[quote]Artemisia wrote:
[quote]ashylarryku wrote:
[quote]Artemisia wrote:
Request for advice, AD’ers (more of a social question than a question of diet particulars) -
I’m going to be visiting my future mother- and father-in-law in a couple of weeks with my fiance. We’ll be spending about a week at their place, which is 3 hours away from home. I’m really worried about keeping things in line.
They’re not big on…food. Like, in my family (Italian/Greek), there is ALWAYS a ton of stuff in the fridge, pantry, etc. Eggs, tins of sardines, butter, frozen and fresh meat, lots of veggies and tomatoes, etc. is always available.
Their house is pretty much the opposite, and I can’t exactly make a special request for them to stock up on five pounds of ground beef…nor do I want to be sneaking out for bun-less double cheeseburgers and chugging protein shakes when no one’s paying attention.
Bring a cooler of cooked food? Uncooked, and explain that I’m cutting? Other alternative staring me in the face I’m missing? I can only imagine the reaction if I bust out a food scale.
I wouldn’t normally be so uptight about this, but it’s beach season and I’ve worked hard to keep my eyes on the prize. That, and their usual staple foods upset my stomach like no other (corn casserole, cream of mushroom chicken, and Bud Light is a good approximation).[/quote]
My advice, just say in the most relaxed tone “Yeah I just don’t eat carbs, they make my stomach upset”. Shrug your shoulders and act like it’s the most boring piece of information you’ve ever told.
If you try to explain the AD, you’re gonna dig yourself an awkward hole where everyone is gonna bombard you with questions. Just do your best to stick to the diet. If you’ve been on it for a while, a few days break isn’t gonna do anything if you get back on track ASAP.
-Adam[/quote]
Thanks, Adam. Ahh, avoidance. I like it! Unfortunately they all know I’m a nutrition student, and with his mother being diabetic, I’m sure I’ll be having to field some questions. But you are totally right…if I play it down, they’ll probably leave it alone.[/quote]
Exactly. I made the mistake about telling my family and now they bring it up whenever we’re eating with guests or something like that lol. It sucks, but that was my fault. So if it’s ever brought up I just try to brush it off with something like “Yeah I just like to watch what I eat and carbs make me feel bad” and then try to change the subject real fast lol. It usually works.
-Adam