You are either a psycho, a retard or a troll.
[quote]on edge wrote:
You are either a psycho, a retard or a troll.[/quote]
retarded psycho troll
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]The-German wrote:
Is it possible that the mom is just a dumbass?[/quote]
I unintentionally left out a few details
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Sounds like you’ve been through a lot. It’s time for you to go out and unwind, get hammered. Then start fighting. Specifically with cops. They’ll understand.
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
this same guy has called me a “roid monkey” and “dumbass meathead” without having met me in person.
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Really? Huh.
[quote]on edge wrote:
You are either a psycho, a retard or a troll.[/quote]
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]The-German wrote:
Is it possible that the mom is just a dumbass?[/quote]
I unintentionally left out a few details
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This dude’s name would appear alot(and I mean ALOT) on her facebook statuses, the ones that say “I’m at such and such place with (Insert name here)”.
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He happens to be her ex-bf and although she has claimed many times they are just “good friends”, this same guy has called me a “roid monkey” and “dumbass meathead” without having met me in person. In case you’re wondering yes he’s a member of PF and a pencil neck.
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The majority of her friends are guys because she claims “women are just full of drama”
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About 2 weeks ago she went to Orlando with a group of EIGHT GUYS. Now I’m far, far from being insecure or possessive but this just raises a big red flag particularly when they’re all sleeping in the same room.
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Sounds like too much trouble to deal with even if she isn’t fucking someone else…which I highly doubt. Also, 8 guys and 1 girl in 1 room?
[quote]The-German wrote:
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
[quote]The-German wrote:
Is it possible that the mom is just a dumbass?[/quote]
I unintentionally left out a few details
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This dude’s name would appear alot(and I mean ALOT) on her facebook statuses, the ones that say “I’m at such and such place with (Insert name here)”.
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He happens to be her ex-bf and although she has claimed many times they are just “good friends”, this same guy has called me a “roid monkey” and “dumbass meathead” without having met me in person. In case you’re wondering yes he’s a member of PF and a pencil neck.
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The majority of her friends are guys because she claims “women are just full of drama”
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About 2 weeks ago she went to Orlando with a group of EIGHT GUYS. Now I’m far, far from being insecure or possessive but this just raises a big red flag particularly when they’re all sleeping in the same room.
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Sounds like too much trouble to deal with even if she isn’t fucking someone else…which I highly doubt. Also, 8 guys and 1 girl in 1 room?
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Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
I want to agree but all he has is a FB post by a Mom who hates his ass. Just an FYI, The in a room with 8 guys post would have been enough for me to drop her.
This relationship does sound one sided.
I maintain that the OP is just trolling. As soon as I saw this thread I recalled my first interaction with him.
Me: “Dude you must be going nuts over all the youtube videos Klokov is putting out recently!”
Guy whose name is ‘Dimitry Klokov Fan’: “Why do you say that?”
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In the fiction that the OP is not trolling however I think the answer is obvious. Your “girlfriend” is a whore. You’re TOO far from being insecure and possessive to the point that your girl doesn’t have to worry about getting caught.
Just forget you ever knew her and leave her. Don’t bother visiting her in the hospital. Just delete her number and move on.
First off I’m NOT a troll, contrary to what the individual above me and others have stated*. This has really happened to me and I was merely asking for advice/help from fellow strength trainers. The last time I checked this was not against forum rules.
Anyway, I have yet to get in contact with her and I don’t plan to either now or in the future. I’m just simply going to concentrate on my training for an upcoming meet and bring my grades up to par. I want to thank everyone for their support.
*When I wrote that I was in the middle of doing an 8 page essay on Spanglish and its impact on American Society for English class. So between that and slacking off here on T-Nation I was mixing words from my essay with what I originally intended to say on here. I’m a horrible multi-tasker. I had some really embarrassing typos as well. I just want that clarified once and for all.
*Also when i had the exchange with that other dude it was through FB.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
It’s not even clear to me the chick was cheating on him. Hell, nothing in this story is clear to me, but it sounds like she got into an accident while driving with a guy she had a long term friendship with. Mom sounds like a whack job, but the source of the whole story is pretty questionable so it’s hard to say.
Never the less, yes if a girl I cared about cheated on me then had a horrific accident, I’d still be loving and caring toward her. At least until I know she would be ok. I can’t turn it off just like that. I suspect you would be the same way. I’m pretty sure you had a child with your ex after she cheated on you so it seems you have more capacity to forgive than you are acting.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
It’s not even clear to me the chick was cheating on him. Hell, nothing in this story is clear to me, but it sounds like she got into an accident while driving with a guy she had a long term friendship with. Mom sounds like a whack job, but the source of the whole story is pretty questionable so it’s hard to say.
Never the less, yes if a girl I cared about cheated on me then had a horrific accident, I’d still be loving and caring toward her. At least until I know she would be ok. I can’t turn it off just like that. I suspect you would be the same way. I’m pretty sure you had a child with your ex after she cheated on you so it seems you have more capacity to forgive than you are acting.[/quote]
Her mother KNEW fairly well her daughter and I were dating and although she had qualms with me because I’m part Russian she still “respected” our relationship.
At the end of the day I’m just going to move forward and forget about this mess. I’m not going to inflict unnecessary emotional anguish upon myself over nothing. I’m currently working to get my Masters in Business Administration and that is by far more important than inflicting emotional anguish upon myself. Its not to say I’m don’t care but I need to worry more about my education than anything else and this is something I realized while reading some of the posts here.
It sounds like you have no idea what’s happened or why, or have any remote clue whatsoever wtf is going on, but yes, by all means, I think you should focus more on yourself and less on anyone else, and hedge your bets in every possible way so as to maximize outcomes for you and you alone!
That whore doesn’t deserve you. Assuming she’s alive, and all. But if she is alive, then FUCK HER, man. (By which I mean you should give her the cut direct, not actually go have intercourse with her. I hope that was clear.)
Regardless of whether this guys a troll or not. This is in the top 5 of my irrational fears. I always have that shitty feeling after I get into a fight with my gf that something outside of my control is going ot happen. It really fucking sucks
[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
Regardless of whether this guys a troll or not. This is in the top 5 of my irrational fears. I always have that shitty feeling after I get into a fight with my gf that something outside of my control is going ot happen. It really fucking sucks[/quote]
What are the other four?
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Her mother KNEW fairly well her daughter and I were dating and although she had qualms with me because I’m part Russian she still “respected” our relationship.
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But did she know that her daughter hopped on the bang bus and rode it to spring break?
She might need to know that. Like you should tell her via facebook.
[quote]DmitryKlokovFan wrote:
Hello all. I need help/advice on a big dilemma I’m in because I really am unsure what to do and do not want to make any rash decisions that will backfire on me in any way.
On Thursday night I had a fight with my gf over the phone and I got really pissed off and hung up on her mid sentence. The following day I called her in the evening a couple of times but no answer. Yesterday I log into my FB account to leave her a message when I see a tagged post from her mother with the following
HELP IN AN ACCIDENT I NEED HELP My daughter and her boyfriend are in serious condition. Please keep them in your prayers
At first I re read the post several times to make sure my eyes weren’t deceiving me and my original feeling of anguish turned to pure hate. Why the fuck was this dude tagged as her boyfriend and who or what caused this accident. When you’re angry and a Hatebreed song happens to be playing in the background it really is enough to make you get in your car, drive to the hospital and lay up the parties involved but luckily I was able to calm down and gather my thoughts and take a non-violent approach to the situation
Since I do not know the details of what transpired and I do not under any circumstances want to see her, the dude she was with or her family until she has recovered, I want to know what I can do to resolve this without adding insult to injury. Advice, comments, criticism,etc are most appreciated and welcome. Thanks.[/quote]
Just walk away from the situation. You may end up doing something you regret.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Confused by all of the replies about “being there for her until she gets better”. Fuck that. Bitch got into an accident WITH THE GUY SHE WAS FUCKING BEHIND OP’S BACK. And the Mother facilitated it… It’s no wonder the bottom feeding bitch has such wonderful character with a mother like that.
Walk away, dude, just walk away. She doesn’t deserve and OUNCE of your sympathy or support.[/quote]
It’s not even clear to me the chick was cheating on him. Hell, nothing in this story is clear to me, but it sounds like she got into an accident while driving with a guy she had a long term friendship with. Mom sounds like a whack job, but the source of the whole story is pretty questionable so it’s hard to say.
Never the less, yes if a girl I cared about cheated on me then had a horrific accident, I’d still be loving and caring toward her. At least until I know she would be ok. I can’t turn it off just like that. I suspect you would be the same way. I’m pretty sure you had a child with your ex after she cheated on you so it seems you have more capacity to forgive than you are acting.[/quote]
Last time I checked, this was a GIRLFRIEND. Not a wife. Not a mother of his kids. A GIRLFRIEND with a bitchy mother who has a propensity to share a room with 8 guys while he wasn’t there…
That’s a little bit different than the point you were (incorrectly) attempting to make about MY life (which you know very little about), isn’t it?
What’s unclear? The mother, in a moment of grief, busted her cheating daughter on facebook… Then threatened him. What about this makes you think, “hmm, I’d better wait and see if she’s OK”? Fuck that. OP is making the right decision and moving on with out fueling this Jerry Springer show any further.
More deadlifts.
That will fix everything.
Serious DKF, this sounds like a big mess to get yourself away from.