GD? Great thread!! I have to agree with you and many other people had great points.
For those of you who don?t know me, I?d like to first introduce myself. My name is Christina AKA/ Solo?s girl. My husband is Solojobber. I?ve been reading and absorbing for a while? and making an occasional off topic post. To avoid hijacking the thread, I?ll tell you more about myself in another thread?
?The look at me crazy when I am doing weighted dips, good mornings, and deadlifts instead of lots of tricep cable work, leg curls, etc… I also keep my reps low, the turn their nose at this too. ?
?I strain, but I am not drenched in sweat (usually) I leave feeling refreshed!?
I can totally relate with you here. I?ve been doing low reps for several weeks now and people look at me as if I don?t know what I?m doing. It?s like their thinking that I can ONLY do five and straining to do them, then I should lighten the weight. For instance, I was doing leg presses the other day, and I heard some guys talking behind me saying that I had too much weight on there, so I?m not imagining what they are saying. Just because I am a girl and weight a buck o?five, doesn?t mean I can?t strain and lift hard. It does seem that the majority of people in my gym lift high reps bearing lighter loads. I was doing lat pull downs the other day (don?t flame me/ I do chin-ups and various other exercises to, I just change it up to shock the muscles)? anyway I cut in with a guy and he was lifting 85 (weak, I know…) well, when I move the weight to 75 (still not much, but only one notch under his) He looked at me strange while I was lifting slow and steady and concentrating on the negative. I believe in squeezing the crap out of the bar and flexing the muscles being trained. I think because I did only 5 reps and looked strained, that he thought that I was weak. He kept saying ?come on, one more? you can do more than that? with a smirk as his turn came and he put it back to 85 and proceeding to do like fifteen reps in record time. LOL When I cut back for my last set, I move it up. You should have seen his face? I?m sure he thought? what the hell is this girl doing, she can barely do 5 before? I think some people just think they look strong when they can do it fast and do lots of reps?.?Look how many I can do! Look how fast!? These people crack me up.
I started planning my workouts and I get in and out much quicker. Yesterday, this was my schedule: Squats 3 sets of 4-6
Deadlifts 3 sets of 4-6
Leg presses 3 sets of 4-6
Calf raises 3 sets of 6-10
Weighted standing calf raises 3 sets of 6-10
I was in and out in 45 minutes. Although I love being in the gym for hours and love the feeling of getting all sweaty (just feels like I?ve accomplished something), the short workouts are much more affective and proficient. It?s definitely the way to build rock solid muscles.
Goldberg, I agree with you totally about mindset. I?ve always have had the mindset that I?m thin person and I think that?s the reason that I was back into my clothes within a week of having my two children. I?m not saying it had everything to do with mindset, but a lot. I have friends that just accept the idea that they are going to be ?different? after having children, but you can?t think like that. Why should you be different? Sure some of us will have to work harder than others, but never except anything less that perfection I never had it in my head that I would be fat after children. I think you are on to something Goldberg? you should do some studies on it and write a book I told a friend a couple of months ago who was struggling with her weight (not fat, but struggling) she was lifting and doing cardio, eating healthy and all, but she still thought of herself as ?fat?. I told her to change her mindset. Think of her-self as ?thin? ? the ?true? her as thin. Not only did she start making progress, but her self-esteem changed too. She was more self confident. I know there is nothing scientific to back this up, but it is nice to know others think this way also. I have read some articles on self talk and how that affects ones life and emotions, but nothing about it effecting ones physical self.
Good topic?
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