not like I’m in school or can drive places. Nothing wrong with getting advice from experienced people. I certainly will use it and it will turn me into a more desirable person.
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Spend this downtime improving yourself.
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I’m starting to think he doesn’t know what that means. He doesn’t seem to be strong in the independent thinking/critical thinking department…either that or he’s a fantastic troll
Troll? Nah, why I would waste your time and my time. That’s would just be annoying and childish.