Honestly, I find OP’s tone and manner of expressing himself so abrasive and threatening, it’s hard for me to imagine that he isn’t part of the problem, regardless of the girlfriend’s behavior or her mother’s, both of which sound awful. It sounds like a bunch of similarly selfish, unpleasant people found each other and are now enjoying the results.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Honestly, I find OP’s tone and manner of expressing himself so abrasive and threatening, it’s hard for me to imagine that he isn’t part of the problem, regardless of the girlfriend’s behavior or her mother’s, both of which sound awful. It sounds like a bunch of similarly selfish, unpleasant people found each other and are now enjoying the results.[/quote]
Emily, he is obviously deeply hurt by this.
People tend to be harsh when they feel betrayed.
At least he expressed himself in talking/posting and not in doing something for revenge.
My advice, walk away while the walkin’ is good. The last thing you need is to get tag-teamed by a psycho bitch and her psycho bitch mother.
Rob
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Honestly, I find OP’s tone and manner of expressing himself so abrasive and threatening, it’s hard for me to imagine that he isn’t part of the problem, regardless of the girlfriend’s behavior or her mother’s, both of which sound awful. It sounds like a bunch of similarly selfish, unpleasant people found each other and are now enjoying the results.[/quote]
It is also not outside the realm of possibility that since his first language is Russian he simply doesn’t grasp the nuances of English writing to the extent necessary to achieve appropriate levels of political correctness and non-abrasiveness to the fairer sex.
(psst OP, if your first language isn’t Russian, just play along anyway)
To clarify
English is my first language followed by Russian and Spanish(my dad is from Spain). I was born in the USA.
Yes I was abrasive in my form of writing but I’m sure you would too if your significant other betrayed you and her mother joined in on the action.
I will not visit her, have any contact with her and my telephone number has been changed. I have also blocked both of them on FB.
In the end I will just keep walking and forget about this unpleasant mess. Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.
you’re a sucker. Learn from this.
SkyzykS,
You got a way of constructing sentences that always make me bust out laughing. Quality!
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Mine is tomorrow.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Mine is tomorrow.[/quote]
Mine is tomorrow too! I’ve been pretty negative about having birthdays since I’m getting older but I guess they are a good thing; after all, the more you have the longer you live!!! lol 
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Strip clubs, and dolla’ bills…
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Strip clubs, and dolla’ bills…[/quote]
I’ll send her and her mothers a few pics as well…lulz.
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Strip clubs, and dolla’ bills…[/quote]
I’ll send her and her mothers a few pics as well…lulz.
[/quote]
a) Women crave attention and b) they have their own storyline in their heads and beyond a certain point there is nothing you can do to change that which leads me to c) sending them pictures will give them attention and will be reinterpreted to provide proof that she was right to whore around all along.
The best thing you can do is to cut ties completely and leave her with the nagging suspicion that you can and will do better and that its her loss.
This might even lead to her chasing you and you completely ignoring her messages then would also take her hamster for a spin.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Strip clubs, and dolla’ bills…[/quote]
I’ll send her and her mothers a few pics as well…lulz.
[/quote]
a) Women crave attention and b) they have their own storyline in their heads and beyond a certain point there is nothing you can do to change that which leads me to c) sending them pictures will give them attention and will be reinterpreted to provide proof that she was right to whore around all along.
The best thing you can do is to cut ties completely and leave her with the nagging suspicion that you can and will do better and that its her loss.
This might even lead to her chasing you and you completely ignoring her messages then would also take her hamster for a spin. [/quote]
However, if he found his [ex] girlfriend on the stage and sent pictures to her mom…
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Besides my birthday is in three weeks so at least I have something to look forward too.[/quote]
Strip clubs, and dolla’ bills…[/quote]
I’ll send her and her mothers a few pics as well…lulz.
[/quote]
a) Women crave attention and b) they have their own storyline in their heads and beyond a certain point there is nothing you can do to change that which leads me to c) sending them pictures will give them attention and will be reinterpreted to provide proof that she was right to whore around all along.
The best thing you can do is to cut ties completely and leave her with the nagging suspicion that you can and will do better and that its her loss.
This might even lead to her chasing you and you completely ignoring her messages then would also take her hamster for a spin. [/quote]
Thanks Orion. I’m moving on. Like I said I got bigger and better things to do with my life than brooding over a suka(Rus:bitch) and I certainly won’t be jumping in to another relationship at least not for a year or two.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
It’s not even clear to me the chick was cheating on him. Hell, nothing in this story is clear to me, but it sounds like she got into an accident while driving with a guy she had a long term friendship with. Mom sounds like a whack job, but the source of the whole story is pretty questionable so it’s hard to say.
Never the less, yes if a girl I cared about cheated on me then had a horrific accident, I’d still be loving and caring toward her. At least until I know she would be ok. I can’t turn it off just like that. I suspect you would be the same way. I’m pretty sure you had a child with your ex after she cheated on you so it seems you have more capacity to forgive than you are acting.[/quote]
Last time I checked, this was a GIRLFRIEND. Not a wife. Not a mother of his kids. A GIRLFRIEND with a bitchy mother who has a propensity to share a room with 8 guys while he wasn’t there…
That’s a little bit different than the point you were (incorrectly) attempting to make about MY life (which you know very little about), isn’t it?
What’s unclear? The mother, in a moment of grief, busted her cheating daughter on Facebook… Then threatened him. What about this makes you think, “hmm, I’d better wait and see if she’s OK”? Fuck that. OP is making the right decision and moving on with out fueling this Jerry Springer show any further.[/quote]
I know way more about when your children were born, when you were married and what you’ve attributed as the demise of your marriage than anyone here knows about the situation with our young Russian friend. I’ve read the words you yourself have put down in these forums. All we know about this situation is what OP read on Facebook from his girlfriends mother. That’s a second hand account delivered thru two online forums! If I got the facts wrong about you, how could any of us get it right about this kids situation other than a lucky guess?
Girlfriend might not have even been in an accident. Girlfriend and Mom might be conspiring to hurt Dmitri.
Girlfriend might have been in an accident and Mom blames Dmitri for upsetting her daughter causing the crash.
Mom might have thought the boy in the car with her was Dmitri and that’s why she said the other person was her boyfriend.
Mom might have purposefully called the other guy “boyfriend” just because she doesn’t like Dmitri and wanted to hurt him.
The fact is we don’t know shit. As far as we know he hasn’t even talked to her or any mutual friends.
And LOFL at everyone who thinks sleeping in a room with eight guys means something happened. That’s pretty much a guarantee nothing did happen. News flash, when a girl who has a boyfriend sleeps in the same room with eight guys who aren’t her boyfriend and something DOES happen, it’s called one of two things; Gang Rape or Porn Shoot. Otherwise (and 99% of the time) nothing did happen. Am I the only one here who, in his early 20’s found himself in some pretty strange sleeping arrangements?
I can’t even describe some of the crazy college dormitory situations that occurred. One not too crazy to describe was when I went on a weekend ski trip with a friend. A girl he worked with asked if she could come. We got a Motel 6 room with two beds. She started out sleeping in the second bed but “got cold” and ended up sleeping right between us. Nothing happened. From the sound of you all, you think if a 19 year old chick sleeps between two 21 year old guys it automatically means we got down and dirty. Nothing happening ain’t so uncommon.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
It’s not even clear to me the chick was cheating on him. Hell, nothing in this story is clear to me, but it sounds like she got into an accident while driving with a guy she had a long term friendship with. Mom sounds like a whack job, but the source of the whole story is pretty questionable so it’s hard to say.
Never the less, yes if a girl I cared about cheated on me then had a horrific accident, I’d still be loving and caring toward her. At least until I know she would be ok. I can’t turn it off just like that. I suspect you would be the same way. I’m pretty sure you had a child with your ex after she cheated on you so it seems you have more capacity to forgive than you are acting.[/quote]
Last time I checked, this was a GIRLFRIEND. Not a wife. Not a mother of his kids. A GIRLFRIEND with a bitchy mother who has a propensity to share a room with 8 guys while he wasn’t there…
That’s a little bit different than the point you were (incorrectly) attempting to make about MY life (which you know very little about), isn’t it?
What’s unclear? The mother, in a moment of grief, busted her cheating daughter on Facebook… Then threatened him. What about this makes you think, “hmm, I’d better wait and see if she’s OK”? Fuck that. OP is making the right decision and moving on with out fueling this Jerry Springer show any further.[/quote]
I know way more about when your children were born, when you were married and what you’ve attributed as the demise of your marriage than anyone here knows about the situation with our young Russian friend. I’ve read the words you yourself have put down in these forums. All we know about this situation is what OP read on Facebook from his girlfriends mother. That’s a second hand account delivered thru two online forums! If I got the facts wrong about you, how could any of us get it right about this kids situation other than a lucky guess?
Girlfriend might not have even been in an accident. Girlfriend and Mom might be conspiring to hurt Dmitri.
Girlfriend might have been in an accident and Mom blames Dmitri for upsetting her daughter causing the crash.
Mom might have thought the boy in the car with her was Dmitri and that’s why she said the other person was her boyfriend.
Mom might have purposefully called the other guy “boyfriend” just because she doesn’t like Dmitri and wanted to hurt him.
The fact is we don’t know shit. As far as we know he hasn’t even talked to her or any mutual friends.
And LOFL at everyone who thinks sleeping in a room with eight guys means something happened. That’s pretty much a guarantee nothing did happen. News flash, when a girl who has a boyfriend sleeps in the same room with eight guys who aren’t her boyfriend and something DOES happen, it’s called one of two things; Gang Rape or Porn Shoot. Otherwise (and 99% of the time) nothing did happen. Am I the only one here who, in his early 20’s found himself in some pretty strange sleeping arrangements?
I can’t even describe some of the crazy college dormitory situations that occurred. One not too crazy to describe was when I went on a weekend ski trip with a friend. A girl he worked with asked if she could come. We got a Motel 6 room with two beds. She started out sleeping in the second bed but “got cold” and ended up sleeping right between us. Nothing happened. From the sound of you all, you think if a 19 year old chick sleeps between two 21 year old guys it automatically means we got down and dirty. Nothing happening ain’t so uncommon.[/quote]
I actually found “nothing happening” to be all to dismaying common during my late teens…
[quote]on edge wrote:
And LOFL at everyone who thinks sleeping in a room with eight guys means something happened. That’s pretty much a guarantee nothing did happen. News flash, when a girl who has a boyfriend sleeps in the same room with eight guys who aren’t her boyfriend and something DOES happen, it’s called one of two things; Gang Rape or Porn Shoot. Otherwise (and 99% of the time) nothing did happen. Am I the only one here who, in his early 20’s found himself in some pretty strange sleeping arrangements?
I can’t even describe some of the crazy college dormitory situations that occurred. One not too crazy to describe was when I went on a weekend ski trip with a friend. A girl he worked with asked if she could come. We got a Motel 6 room with two beds. She started out sleeping in the second bed but “got cold” and ended up sleeping right between us. Nothing happened. From the sound of you all, you think if a 19 year old chick sleeps between two 21 year old guys it automatically means we got down and dirty. Nothing happening ain’t so uncommon.[/quote]
A lot’s changed in the last three decades, my friend. Nineteen year old girls are not what they used to be.
[quote]on edge wrote:
She started out sleeping in the second bed but “got cold” and ended up sleeping right between us. An Eiffel Tower ensued.[/quote]
There I fixed that for you OE 
You are right though. I spent a weekend in Vegas in a room with 4 girls and nothing really happened.
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What was the mom’s ‘threat’?
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PIIIICCS??