You open yourself up to a LOT of opportunities if that is the case.
By looks I didn’t mean over the top. I just find them attractive through sight. I don’t know what I want in looks it’s just whatever my brain tells me. If I’m not physically attracted wouldn’t the relationship turn to shambles.
Don’t know … you haven’t tried it … it’ll turn into what you want it to turn into … seems to me you know fuck all about girls on any real level … they’re not something you possess. Get to know some girls that share the same interests as you regardless of their looks or what you can get out of them that benefits you …
I guess what I’m saying is go make some friends that are girls man … you’ll learn a lot more from them than you will from is dude
Keep in mind there are more types of relationships than just romantic/sexual
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You have to dispense with the girls that just want attention and start looking for the ones that want to get down.
Also- too many words. I was the blowjob practice field for 2 public high schools and 3 local catholic girls schools through out my teens.
The most I ever had to say was “Yeah. Go ahead.”,because when they do all of the talking they are convincing themselves that you are what they’re looking for. They also do all of the talking with each other, so don’t be a douche.
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TBH when I saw the notification for your reply I had guessed it was going to be along the lines of drowning the hypothetical advice seeker.
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I REALLY hope this is a Deep Water pun…
I’m sure there’s a philosophical term for when you’re wanting a result and then gain that result. If that does exist, this is it haha.
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I can’t read girls. They’re confusing.
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What are signs someone is interested or not
Re-read every reply you got from your instagram DM
Thats how you know
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I already explained all of that.
Her method of response was not unique to her gender.
They volunteer to meet up… smile at you, laugh at your jokes and touch you …IN PERSON
From those texts you come across as having no social skills or experience with women, spend the summer going to parties and
just go around starting a bunch of 3 minutes conversations with girls. End each interaction first and then move on to another. You will shocked how many will come back later in the night.
OR: get raging shithoused, dress a douchey as possible and go around shouting to your best brahh “I got too much molly on me think i’ll have to throw it away”…
I only read this up to here.
I think you may be giving off some desperation vibes…Chicks pick up on that.
I will tell you my experiences…keep in mind, this was in the mid to late 90s.
So, in my early teens I was invisible to girls…an absolute loser.
Then, by 15, I started to experiment with drugs. At 16 I was chasing the dragon and shooting up smack and coke. Not everyday or anything, but often enough to get people talking.
Me and my buddys (some of them, we were a part of a larger group which divided itself because of…well, drugs, duh) didn’t give a fuck about girls, just drugs, drinking, playing music, etc. Girls weren’t really on our minds. Thing with smack is, it makes you feel above others. Like you’re better than them. And act like it too.
Looking back, as stupid as it seems, that indifference we had towards others got the girls attention, and the more other guys warned them not to mess with us, cause “those guys are into some heavy shit” the more they gravitated towards us. I guess they thought we were interesting and projected a dangerous vibe.
They wanted to hang out, smoke blunts, ask us if we really did heavy drugs, which we always denied even though it was obvious we did.
I was really shy back then but the signs some girls sent my way were so obvious that I couldn’t NOT make a move.
Unless I found her to be unworthy (I remember telling one off because she had never heard of Henry Miller, and since I masturbated to Sexus when I was 14 I considered myself a cultivated and well read person roflmao).
What am I getting at here?
Obviously, don’t try heavy drugs. While times were great back then, it ended up real badly for some of us. And we were a bunch of losers, but girls were just too young to realize it.
What I’m saying is, make yourself interesting.
If you do, more girls will be interested, maybe even initiate contact. You will have a lot more options then and will not seem so desperate.
Invest in yourself, read, learn something cool. For me, forming a band and playing some Nirvana or the Misfits songs was easy and enjoyable, for you, I don’t know, is playing Rock still cool? Become a DJ or some shit.
But also something long term, like start planning out your way in life. Get busy. At my age, no one cares if I play guitar in my basement or if I did drugs in my teens.
And also, learn some social skills. I got by without those back then, but they matter a lot for the rest of your life.
It will also be easy to aproach (and learn to aproach) girls if you have lots of stuff going on.
Chloroform works good too, as a short term solution.
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Also, since you’re a Christian, consider those Christian Mission things where you travel abroad. You will meet like minded broads.
Also…roofies in the communion wine is a winner. Trust me on this.
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Yeah same thing happened for me. My friends and I were just playing in a Black Metal band, playing DnD or whatever, just having fun and being ourselves and we didn’t really care about girls. We didn’t needed them to be happy, we weren’t desperate. And eventualy girls came to us and flirted with us. Even though our fashion styles and looks were horrible.
Most metal thing I’ve read all day … hahaha
Did you find some bald homeless girl wandering in the woods while you were out searching for your drummer who went missing in the same woods (it’s always the drummer … he was like, our 5th drummer)
Haha everyone’s fashion style was horrible when you look back. Even the girls dressed kind of tomboyish with the flannel shirts and whatnot.
A couple of us had a Black Metal band so we used to go with them and climb the cemetary gates to play with the Ouija board while blasting Moonspell and Craddle of Filth.
Fun times.
Dude it’s impossible to find a drummer ahahah! We were changing all the time!
That’s so true. My sister is 17 and when I look at girls her age now and compare to how they were dressed in our time… I wished I’d been born later ahah!
Oh yeah these were the times… Kept a Cradle poster in my room for like 10 years… And according to legends there’s a cover of Bergtrollets Hevn by me and a friend when we were 15 somewhere on the YouTubes, filmed by my mom’s Nokia 3310 (God what is stronger than a mother’s love…)